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MaamJay -> RE: The BDSM Shopping List (11/15/2009 4:46:15 PM)
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One of My favourite toys cost 50c at a Salvation Army store - an oddly shaped wooden spoon which is flatter than most with just a slight curve that wraps the arse beautifully! So do check out the wooden spoons.
A feather duster is awesome for sensation play - bind up your sub's arms overhead, tell them to be still then tickle them behind the knees and watch them dance. However, it can also be a lovely calming sensation used more firmly and interspersed with a paddle or a flogger. I've also found pens with just a few feathers at the top, or fluffy stuff, also good for sensation. Speaking of pens, use markers for writing on their bodies but don't go overboard (potentially toxic ink).
In horsey stores, can get crops much cheaper than anywhere else, also that self-stick wrapping bandage makes great bondage tape and comes in a range of lovely colours including My fave purple. Buy a bit and attach your own straps or elastic for a gag.
Hardware stores (Bunnings in Australia) are just a paradise with so many pervertables - clamps, rope, cantilever boxes to stow all your small toys in, cheap candles in different colours and paintbrushes in a range of sizes for artistic wax play (use an old plate to stand all the burning candles on for safety and to save clean up), chain, D-rings, snaps, big strong hooks, velcro, different textured floor mats to put under your subby (hog tie them on a really coarse hairy mat and watch them squirm) ...
Pet stores - collars of course (and trying them on surreptitiously is half the fun!), matching leads (even some "dressy" ones with diamantes!), check chains can be easily linked with snaps and are a good length for between nipples, to use as hobbles etc, toys for doggie play, food and water bowls for pet play. I like to use kitty collars with bells on ankles and wrists, give the sub a task and tell them not to let the bells ring!
Hair supplies - all sorts of clamps, clips, ties (make your own cock rings). The clips with about 6 "teeth" on each side for hair make interesting marks used as skin clamps, use a whole row of them for a different "zipper" effect.
Fabric stores (Spotlight here) - a cheap hood can be made from some open-weave black fabric (make sure you can blow air through it and feel it on your wet palm - avoid hessian though as it's incredibly scritchy!) - just make a simple "sewn on 3 sides" bag with either elastic or a drawstring to close the opening. Can make simple mittens the same way. I found a mini Wartenburg wheel there too, for marking out patterns I think!
Bigger toys:
A friend of Mine made a "one bar prison" using the gas lift mechanism from an old office chair and fixing a metal plate at the top to which a variety of hollow dildos could be attached. Varying sizes of course, and he also had one which was a semi-closed hand (the fingers weren't folded down though so not quite a fist) which felt pretty amazing! You only need a hook overhead to which your sub's arms can be attached and they are well and truly stuck. Use for boys and girls (choice of holes for the latter). You can make it predicament bondage by raising them almost to tip toe with just a little slack in the rope ... when their legs get tired they sink further down onto the dildo. If you're really mean you attach rope to nipple clamps too so when they sink down to give their legs a rest, their nipples get a yank upwards too! An alternative mechanism was an old home gym, the upper parts of that were great for attaching subbies to! And they got a work out when trying to shift position!
An old rowing bench made a great inclinable spanking seat. And don't underestimate the fun to be had watching a naked subby on an exercise bike or treadmill too! Especially if you're standing by with your crop to offer "encouragement".
Don't forget to use hot and cold with lots of toys, a plain blunt butter knife placed in the freezer for a while will feel entirely different to a bound and blindfolded sub! Great mindfuck play (but NOT with someone for whom knife play is a hard limit!).
Have fun, be safe!
Maam Jay aka violet[A]
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