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Older Dom in Hayward CA - 11/12/2009 10:44:34 PM

DamagedPheonix

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Hello folks. I've been on CM for a while now under a different profile. It was just too sad and depressing. That one was me falling into a deep hole. This one is me starting to climb back out. Still pretty damaged emotionally, but getting better each day. Lately I've even been imagining getting into a relationship again. It'll be a while, but I'm seeing the possibility. In the mean time, I'm hoping to find friends in person and on-line.

I'm 53, male, Dom, sadist living the the San Francisco bay area. My experience in BDSM is kind of lopsided. I was in a 30 year marriage that ranged from vanilla to TPE but most of my experience has only been with one sub.

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RE: Older Dom in Hayward CA - 11/13/2009 1:26:10 AM

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RE: Older Dom in Hayward CA - 11/13/2009 2:08:23 AM

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Welcome ....from reading your profile it looks like you have been going through and are still going through an incredibly difficult time. You have the right idea of taking time to heal and to get some stability back into your life before looking for a new relationship/s. I wish you peace and comfort

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RE: Older Dom in Hayward CA - 11/13/2009 2:45:34 AM

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ORIGINAL: DamagedPheonix

Hello folks. I've been on CM for a while now under a different profile. It was just too sad and depressing. That one was me falling into a deep hole. This one is me starting to climb back out. Still pretty damaged emotionally, but getting better each day. Lately I've even been imagining getting into a relationship again. It'll be a while, but I'm seeing the possibility. In the mean time, I'm hoping to find friends in person and on-line.

I'm 53, male, Dom, sadist living the the San Francisco bay area. My experience in BDSM is kind of lopsided. I was in a 30 year marriage that ranged from vanilla to TPE but most of my experience has only been with one sub.

Sending you love and furry healing from over here in NZ - it takes true strength to be honest with ourselves and admit our weaknesses and humanity. i admire you for facing all the bad stuff head on :)

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RE: Older Dom in Hayward CA - 11/13/2009 3:51:20 AM

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Welcome to the forums and may the fates begin to smile up on you!

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RE: Older Dom in Hayward CA - 11/13/2009 5:45:59 PM

DamagedPheonix

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I want to thank you all for your kind words and warm welcome.

@KateyCaine - Don't admire me for that because if I could have ducked all this, I would have!

@devilishpixie - The Fates have already begun smiling on me again. Best wishes and congratulations on you wedding!

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RE: Older Dom in Hayward CA - 11/14/2009 2:22:44 AM

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