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VirginPotty -> RE: I Admit It I........ (6/1/2010 10:09:45 AM)

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ORIGINAL: shivermetimbers

I admit that I am worried about my baby's health, even though the doc this morn said it's not a big deal.
I admit that I am getting stressed out over finances.
I admit that I am in a rut.
I admit that I need a new job.
I admit that I am afraid to apply for a new job.
I admit that seeing the plants come up in our garden is somehow very comforting to me, and I need that right now.


Listen to the Pediatrician. If he says not to worry then don't put undue stress on yourself. I know it's hard & you'll continue to worry but try not to worry as much.

I understand the "rut" & fear of applying for a new job. It's hard to give up steady income for something new. Go sit out in your garden w/your favorite cool drink & relax, think about your options.  Not only will your head feel less cluttered but you'll get a nice tan too[:D]



frazzle -> RE: I Admit It I........ (6/1/2010 10:25:50 AM)

I admit ive actually done something useful this weekend, helped my sister move house.

I admit that up until 10pm friday night we hadnt packed 1 box, but by this morning when the furniture movers turned up, we'd finished decorating the new place and packed and moved all the boxes.

I admit im glad to now be home, even though i ache everywhere and am covered in bruises. ( not the nice kind)[:)]

I admit if my sister asks me to help her move house again, the answer is NO, im not as young or fit as i used to be.



GreedyTop -> RE: I Admit It I........ (6/1/2010 10:30:05 AM)

*hugs da frazzled one*



DaddysInkedSlut -> RE: I Admit It I........ (6/1/2010 10:32:38 AM)

((Frazzle)) Hey I am moving at the end the month wanna help me move? Lol



frazzle -> RE: I Admit It I........ (6/1/2010 10:38:27 AM)

Only if the only things to be moved are Very light weight [:D]

Thanks Greedy, and hugs to you, stop working so many hours.


editted to add. Just checked your profile Ink, my rates for helping people move is travel expenses, so yes i'll help [:D]



DaddysInkedSlut -> RE: I Admit It I........ (6/1/2010 10:42:58 AM)


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ORIGINAL: frazzle

Only if the only things to be moved are Very light weight [:D]

Thanks Greedy, and hugs to you, stop working so many hours.


editted to add. Just checked your profile Ink, my rates for helping people move is travel expenses, so yes i'll help [:D]



Lol I admit the boxes will be light but all my furniture is oak so its rather heavy.

I admit I have a wonderful group of friends who have said they will help me and the kids move.

I admit I can't wait to move since no one will allow me to murder *cough* whats his name. Lol



frazzle -> RE: I Admit It I........ (6/1/2010 10:45:39 AM)

Not knowing who "whatsisname" is, i cant comment on the murder bit, but i can name a few id like to murder.[:D]



DaddysInkedSlut -> RE: I Admit It I........ (6/1/2010 10:49:57 AM)


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ORIGINAL: frazzle

Not knowing who "whatsisname" is, i cant comment on the murder bit, but i can name a few id like to murder.[:D]


Lol naw its better if he remains nameless that way if he shows up dead welll it cant be blamed on me because of this thead. muahaha

my best friend told me today murdering him was out of the question b/c he didn't have bail money for me. Lol You get bail for murder?!



frazzle -> RE: I Admit It I........ (6/1/2010 10:52:33 AM)

LOL not that i knew of.

I may like cuffs, men in uniforms etc, but not on a long term basis, plus damaging my car to run them over is way too expensive [:)]



ShaharThorne -> RE: I Admit It I........ (6/1/2010 10:58:39 AM)

I admit that Wullf does have a place in my heart...I mean shankles on me...



Daddysredhead -> RE: I Admit It I........ (6/1/2010 10:59:10 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Rule

Endure.

I expect that you are a submissive?

Get a dom(me) to command you. All will be well.

I am opposed to medication for depression. One of the medications that X is using has a second phase metabolite that causes depression, necessitating another dose of his medication. Talk about an addictive substance.

But taking medication is your own responsibility. I expect that the best medication for a submissive with depression is a dom(me). It will not diminish the depression, but I expect that it will make the submissive functional.


If I were at home and had the luxury of writing something well thought out, etc., I would, but since I can't, I will say that the "prescription" you spell out above is one for disaster to most people I know who suffer from depression and other illnesses of mood, etc.

It irks me that people assume that just because someone's malady is not visible, it isn't to be taken seriously. If we follow that logic, I should tell someone with diabetes to just "will" their blood sugar back into line.

I also deal with anxiety/depression. I say deal with because I have learned how to work my life with this little "detail" that I have been given. I am fortunate enough to have a great support system of friends, a professional counselor, and a group of women who have also learned to share their coping skills with each other so we all might benefit. Oh... and a script for meds when I need them. It's a combination for me, and summarily stating that meds are not a good and viable option for so many people who need them just chaps my ass. (And there isn't enough Chapstick in the world to cover the ass that I have been given.)

Just sayin... *great, now I'm in a "mood"* [>:]

I admit that I had to go over to the Magistrate's office at lunch time to swear out a complaint against a whack job who came into our office and demanded to see one of my co-workers because he watched her walk into the building.

I admit that I made him leave a lot faster than he wanted.

I admit that the Magistrate said to me, "You don't look like you put up with much shit, if you don't mind me saying so."

I admit that it took everything in me to not say, "Well, I AM a mean girl, don'tcha know?"

Instead, I admit that I looked at him and said, "I'm a natural redhead, I think it's a given that my fuse is naturally short."

I admit that the police officer and the Magistrate both laughed.



Daddysredhead -> RE: I Admit It I........ (6/1/2010 11:02:14 AM)

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ORIGINAL: DaddysInkedSlut

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ORIGINAL: frazzle

Not knowing who "whatsisname" is, i cant comment on the murder bit, but i can name a few id like to murder.[:D]


Lol naw its better if he remains nameless that way if he shows up dead welll it cant be blamed on me because of this thread. muahaha

my best friend told me today murdering him was out of the question b/c he didn't have bail money for me. Lol You get bail for murder?!


*runs to check statute for Maryland*

*any priors?* LOL



DaddysInkedSlut -> RE: I Admit It I........ (6/1/2010 11:12:15 AM)

Rule,

As a woman who was diagnosed as bipolar when I was 15 yrs old. I have learned the hard way that there is no “easy fix” and no one, not even me can simply make my disorder go away. I was with a wonderful man, a wonderful dominant, a wonderful father for my children who thought as my dom he should be able to “fix me”. In truth that philosophy nearly killed me. He convined me to go off my meds and one day I was rushed to the hospital taking an overdose of pills. Although it wasn’t my 1st attempt to reach out for help, it was the loudest. It was then and only then that he realized he couldn’t do anything but be supportive to me, to help me find a good therapist and psychiatrist to help treat me. However, in truth by that point the damage had been done to our relationship. He felt helpless and like he had failed me, failed us. He couldn’t get past that.

That yr. I was in and out of the hospital 8 times. It was by far the worst yr of my life. It was the worst year for my children. Now I am on a medication that I take religiously, I see a therapist bi-weekly , I am involved with several wonderful support groups, and I have wonderful people in my life, friends and play partners who don’t try to “fix me” but accept me, for all my flaws for all my quirks, for all my health complications.

To say to someone, stop taking meds, find a dom and you will be fine is not only ignorant but dangerous.

Do I have manic days? Hell yes.
Do I have days where I can barely get out of bed? Hell yes.
But only with my medication, my therapy, my support team could I begin to live again, truly life again.


I admit I almost simply hide Rule but instead I thought I should respond.

I admit Red, should look up the status for me. Lol Wait bad idea!



LinnaeaBorealis -> RE: I Admit It I........ (6/1/2010 11:26:25 AM)

I want to thank all of my friends here who are so incredibly supportive of me & of each other.

I admit it Rule has his head up his ass.

I admit it I can't hear anything said by someone whose head is up their ass.

I admit it Joan has a place for me to be seen tonight.

I admit it this has only been going on for a few days & I know when I need to seek help.

I admit it I adore my Princess Lushy!!!!!

I admit it Rule's responses to my plight have at least gotten a pretty good discussion going.

I admit it one of the wonderful things about a public forum is that anybody can post anything that they want, within TOS.

I admit it I will defend to the death their right to do that.



Rule -> RE: I Admit It I........ (6/1/2010 11:53:40 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Daddysredhead
If I were at home and had the luxury of writing something well thought out, etc., I would, but since I can't, I will say that the "prescription" you spell out above is one for disaster to most people I know who suffer from depression and other illnesses of mood, etc.

You may be right. Or not. Or in some cases.

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ORIGINAL: Daddysredhead
It irks me that people assume that just because someone's malady is not visible, it isn't to be taken seriously.

I take depression extremely seriously. I "died" when I was nine years old. Then later I read a short article in the newspaper about clinically depressed people. I considered it unfortunate that they were so much worse off than I. Ha! I was probably worse off than the lot of them together. You could have put me in a grave and thrown dirt on me and I would not have cared.

So your irk is not appropriate.



LadyHibiscus -> RE: I Admit It I........ (6/1/2010 12:01:09 PM)

I admit that Rule is really full of it sometimes. But who knows, maybe there IS a dominant out there that can ORDER brain chemicals to normalize! Bet that one can also fix diabetes, high blood pressure, and cancer besides!!

HUGSES to my Naysha!!



LinnaeaBorealis -> RE: I Admit It I........ (6/1/2010 12:02:51 PM)

Actually my Owner has ordered me to repair my fractures & that worked very well.  [8D]



LadyHibiscus -> RE: I Admit It I........ (6/1/2010 12:05:54 PM)

Damn you peeps type fast!

I admit that I did't realize I was supposed to be bringing it, I was just trying to write my name!!



lusciouslips19 -> RE: I Admit It I........ (6/1/2010 12:12:24 PM)

Bring it Hibbie! And do it in that artstic elegant way of yours!

HUZZAH!!!!



Rule -> RE: I Admit It I........ (6/1/2010 12:13:24 PM)

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ORIGINAL: DaddysInkedSlut
Rule,

As a woman who was diagnosed as bipolar when I was 15 yrs old. I have learned the hard way that there is no “easy fix” and no one, not even me can simply make my disorder go away. I was with a wonderful man, a wonderful dominant, a wonderful father for my children who thought as my dom he should be able to “fix me”. In truth that philosophy nearly killed me. He convinced me to go off my meds and one day I was rushed to the hospital taking an overdose of pills. Although it wasn’t my 1st attempt to reach out for help, it was the loudest. It was then and only then that he realized he couldn’t do anything but be supportive to me, to help me find a good therapist and psychiatrist to help treat me. However, in truth by that point the damage had been done to our relationship. He felt helpless and like he had failed me, failed us. He couldn’t get past that.

Of the severely depressed, the bipolars may be the worst off, indeed. They are not in a stable condition, but always live with the contrast.

However, I do not consider being bipolar a disorder. Depending on the person, it may be a natural condition. It often sucks, yes, but polar bears and grizzlies may say the same thing about hibernation.

quote:

ORIGINAL: DaddysInkedSlut
Rule,

That yr. I was in and out of the hospital 8 times. It was by far the worst yr of my life. It was the worst year for my children. Now I am on a medication that I take religiously, I see a therapist bi-weekly , I am involved with several wonderful support groups, and I have wonderful people in my life, friends and play partners who don’t try to “fix me” but accept me, for all my flaws for all my quirks, for all my health complications.

If it works for you, good for you.

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ORIGINAL: DaddysInkedSlut
To say to someone, stop taking meds, find a dom and you will be fine is not only ignorant but dangerous.

I have not recommended to stop taking medication. I have said and I quote:
quote:

But taking medication is your own responsibility.

Neither have I said: "find a dom and you will be fine". Go ahead and look it up. I have not said that.

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ORIGINAL: DaddysInkedSlut
I admit I almost simply hide Rule but instead I thought I should respond.

Tsk. I mean you all well, silly.



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