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ShaharThorne -> RE: I Admit It I........ (12/19/2016 11:03:19 PM)
I admit that the doctor says the site is healing up nicely and the redness is blood actually flowing to it and forming a clot. No streaks so no worries. I admit the cold snap fucked up the speedometer to the van. I get to handle 3 kids while Mom runs it to the shop and gets it fixed...someone get me a rope... I admit that a neighbor dropped off a red velvet cake ball last night. I sacrificed my blood sugar levels since Mom can't tolerate red velvet and devoured the whole thing. No regrets...and we got her son lined up to take over mowing the yard after the first of the year. Mom and I are just getting too dang old (and sore) for it.

needlesandpins -> RE: I Admit It I........ (12/21/2016 5:16:28 PM)
I admit all I wanted tonight was an early night. I'm exhausted, and I have migraine coming on strong. Instead my attached neighbours have been a set of complete arseholes. They have an 8 year old boy that I could happily punch the crap out of because he's just a complete shit. It makes me feel wretched that I actually feel that way about a child, but it's been one of the biggest causes of anxiety in my life for nearly four years now, and there is absolutely nothing I can do about it. It's not just him, but the whole family, they are all hideous. I just wish I could win the lottery, but it's never my turn [>:] We daren't even leave the house on its own, or our dog because of how they are. I'm not going to use the word hate as no-one has that much power over me, but I fucking despise them with a hefty passion! Needles

tamaka -> RE: I Admit It I........ (12/21/2016 6:21:44 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: needlesandpins I admit all I wanted tonight was an early night. I'm exhausted, and I have migraine coming on strong. Instead my attached neighbours have been a set of complete arseholes. They have an 8 year old boy that I could happily punch the crap out of because he's just a complete shit. It makes me feel wretched that I actually feel that way about a child, but it's been one of the biggest causes of anxiety in my life for nearly four years now, and there is absolutely nothing I can do about it. It's not just him, but the whole family, they are all hideous. I just wish I could win the lottery, but it's never my turn [>:] We daren't even leave the house on its own, or our dog because of how they are. I'm not going to use the word hate as no-one has that much power over me, but I fucking despise them with a hefty passion! Needles Maybe you should make them some cookies for Christmas... change the energy going on there.

needlesandpins -> RE: I Admit It I........ (12/22/2016 1:31:30 AM)
I admit that really would not help. I found out this morning that her darling 8 year old has a BB gun and has been shooting my house with it. Her reaction to that was 'So what? Fuck off I don't have time for your bollocks' amongst other things. I've had enough and reported to the police because I know it's only a matter of time before he starts aiming it at my dog. Needles

Phoenixpower -> RE: I Admit It I........ (12/22/2016 3:55:43 PM)
I admit I hated my final doctor appointment today before her delivery...😢 I admit beside the fact that they screwed up some blood tests (though I'm unlikely to have caught that shit as I wasn't allowed to work since may and previous test results were negative) and pissed me off about that (they screwed up a lot during my time with them) I also hit the awful 3 digits again on the scale 😭😭😭 I admit even my husband realized that this will mean again, that I will be heavier than him once our UM will be born😢😢😢 I admit I know it shouldn't bother me and I know a lot of the weight has to do with the lil one but I didn't want to reach three digits again 😔😔😔 I admit in three weeks time I have got an appointment with my Coach (one week after delivery) to record my weight on his neutral scale and I just hope not to end up (weight wise) where we started two years ago...but I think it will happen😒 I admit I just hope to get it off good during the weeks where I'm not allowed to do sports after delivery as otherwise working out with Coach could become a bit of hell again for a while 🙈🙈🙈

Lucylastic -> RE: I Admit It I........ (12/24/2016 4:45:36 AM)
I admit, I am not a happy camper today. Hubby had his hickman line put in on tuesday, ready to be called in, but the doc mentioned they probably wouldnt be calling him in until monday, due to christmas staffing levels, so we kinda breathed a huge sigh of relief, but yesterday we were out shopping, and he got the call to be in the hospital last night. So it was a frantic running around going over last minute details. Then down to the hospital for 8pm. GAH Ive got my big gurl panties on, but I miss him already:) He is starting chemo today so at least he is not being screwed around and having to wait. Tomorrow we will be with him at least part of the day. Phoenix, I hope all goes well with your birthing:) Im excited for you(my eldest was due jan 7th(she didnt arrive till the 22nd but the christmas before she was born was magical:)) To everyone else, may you get thru the holidays without tears and pain. I hope you and yours have a peaceful and happy Christmas.

Taramafor -> RE: I Admit It I........ (12/25/2016 1:05:06 AM)
I admit that some people are dicks. That they will claim not to care or feel anything for you and say they don't hate you. I admit that these people then do something mean and make themselves out to be hypocrites. That they will attacked you outright. I admit that this is down to fear. Of seeing the worst in us or themselves. I admit that it drove me insane. In the none fun happy way (multiple reasons for this). I admit I've been hated and loathed and looked past it. To make the best of things despite people wanting to use my guts for skipping rope and taking pleasure in my suffering. No joke, told someone I'd squeal for them if that's what they really wanted. They just told me to shut up then let me be around them. I admit the people that caused that were there in the end. Despite their past claims of not caring. Woke up on Christmas day with their pixels around me on Furcadia in my hiding spot (not this one. Few years ago). Basically they were snuggling me and I woke up to it. I admit I'm now on the best of terms with them. I admit I make good stuff happen. Even if it risks my mental and physical health. This involves exes btw. On the best of terms with them now. Before? Not so much. Funny thing is they're there for each other as much as me now. And I made it happen. Or at least they trust me to see the good in them both and see the best in each other instead of seeing just what they wanted to see like they did before. Was I mentally sane and happy in the past? Fuck no. Would I be able to live with myself if I had cut them off though? Nope. Am I now mentally sane AND happy both? Hell yea I am! I admit I risked it all to gain it all. I also admit I learned from the bad shit that happened and am making everything else work out better too. Events listed in order.

Phoenixpower -> RE: I Admit It I........ (12/26/2016 8:45:41 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lucylastic Ive got my big gurl panties on, but I miss him already:) He is starting chemo today so at least he is not being screwed around and having to wait. Tomorrow we will be with him at least part of the day. Phoenix, I hope all goes well with your birthing:) Im excited for you(my eldest was due jan 7th(she didnt arrive till the 22nd but the christmas before she was born was magical:)) I admit I am hoping he does do a speedy and well recovery from this awful disease...you two are in my thoughts... I admit, thank you, our lil one will be delivered on 4th of january via cesarean vor different reasons...but we are fine with that [:)] I admit we had a nice final christmas as a couple, too...our only christmas ever as a couple actually, cause in recent years he went to his parents and I preferred to stay on my own (I could have joined him, but did not want to...)... I admit I decided a moment ago to sent my parents a very direct letter, together with the picture from our girl, once she is born... I admit the reason is, as my dad seriously gets me too much under my skin this year and I am not willing to take any more shit from him... I admit I was quiet for way too many years, but also he never behaved as badly as in the last 2.5 years, since we are living here...it seems, as happier I am as more he thinks he needs to put me down... I admit he asked me to get him 4kg of key rings from our local DIY store (a very cheap store) as he wants to create 2 chain shirts for his grandsons (they play knights, I think thats what you call them?! the folks in the castles...) I admit during 3 short calls between the time when he asked me to get that for him and when I got it finally, he behaved, but now that I got it for him, he behaves like the big fat arse towards me again....sort of, now he doesn't need to be behave anymore, as after all, I got it for him...so he can be a dick again...and now all I can say is "enough is enough"!!! I admit during my 4 years of relationship with my husband it always caused a lot of tension between us the weeks before my parents visited us until 1-2 weeks after they left us...as my father always keeps putting me down during his visit here like I am his worst enemy in his life...and my husband sadly is too nice to show my father the ropes...nope, he isnt a wimp...he just genuinly isnt used to such ugly behaviour within a family as it is between my father and myself... I admit I know that my parents will think those key rings will be a valid "reason" they have to visit us (after all, they need them, so they have to collect them)...well...nope... I admit I will post them their shit together with a picture from our child and a very direct unpleasant letter from me...therefore those key rings are no reason for them to turn up here!!! I admit that letter will basically tell them that I dont know anyone who is so negative and has so much a problem with it, about me being in a happy relationship with my husband, as he is (filled with lots of examples) and that this behaviour ain't tolerated here one more single time....therefore either behave or fuck off!!! pronouncing that I am not born to live the life he desires for me, but the the life I chose for me (he asked my husband last year to "treat me like crap", saying, that I would need that!!! accordingly he keeps behaving in such manners towards me...) I admit he destroyed with his attitude a fair bit both of our wedding celebrations this year, his attitude stank big time when we went on our honeymoon in august (because of which I couldnt enjoy it at all as it affected me through 2 of 3 of such weeks and we declared it in the end as a normal holiday...we will go again on honeymoon 2018...) his call on 2nd of christmas day wasnt appropriate now either (due to his attitude I showed him the ropes back because of which he finished the call after 45 seconds which even irritated my husband[:D][:D][:D]) and many ones in between, too... I admit therefore, he has no chance of reaching me on 31st of december or 1st of january...as I don't need more of his shit... I admit therefore, on 4th of january our UM will be born and about 2 days later we sent off the parcel to them with my letter and her picture and either he gets his act together in the future (which I doubt) or our contact will fall apart....I am on the point that I don't care anymore about contact...I am just not into his bullying shit towards me...and I firmly believe, that my awesome personal coach is spot on with his view, that my eating disorder stems from my awful relationship with my father...and I am not taking that crap anymore for sure... I admit I am very happy to let go of such unhealthy folks in my life [:)][:)][:)] I admit as we know on these board here....we simply cant chose in which family we are born...but at least we can chose, whom we have feelings towards to, like a family [:)]

tamaka -> RE: I Admit It I........ (12/26/2016 8:55:34 PM)
I admit that you don't think very much of your new baby if the first thing you associate her (picture) with is a scathing letter to your parents. It's pretty low to use a baby as ransom for what you want to achieve. Disgusting actually.

DesFIP -> RE: I Admit It I........ (12/27/2016 12:20:28 PM)
Phoenix, I think you're doing the right thing. My grandfather didn't approve of his son marrying my mother and he was apparently pretty nasty about it. She finally decided when pregnant that she couldn't have her children see someone put her down constantly. She was very clear to him that if he wanted a relationship with his grandchildren, that he needed to respect their mother. This is the only thing that got through to him. And because she stopped taking his shit, he did wind up seeing her in a new light and thinking better of her.

Phoenixpower -> RE: I Admit It I........ (12/27/2016 12:54:46 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: tamaka I admit that you don't think very much of your new baby if the first thing you associate her (picture) with is a scathing letter to your parents. It's pretty low to use a baby as ransom for what you want to achieve. Disgusting actually. I admit it has nothing to do with ransom...I was close to not invite them to our wedding this year...and got proof that I should have sticked with it!!! I admit we don't need his nasty attitude here...so either he gets it or he doesn't, we don't care anymore 😊 I admit he promised in the last view years a few times not to turn up anymore, as some aspects here he does not like, and thinks that we would change it to honor his holy visits... I admit we won't change our life to please him but he still turns up...so quite frankly he can just finally stick to his promise!!! I admit I find it way more disgustingly actually that you think you have a clue about what we endured with him... I admit my nephews (aged 4 and 8) barely spent time with my parents (oh, what a surprise that my soon "ex" sister in law chose that way🤔) Surely because he is being oh so handsome 😍😍😍 I admit folks who can't behave themselves simply don't have a right to visit us...but it's ok when you let folks treat you like shit in your own home...I won't take anymore shit from him for sure now!!! and that has nothing to do with our kid cause after what we endured with him this year I would behave the same way without a kid...cause neither my husband nor I deserve the stress his visit regularly causes to us...yeah I dare to demand respect towards us in our own home for all of us who live here, how dare I😂😂😂

Phoenixpower -> RE: I Admit It I........ (12/27/2016 1:24:53 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DesFIP Phoenix, I think you're doing the right thing. My grandfather didn't approve of his son marrying my mother and he was apparently pretty nasty about it. She finally decided when pregnant that she couldn't have her children see someone put her down constantly. She was very clear to him that if he wanted a relationship with his grandchildren, that he needed to respect their mother. This is the only thing that got through to him. And because she stopped taking his shit, he did wind up seeing her in a new light and thinking better of her. I admit Thank you DesFIP...that describes him well, though I doubt he will ever get it in our case... I admit it is a lot against my own family values to show him the ropes but I am seriously on my limit with him and he caused so much stress on me during my pregnancy, that enough is just really enough...today my blood pressure is almost always on the high side and if it gets worse I have to get checked in the hospital to ensure, I am not catching the poisoning during pregnancy/eclampsy/preclampsy, whatever you call it... I admit he said already 15 years ago, that if I would be working for him he would just "use" me at work, sort of giving me all the crap jobs to do to have his fun with me (he said this in front of a class mate who stayed with us as we had to do an essay together) and always talks down to me in that way...especially in front of other people... I admit when he could he would just store me in his home in harry potter style, sort of "live under the staircase and hand me over your income..." I admit my husband was shocked when he suggested to my husband to treat me like crap...knowing what some folks do in regards to domestic violence it is really disgusting that my father said this with such an ugly laughter to him...seriously he is an arse... I admit I doubt that he will get it...but I simply do know that our welfare in our own little family is way more important than his needs and therefore quite frankly it is up to him to get it...our girl deserves happy parents and not regularly stressed out family meetings with her grandfather... I admit over the last 20 years he bullied me regularly about my weight (despite that he is even fatter than I was, but of course it is easier to blame others than to take care of himself)...he didnt care that I gave a shit about his view, as I always said "I will lose weight when I want to...I am not in an age that he can force anything onto me..." I admit I lost 40kg before this pregnancy but that - of course - doesnt mean that he will stop about this....he still put up the topic in a nasty way on our wedding....of course, he was the only one laughing about that just before our wedding ceremony took place, but it was incredible uncalled for...(one of a few things of his shit behaviour)...because of which he likely won't get an invite during the christianing ceremony of our child...its our family day...we dont need people on their bad behaviour then... I admit my personal trainer is spot on, that my eating disorder stems from my relationship with that arse and therefore it is finally time to show him the ropes before it continues to affect me the way it does....life is not always about others...it's about yourself, too, ffs... I admit without my mother I would not be in any contact with him at all...she is the only reason why I still leave a tiny gap open in the door...but only a very tiny one cause her being so under his command, she is not that much better with her staying silent about all he did...he really chose her as a wife as he knows she would not interfere with his behaviour, no matter how ugly it is...but unlike him at least she is more often nice company than not compared to him... I admit when grandma died 9 years ago I already promised myself not to attend his burial one day....and so far he does a very good job that I will stick to that promise...as he just hasnt deserved that last respect from me... I admit he even found it funny to bring (against our will) a huge load of logs to us when I was 7th month pregnant (knowing that he cant get it up the stairs due to his knee problems and mum cant do it as her chemo in the past weakened her, but 7th month pregnant is a great time to do that sort of work...dragging it up 20 stairs and a huge hill...) he even wanted to bring another load 4 weeks later (during my 8th month of pregnancy) where I told him clearly "you can do that...but "I" wont bring it up here!!!" then he finally stopped that shit... I admit my employer put me on special leave (since the 5th week of pregnancy I didnt have to work due to some risks during my pregnancy) and in the 6th months my sports coach put me on stop with crossfit and PT due to new arisen risks in this pregnancy but my father doesnt care...seriously, if he could he would still send me around in the garden for heavy work one hour before giving birth... I admit I know for sure, if we ever get a 2nd child...I won't tell them until the child will be born...both parents were my worst enemies during my pregnancy with their attitude, no unborn child needs the stress he caused on us....and I am just glad now once she arrived savely next week.

Wayward5oul -> RE: I Admit It I........ (12/27/2016 1:32:47 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Phoenixpower I admit folks who can't behave themselves simply don't have a right to visit us...but it's ok when you let folks treat you like shit in your own home...I won't take anymore shit from him for sure now!!! and that has nothing to do with our kid cause after what we endured with him this year I would behave the same way without a kid...cause neither my husband nor I deserve the stress his visit regularly causes to us...yeah I dare to demand respect towards us in our own home for all of us who live here, how dare I😂😂😂 Frankly, its your responsibility as a parent to teach your children what respect is, and what is proper behavior, and it is your responsibility to protect your children from nastiness. There is not one person in the world that can claim that responsibility over you. So in not doing so, you are not fulfilling your role as a parent. And if you feel that the best way to do that is what you have outlined above, then that's exactly what you should do. To hell with everyone else.

tamaka -> RE: I Admit It I........ (12/27/2016 2:20:39 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Phoenixpower quote: ORIGINAL: tamaka I admit that you don't think very much of your new baby if the first thing you associate her (picture) with is a scathing letter to your parents. It's pretty low to use a baby as ransom for what you want to achieve. Disgusting actually. I admit it has nothing to do with ransom...I was close to not invite them to our wedding this year...and got proof that I should have sticked with it!!! I admit we don't need his nasty attitude here...so either he gets it or he doesn't, we don't care anymore 😊 I admit he promised in the last view years a few times not to turn up anymore, as some aspects here he does not like, and thinks that we would change it to honor his holy visits... I admit we won't change our life to please him but he still turns up...so quite frankly he can just finally stick to his promise!!! I admit I find it way more disgustingly actually that you think you have a clue about what we endured with him... I admit my nephews (aged 4 and 8) barely spent time with my parents (oh, what a surprise that my soon "ex" sister in law chose that way🤔) Surely because he is being oh so handsome 😍😍😍 I admit folks who can't behave themselves simply don't have a right to visit us...but it's ok when you let folks treat you like shit in your own home...I won't take anymore shit from him for sure now!!! and that has nothing to do with our kid cause after what we endured with him this year I would behave the same way without a kid...cause neither my husband nor I deserve the stress his visit regularly causes to us...yeah I dare to demand respect towards us in our own home for all of us who live here, how dare I😂😂😂 You should google... 'Detach with Love'. It is what they teach the families of alcoholics to do. It also works with bullying narcissistic fathers. But if you are a decent person, it will take more out of you if you're nasty to him than if you do it the right way. And although protection of your baby might be your 'Final straw' motivation, using that precious gift in a negative way is not a good way for him/her to start out in life. This is your issue, not your baby's issue... keep it that way.

Wayward5oul -> RE: I Admit It I........ (12/27/2016 2:25:44 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: tamaka quote: ORIGINAL: Phoenixpower quote: ORIGINAL: tamaka I admit that you don't think very much of your new baby if the first thing you associate her (picture) with is a scathing letter to your parents. It's pretty low to use a baby as ransom for what you want to achieve. Disgusting actually. I admit it has nothing to do with ransom...I was close to not invite them to our wedding this year...and got proof that I should have sticked with it!!! I admit we don't need his nasty attitude here...so either he gets it or he doesn't, we don't care anymore 😊 I admit he promised in the last view years a few times not to turn up anymore, as some aspects here he does not like, and thinks that we would change it to honor his holy visits... I admit we won't change our life to please him but he still turns up...so quite frankly he can just finally stick to his promise!!! I admit I find it way more disgustingly actually that you think you have a clue about what we endured with him... I admit my nephews (aged 4 and 8) barely spent time with my parents (oh, what a surprise that my soon "ex" sister in law chose that way🤔) Surely because he is being oh so handsome 😍😍😍 I admit folks who can't behave themselves simply don't have a right to visit us...but it's ok when you let folks treat you like shit in your own home...I won't take anymore shit from him for sure now!!! and that has nothing to do with our kid cause after what we endured with him this year I would behave the same way without a kid...cause neither my husband nor I deserve the stress his visit regularly causes to us...yeah I dare to demand respect towards us in our own home for all of us who live here, how dare I😂😂😂 You should google... 'Detach with Love'. It is what they teach the families of alcoholics to do. It also works with bullying narcissistic fathers. But if you are a decent person, it will take more out of you if you're nasty to him than if you do it the right way. And although protection of your baby might be your 'Final straw' motivation, using that precious gift in a negative way is not a good way for him/her to start out in life. This is your issue, not your baby's issue... keep it that way. Hey tamaka, this is one of those times where if I were the person you were talking to, I would tell you to go to hell. There have been a few of those lately.

dcnovice -> RE: I Admit It I........ (12/27/2016 2:54:21 PM)
FR I admit that, as a longtime participant in this thread, I'd strongly prefer not to see folks critiquing and slamming other posters.

Wayward5oul -> RE: I Admit It I........ (12/27/2016 3:00:35 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: dcnovice FR I admit that, as a longtime participant in this thread, I'd strongly prefer not to see folks critiquing and slamming other posters. Noted. I do regret engaging myself in this, esp as I am not a regular participant in this thread.

dcnovice -> RE: I Admit It I........ (12/27/2016 5:28:51 PM)
I admit this is one of the few worthwhile threads left on Collarchat. I admit I'm bummed to see inappropriate and overbearing advice-giving souring its spirit.

Spiritedsub2 -> RE: I Admit It I........ (12/27/2016 5:32:54 PM)
I admit: Tamaka, I realize you are new here. This particular thread is a very old one, and is not used for the purpose of denigrating people for what they say here, and it's not for giving people unsolicited advice. This thread (see the opening post from years ago) is a place for people to express something they are feeling, using the "I admit" opening words, just to confess, vent, etc. It is not the thread to initiate dialogue about what someone says. If you really want to, send them a private message. Insulting people, calling them disgusting, telling them what they should be doing, is a super insensitive and obnoxious behavior that the Dungeon of Politics and Religion was specifically created to allow. Not the rest of the board. This also allows people to choose to avoid that type of conversation, by staying out of that particular category of threads.

dcnovice -> RE: I Admit It I........ (12/27/2016 5:36:27 PM)
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