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justdarla -> Interested in helping new subs, with questions. (11/5/2009 7:29:11 PM)

Hi, I am a sub living in MD, and I am interested in helping with maybe a sub new to this lifestyle, someone whom they could ask questions, or just a friend in the lifestyle. please email me if interested.  



sirsholly -> RE: Interested in helping new subs, with questions. (11/5/2009 8:29:36 PM)

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choccywoc -> RE: Interested in helping new subs, with questions. (11/6/2009 9:38:04 AM)

[sm=welcome.gif] to the boards.



TheMistressKay -> RE: Interested in helping new subs, with questions. (11/6/2009 10:45:41 PM)

It's so nice to see people that are willing to be helpful. :) Welcome to the forums.



Anitabynum -> RE: Interested in helping new subs, with questions. (11/7/2009 7:32:31 AM)

i like you




IntelligentSubE -> RE: Interested in helping new subs, with questions. (11/7/2009 12:20:27 PM)

Hi darla-

I am interested in talking with a sub with more experience and answers to some questions that come up throughout my journey of becoming my personal best sub.
What triggered your interest in submission? Is it something you just knew or do you remember something that you can pinpoint as the reason behind your interest? What can you tell me are some of the risks I should be cautious of?  What is subspace and how does one get there? Do you believe there should be attraction between a sub and Dom or should a submissive (by the nature of being submissive) submit to any deserving Dom?
Those are just a few questions I have right now---
Thanks,
sarah



dreamerdreaming -> RE: Interested in helping new subs, with questions. (11/7/2009 12:23:40 PM)

WELCOME!!!


Pay no attention to choccywoc's ass...


Explore, and have FUN!



DesFIP -> RE: Interested in helping new subs, with questions. (11/7/2009 12:28:47 PM)

Sarah, it's a relationship. That means both of you get to have your needs met and be happy. Unless spreading your legs for every guy that tells you to do so makes you happy, then you submit only to the one you are in a relationship with. And you pick who deserves to be in a relationship with you.

Subspace is an altered state of consciousness similar to runner's high and frequently reached by intense activity that releases endorphins.

Risks? Not taking your time to get to know the other person. Being swayed to do something you know you will regret. I'm monogamous and straight. The Man knows me well enough to be able to get me to have sex with another woman here, but I would hate it the whole time and afterwards would hate him for doing it to me. It would end the relationship. And honestly, if the relationship is doomed to be over, it would be smarter for me to end it before I did something I would always hate myself for doing.

However since he wants the relationship with me more than he wants to have a one time threeway, he wouldn't do it to me. Which brings me back to taking your time and really getting to know the other person.

As far as defining 'deserving dom'; now that's a thread in itself.



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