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RE: Pain - Does it help you? - 11/6/2009 6:28:13 AM   
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Really? I'm glad you mentioned that! I wouldn't have guessed that.

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ORIGINAL: PainfullyCurious

I have no clue what it feels like to get past a light spanking or the 4th smack with a paddle... but I can't stop thinking about it.


there is a very good chance that your ass will start shaking

oh i love having a shaking ass

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RE: Pain - Does it help you? - 11/6/2009 11:38:15 AM   
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ORIGINAL: PainfullyCurious

Really? I'm glad you mentioned that! I wouldn't have guessed that.

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ORIGINAL: ranja

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ORIGINAL: PainfullyCurious

I have no clue what it feels like to get past a light spanking or the 4th smack with a paddle... but I can't stop thinking about it.


there is a very good chance that your ass will start shaking

oh i love having a shaking ass



I *think* about all sorts of pain..... and have experienced many types too....and even after ALL of the experience I still find REAL pain a challenge. It's NOTHING like how I *think* about it...... Sometimes the *thnking* about it is tons better! For a start, it doesn't hurt.

Some people like pain for pain's sake ...I probably could with the right person , right circumstances, right type of *pain. Probably, not at all certain.

Some people prefer the intimacy of sharing it with a specific person and it could be any type of pain, as long as it's with that person.

*Pain* isn't simple....lol

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RE: Pain - Does it help you? - 11/6/2009 4:30:11 PM   
catize


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Sometimes the *thnking* about it is tons better! For a start, it doesn't hurt.


That made me laugh---but it is so true! Sometimes fantasy doesn't translate to reality very well!

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RE: Pain - Does it help you? - 11/6/2009 8:01:17 PM   
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*Beat me , beat me, call me dirty names* is nothing LIKE the same when I'm dreaming about it. It's more like *Beat me (if you DARE), beat me ( If I agree)..call me dirty names ( and there's a strong chance I'll punch your chops)*..... In my  whacky-way-off mind-meanderings ............you can pretty much do what *I* want.

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RE: Pain - Does it help you? - 11/6/2009 8:27:50 PM   
catize


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Well, yeah, my fantasies are in my head so they are all about meeeee! But real life is a bit more.....real; stuff like there is another person involved. Or gravity, indigestion, leg or jaw cramps---those kind of things never happen when I'm directing things in my mind!

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RE: Pain - Does it help you? - 11/7/2009 1:25:10 AM   
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Pain is a great release for me when I'm giving it to myself. When master gives me pain it becomes something entirely more. He can bite me or pull my hair... or just hurt me in a million other ways and it helps me calm down and focus when I'm stressed out.

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RE: Pain - Does it help you? - 11/7/2009 6:43:50 AM   
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I'm not a masochist. I don't ever want pain. But I love feeling powerless. I like being taken, tied and vulnerable.


Bingo. I don't have a lot of experience with pain, but that's exactly how I feel.  I am hers totally and if that means pain, so be it.

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