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Andalusite -> RE: Energy Exchange (11/3/2009 9:06:45 PM)

Hmm, I haven't generally experienced energy draining, but I do pick up on emotions from other people (which usually is a good thing, but can be distressing when they are angry or upset, especially if I don't know them well enough to help them). I also sometimes feel physical pain/tension if I'm in close proximity to someone else, especially touching them. I find it useful when I give massages, but sometimes I'm not in a situation where I can or want to do that, so I have to move away or try to close myself off. Doing so takes a certain amount of concentration and focus, and feels a bit like wearing earplugs or having a stuffy nose - everything feels a bit muffled/muted, and it's a bit distracting. Focusing energy helps me take more pain, and with martial arts/etc., as well as with massage.

I'm not sure about lovingpet, but I'm also a Christian, and wouldn't feel comfortable using a Pagan ritual to "shield" or block the emotions out. I have a lot of friends who are Pagan, and have no issues with them worshipping in whatever ways they choose, but it doesn't fit well with my beliefs. I don't perceive the energy play or empathy as spiritual or religious, any more than feeling the electricity from warm clothes out of the dryer, or associating the smell of pine needles with Christmas. I haven't really seen any resources that are focused more on it as a practical talent, except in the context of martial arts. I don't know if any of you have non-faith/spiritual sites that you could point us at that might be helpful?




dommalemn -> RE: Energy Exchange (11/4/2009 5:56:08 AM)

The term for the sucking of energy is psychic vampire. They may or may not know that they are doing it. To shield ones self  all you need to do is pull your energy from a bigger source. This can be from different places dependent on your beliefs. Christians will use ether GOD of Jesus. Pagans will use the source or some other entity. The thing is that stopping them  requires way to much energy. So it deeds to be diverted to pull from the source and use you as a conduit to flow threw.

  The body is just a bunch of minerals that are held together with energy. Actually everything is this way. Some are more tuned to this then others. Pain is just a fluctuation it this energy. Riki, and Christian faith healing are two ways that this energy is used to heal someone.

  I use to take the pains of migraine headaches from my wife.  

Dommalemn




theRose4U -> RE: Energy Exchange (11/4/2009 2:55:29 PM)

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I do know some people (most in my case) sap my energy and wear me down. Others (a rare few for me) renew me and build me up.


There actually is such a thing as energy vampires that will suck the energy out of you. These are people to limit your exposure to as they will actually seek you out.
Check out books on Reiki and psychic protection, they have helped me with this exact kind of thing.
Also if this is a new relationship and you have this "issue" be careful about anyone that says they are intentionally "taking energy" especially when they are "replacing it with their own", this kind of thing should ONLY be done with your specific permission. As you've already explained you're able to be harmed by others energy and you want to make sure in steps that you're feeling better and not worse from the experience.




lovingpet -> RE: Energy Exchange (11/5/2009 5:21:11 AM)

Thank you to all who have responded. I have a lot to learn, but at least I get the idea that I'm not completely nuts. I am a little overwhelmed with stuff here, so if you have offered help please cmail me directly because there don't seem to be enough hours in a day and I have been trying to get a note off to each of you who have offered.

I wanted to address Rose's concern directly, however. This isn't a brand new relationship, but it is fairly young. Two years in July. He is someone I trust and nothing he has done has caused me harm. Whatever it is that he is doing strengthens me ultimately and significantly for a prolonged period. What I do find is that, over time, we have become extremely tightly bonded. He cares greatly for me and I think he is careful in how he handles me knowing that I have this sensitivity. I have experienced nothing I perceive as negative from what he does. I wouldn't be keen to this from just anyone, however, and I know it is something to be careful of.

lovingpet




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