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the good about cm - 10/20/2009 5:38:25 PM   
oceanwynds1


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Status: offline 		Hi it is me again, back to my original name. Things did not work out with new Sir, and i really do not want to comment on that. What i like to say is thank you to those who have been posting. By reading many posts here i was able to know this relationship wasn't for me, and since i wasn't own yet, i walked away. At this time all i know is to take time for myself to clear my head. i am not sure if i will stay here or go, but i wanted to thank so many for their posts and threads, and differences of opinions.  Many complain about cm, i have found it a life safer and am grateful. At this time i do have my profile hidden and will decide later what i will do with it.

Thank you all
blessings
oceanwynds
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RE: the good about cm - 10/20/2009 5:40:57 PM   
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RE: the good about cm - 10/20/2009 5:44:17 PM   
leadership527


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Status: offline 		THank you for that perspective Oceanwynds.

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RE: the good about cm - 10/20/2009 5:45:49 PM   
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Status: offline 		Sorry it didn't work out. But better now then after things go wrong.

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RE: the good about cm - 10/20/2009 5:45:53 PM   
CaringandReal


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Status: offline 		Sorry it didn't work out. The Fates owes you a good one, I think. :) I hope they pay up soon. But while you are waiting you can always earn NZ points. They're kind of like green stamps these days.

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RE: the good about cm - 10/20/2009 6:08:33 PM   
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RE: the good about cm - 10/20/2009 6:17:21 PM   
oceanwynds1


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Status: offline 		Thank you everyone. Nice to know though i am having an identity crises i am loved here, and have felt that.:)
I was fortunate to have had a long term marriage that was very successful. I feel blessed with that. ((hugs)) back to you sweetsub  and Sirsholly, and everyone

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RE: the good about cm - 10/20/2009 6:20:52 PM   
lovingpet


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Status: offline 		I am certain with what you have been through in the past months it has to be hard to not have an identity crisis. I see a beautiful submissive soul within. I wish you all the best as you rediscover yourself and hope you will stick around. I know I will miss you should you decide to leave. Hugs and light on the journey!

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RE: the good about cm - 10/20/2009 6:29:49 PM   
Surrenderwithin


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Status: offline 		Well the CM forums have entertained me while Anna and I were quarantined away from the rest of the household with swine flu!!!!
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RE: the good about cm - 10/20/2009 6:35:45 PM   
oceanwynds1


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ORIGINAL: lovingpet

I am certain with what you have been through in the past months it has to be hard to not have an identity crisis. I see a beautiful submissive soul within. I wish you all the best as you rediscover yourself and hope you will stick around. I know I will miss you should you decide to leave. Hugs and light on the journey!

lovingpet


Thank you so much for your words and understanding. It is very much appreciated.
oceanwynds

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RE: the good about cm - 10/20/2009 6:37:14 PM   
oceanwynds1


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ORIGINAL: Surrenderwithin

Well the CM forums have entertained me while Anna and I were quarantined away from the rest of the household with swine flu!!!!
Maggi
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I am sorry to hear that. Hope everyone gets well fast.
oceanwynds

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RE: the good about cm - 10/20/2009 6:39:26 PM   
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Status: offline 		Welcome back; sending good thoughts. 
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RE: the good about cm - 10/20/2009 6:40:27 PM   
Surrenderwithin


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I am sorry to hear that. Hope everyone gets well fast.

The quarantine was lifted last night and we are both back inside where we belong!!!! We are both still weak and tired, hence I am sitting here online, but no longer contagious.
Maggi
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RE: the good about cm - 10/20/2009 6:44:28 PM   
DrkJourney


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Sorry it didn't work out...I know what that's like.  Glad you decided to stay around.  Trust me, in bad times being around buddies helps a lot.

(oh I'd be the buddy up there that passes out by the way...lol)

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RE: the good about cm - 10/20/2009 6:50:24 PM   
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ORIGINAL: oceanwynds1

Hi it is me again, back to my original name. Things did not work out with new Sir, and i really do not want to comment on that. What i like to say is thank you to those who have been posting.


welcome back hon. i'm sorry things didn't turn out as you'd hoped, but there will be something positive that comes out of this i'm certain. time, patience, and a much needed respite will reveal the lesson. in the meantime, take care of you and try to smile when the doldrums come. don't be afraid to reach out when you need to as well. stay strong.

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RE: the good about cm - 10/20/2009 7:03:55 PM   
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Status: offline 		I'm sorry it didn't turn out as you had hoped.  Still very nice to see you.

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RE: the good about cm - 10/20/2009 9:04:47 PM   
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Status: offline 		I’m sorry things didn’t work out. Even when you know a break up is for the best, it’s still painful. Be patient with yourself while you heal.

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RE: the good about cm - 10/21/2009 4:19:34 AM   
oceanwynds1


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Status: offline 		Thanks everyone. Yes, i am having a difficult time. I am glad that in 48 hours i will be at the airport going to Cabo, Mexico to give my daughter away for her wedding. Because of how i am feeling, i cannot make any major decisions at this time except to take it one day at a time. I do see me posting here as a positive move, and for now i am happy i did. i am happy i am not going to slip my submissiveness under the couch because of this experience, but learn from it.

oceanwynds

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RE: the good about cm - 10/21/2009 6:33:32 PM   
kallisto


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Status: offline 		I'm sorry it didn't work out for you but I am glad to see you back.    You have always made me think of you as a very special person and I truly believe you will work through this and come out shining brightly.    Savor the time with your daughter and enjoy the sun of Cabo.    This will give you much needed strenght.    Happy days to you! 

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RE: the good about cm - 10/21/2009 11:15:12 PM   
WyldHrt


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Status: offline 		(((Oceanwynds))) Have fun in Cabo! Nothing like a little family time to reset your buttons, better yet if sun and surf are involved!
I hate that you are going through this, but I'm pretty sure you will come out the other side better off. If you need cheerleaders in the meantime, pretty sure there is a brigade down in PRS that are polishing their pom-poms


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