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RE: has any one a slavelist? - 10/13/2009 12:03:13 AM

Elipsis

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Yo leave me out of this.

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RE: has any one a slavelist? - 10/13/2009 12:06:02 AM

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lol

Um, does this mean I serially & / or seriously abuse you . .. . . .. . ?

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Yo leave me out of this.

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RE: has any one a slavelist? - 10/13/2009 12:16:56 AM

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thanks this is really good and nice

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RE: has any one a slavelist? - 10/13/2009 3:42:25 AM

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i am looking for a slave list if you have one ore know were i can find one on the net let me know please
greeings Mr Sake

Each to their own, but it seems kind of a sterile way to do it

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RE: has any one a slavelist? - 10/13/2009 5:49:03 AM

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I have my potential slaves make an extensive list for me.

LIST:
Area you live in
your real sexuality
Relationship status
Do you have a job
Living arraingments
Do you have a car
Do you have any medical problems that limit you and in what way

List your likes
List your dislikes
List your hard limits

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RE: has any one a slavelist? - 10/13/2009 8:15:58 AM

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my problems is that just about everything on a list ends up being a "yes... but" or a "no... but" there are very few lables that I'm willing to apply to my self without a but attached to them..

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RE: has any one a slavelist? - 10/13/2009 9:00:59 AM

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the list is merely a tool. there are many ways it can be employed for self discovery and to promote dialogue between a pair. perhaps the couple will discover a few things they hadn't considered, or find common ground that hasn't been explored. the possibilities are endless. recognizing such implies a willingness to work and look beyond the obvious.

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RE: has any one a slavelist? - 10/24/2009 8:50:56 AM

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List are ok, but I find it is better to just talk about it with my submissives. Communication works so much better than just handing over a piece of paper and say check the boxes that apply to you...lol. When having this conversation, make sure you are listening to her and not just hearing it. Discussing these things not only shows to her that you care about her desires as well, but also helps give you a starting point to grow upon.

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RE: has any one a slavelist? - 10/28/2009 8:06:43 PM

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Speaking from the submissive standpoint having a list of things gives one a sense of all the possibilities so that she or he can make an informed decision of whether or not he or she would enjoy these activities, want to try them out, etc. I loved having the list that someone sent me whether I filled it out and sent it along to a potential dominant or I kept it for my sake and answered the questions of what I was interested in based on what I had filled out on it.

I want to thank the Op for asking so that I could find an extensive list to peruse once again. I have been away from bdsm for awhile and so I lost the information and could use a kinky refresher course. Lol.

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RE: has any one a slavelist? - 10/29/2009 1:35:55 AM

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I'm not sure what You're asking for, but if You mean a fetish checklist, Alt.com has a massive list. I used to be on there and it took forEVER to fill out! Maybe look at theirs and get some ideas.

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RE: has any one a slavelist? - 10/29/2009 9:06:46 PM

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'1) Petite
2) Good Sense of Humor
3) Beautiful
4) Intelligent
5) Pleasing
6)Obedient
7) Female (sorry but I am hetero) '

shouldn't female be at the top of the list....?

'1. milk
2. sugar
3. blueberries
4. bananas
5. fresh basil
6. paper towels
7. laundry detergent
8. cat litter
9. dry Frinskies
10. Boarshead garlic bologna
11. American cheese
12. kaiser rolls '

Ah, so you finally found the ingredients for McDonalds secret sauce

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RE: has any one a slavelist? - 10/29/2009 9:11:07 PM

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RE: has any one a slavelist? - 10/30/2009 4:18:25 AM

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