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Exhibition QnA? - 10/11/2009 3:36:19 AM   
ElementalChaos


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Status: offline 		I'm comfertable with the idea, but I'm new to doing it, & wonder what location to choose?
Would totaly do things in a car, but that sounds to easy & lame. However I'm not quite bold enough to do things in a movie theater. Other then the usual making out, & sometimes copping a feel outside Master's pants.

Slowly I'm moving in that direction, until then, does anyone have ideas for me to try? Will love any opinions I recieve.

Thanks so very much!!
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RE: Exhibition QnA? - 10/11/2009 4:14:11 AM   
daintydimples


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Status: offline 		Ideally an exhibitionist should be paired with an exhibitor. An exhibitor will have his own ideas, trust me.






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RE: Exhibition QnA? - 10/11/2009 6:42:42 AM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		Forgive a stupid question, but your Dom IS onboard with this, correct?  I once had a submissive grope me in semi-public once and that was a factor making me decide to drop her like a hot potato.

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RE: Exhibition QnA? - 10/12/2009 3:21:30 AM   
ElementalChaos


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Status: offline 		My Dom is ok with everything. He is just way above me in this area, & he never started out with small steps. His first exhibition was
at an outdoor rock concert, where everyone and his brother could see. So he really dosn't know how to build me up in this area.

Other then a car, hot tub, pool, or trampoline. I'm not sure where to try.

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RE: Exhibition QnA? - 10/12/2009 6:22:15 AM   
dreamerdreaming


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Status: offline 		Please have the good sense not to do anything obvious, where non-consenting people could see. Its not cool to involve other people in your kink, without their prior consent.

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RE: Exhibition QnA? - 10/12/2009 7:03:56 AM   
ElementalChaos


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Status: offline 		Please don't get me wrong, I have no intent to involve anyone. What my Dom has done early on, has nothing to do with me.
Even the places I previously mentioned, are ALL at our home.
However, if someone tried to see something, they could. But they would have to put in curious effort.

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RE: Exhibition QnA? - 10/12/2009 7:11:58 AM   
OsideGirl


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Status: offline 		You might also want to check the sex offender laws in your state. Under Meghan's Law in California public nudity and assisting public nudity are considered offenses that can get you listed as a sex offender for life.

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RE: Exhibition QnA? - 10/13/2009 1:55:29 PM   
Domitianus


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Status: offline 		You might consider "accidental" flashing while out and about, shopping or whatever.  A short skirt with nothing beneath can allow very easy "accidental" peaks while squatting down to look at a product on the bottom shelf at the grocery store, for instance. Or going to a full-service shoe store where the salesperson helps with the sizing and fitting of the shoes.

A small step and more defensible action than blatant exhibitionism.

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RE: Exhibition QnA? - 10/13/2009 2:12:40 PM   
AnimusRex


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Status: offline 		The safest route is to start at a BDSM or swingers club, where you can get naked in front of an appreciative and receptive crowd.

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RE: Exhibition QnA? - 10/13/2009 2:22:18 PM   
mbes


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ORIGINAL: Domitianus

You might consider "accidental" flashing while out and about, shopping or whatever.  A short skirt with nothing beneath can allow very easy "accidental" peaks while squatting down to look at a product on the bottom shelf at the grocery store, for instance.

Please, for the love of all that is kinky, don't do this at my grocery store while I'm there.
I agree with the club suggestion, those are great places to show off, and everyone there knows to expect it.

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RE: Exhibition QnA? - 10/13/2009 4:06:05 PM   
roughleather


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Status: offline 		You're in Texas. Have some fun with that. Very short, ratty cutoffs, cowboy boots, and a skimpy top. Maybe just a bandanna tied above your breasts. Go to a club and dance really dirty.



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RE: Exhibition QnA? - 10/13/2009 4:24:58 PM   
porcelaine


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quote:

ORIGINAL: ElementalChaos

Other then the usual making out, & sometimes copping a feel outside Master's pants. Slowly I'm moving in that direction, until then, does anyone have ideas for me to try? Will love any opinions I recieve.


you've indicated that you have a Master, which leads me to wonder why you're posing the question to outside parties, unless you've been instructed to do so? i always believed it was the submissive's responsibility to perform acts that are pleasing to Him, based upon His feedback and instruction. not well intentioned suggestions from strangers.

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RE: Exhibition QnA? - 10/13/2009 4:52:07 PM   
vagabondduo


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Domitianus

You might consider "accidental" flashing while out and about, shopping or whatever.  A short skirt with nothing beneath can allow very easy "accidental" peaks while squatting down to look at a product on the bottom shelf at the grocery store, for instance. Or going to a full-service shoe store where the salesperson helps with the sizing and fitting of the shoes.

A small step and more defensible action than blatant exhibitionism.


A prank like these might get you reported to the manager and possibly the police might be brought into this.  It is never right to "flash" a stranger for any reason whatsoever.  It is never right to bring a stranger into your kink without their permission.  Why would anyone think so little of a salesperson's feelings in the matter?  Just because a person in a store provides a service does not mean they provide any service. 

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RE: Exhibition QnA? - 10/13/2009 6:05:55 PM   
GraciousLady


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Status: offline 		Why would you want to do such things in public? When you do it is always possiable a child or unwilling person may see you. That is criminal and quite honestly, I agree. I always did such things in the proper place like a club.

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RE: Exhibition QnA? - 10/14/2009 3:56:33 AM   
ranja


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quote:

ORIGINAL: ElementalChaos

I'm comfertable with the idea, but I'm new to doing it, & wonder what location to choose?
Would totaly do things in a car, but that sounds to easy & lame. However I'm not quite bold enough to do things in a movie theater. Other then the usual making out, & sometimes copping a feel outside Master's pants.

Slowly I'm moving in that direction, until then, does anyone have ideas for me to try? Will love any opinions I recieve.

Thanks so very much!!


Things are not easy and lame... however subtle is a good word, not lame, never lame

on a night out wear a sexy half cup bra under a see through top

If you want to go in your face totally rude and embarrassing book a trip to Amsterdam and hire a window in the redlight district for an hour... they cater specially for the flashing the general public there..

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RE: Exhibition QnA? - 10/14/2009 5:42:32 AM   
Elisabella


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ORIGINAL: dreamerdreaming

Please have the good sense not to do anything obvious, where non-consenting people could see. Its not cool to involve other people in your kink, without their prior consent.


Yeah this. Theres nothing wrong with exhibitionism so long as you do it in an area thats designated for adult oriented exhibitionism.

Seriously you don't want to be the type of insensitive douchebag who will put on a public sex show in front of people who don't give a shit. If you do it at a movie theatre make sure you hit the ATM first so you can hand out a $11 dollar refund to every single person in that theatre who gets pissed at you for exhibiting yourself.

If you live in an area that doesn't have any BDSM or swinger or sex clubs, just do amateur night at a strip club or buy a webcam. There's no need to shove your kink down the throats of anyone who isn't interested in your unwarranted self importance.

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RE: Exhibition QnA? - 10/14/2009 8:02:58 AM   
SirRussellP


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Status: offline 		I like to take mine for a walk or window shopping with her wearing a shorter skirt, no panties and a butt plug.  No one but us knows how she is dressed but it does fall into a showing off area soon.

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