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GYPSYMAMBO -> RE: Question regarding Authenticity (10/9/2009 9:29:39 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: geomease So I have a quick question. I've been catting a bit through email with a professional dom who claims to be looking for a 24/7 sub/slave for a real relationship with. Everything seems to be going nicely she seems very wel versed and she has her own website with detailed description of her skills training and abilities and it all sounds very nice. But all of the sudden she says I have a final test of sorts, that I have to send her a financial gift of sorts. It's at this point that i have become wary, I've heard that financial dom's should be avoided whenever possible and not only that but I am quite strapped for cash. Is it probable that I am just getting scammed or is this just as she said a test? Any suggestions or tips would be greatly appreciated. 1) asking for a $ 'gift' does not make her a financial DOMME 2)24-7 can mean live in??..live in often means you contrubute $ to the household..Is she checking if you are broke?..have a job or want a place to live and get kink? 3)PRO means PROFESSIONAL..many have live- ins IN their home who attend to them like any other D 4)why would there be a FINAL test to ACTUALLY LIVE IN 24-7 WHEN YOU HAVE NOT MET..and just chatted..? is this "REAL" relationship to an on line 24-7? 5) real means different things to different people Scamming is getting money for nothing...if she is setting up an on-line and is a PRO you may be paying AND GETTING SOMETHING.. IF you are to go LIVE WITH HER...then ask WHY a FINAL test is not being WITH her under consideration.? There is obviously a misunderstanding here some where ** LET US KNOW WHAT HAPPENS...I am interested.. If your life is such that being an online part of her life "FITS"for you( and $ is involved) then you can decide from there...wheather you are paying for a SERVICE rendered that enhances your life or not.. IF you thought you were to be a special( non $) addition to her life/home and she thinks dif then you move on if you so desire. GM

Lockit -> RE: Question regarding Authenticity (10/9/2009 11:33:44 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ThatDamnedPanda quote: ORIGINAL: geomease I see, I suppose what they say is is correct, if something seems to good to be true ir probably is. There is a newbie munch coming up, I just need to find a way to get out there to it. Lacking a car is a major handicap and from what I've seen or heard there are currently no carpools going there. Well now. That's an interesting development. I just happened to look at your profile, and as it turns out, there now is a car pool going to this month's newcomers' munch. You live a couple of miles from me. I'll drop you a C-mail on the other side, and if you like, I'll introduce you to some real people in the local scene tomorrow. Woooohooooo Panda! Kudo's to you! That is so nice...

ThatDamnedPanda -> RE: Question regarding Authenticity (10/9/2009 12:17:59 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lockit quote: ORIGINAL: ThatDamnedPanda quote: ORIGINAL: geomease I see, I suppose what they say is is correct, if something seems to good to be true ir probably is. There is a newbie munch coming up, I just need to find a way to get out there to it. Lacking a car is a major handicap and from what I've seen or heard there are currently no carpools going there. Well now. That's an interesting development. I just happened to look at your profile, and as it turns out, there now is a car pool going to this month's newcomers' munch. You live a couple of miles from me. I'll drop you a C-mail on the other side, and if you like, I'll introduce you to some real people in the local scene tomorrow. Woooohooooo Panda! Kudo's to you! That is so nice... It's easy as pie. Turns out he only lives 2 miles away. We just talked on the phone, and I'm scooping him up in the Pandamobile at 12:30 tomorrow. [sm=car.gif] Sounds like a really nice kid, and I think he'll make a lot of new friends at the munch tomorrow. Damn, I'm glad I thought to click on his profile. I almost never do that; don't know why it occurred to me this time.

Lockit -> RE: Question regarding Authenticity (10/9/2009 1:18:43 PM)
That is great Panda! He can't go wrong having a friend like you... and I must admit... I am a bit green that you can't come pick me up too! lol I hope you both have a great time!

hardbodysub -> RE: Question regarding Authenticity (10/9/2009 2:01:58 PM)
Bait and switch, for sure. Maybe not quite as bad as "take the money and run", but a scam nevertheless. For the OP, don't even consider sending her anything. From what I've read, you can't afford the risk. If she's serious, she can wait until you meet. The excuse always given is that the domme has been stood up too many times, and is only protecting herself by requiring a tribute before meeting. That's hogwash. She can easily avoid a waste of her time by arranging a meeting with you which doesn't inconvenience her in the least. For example, she can arrange to meet you at an event where she was going to be anyway. If you don't show, she loses nothing.

thishereboi -> RE: Question regarding Authenticity (10/9/2009 8:51:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ThatDamnedPanda quote: ORIGINAL: Lockit quote: ORIGINAL: ThatDamnedPanda quote: ORIGINAL: geomease I see, I suppose what they say is is correct, if something seems to good to be true ir probably is. There is a newbie munch coming up, I just need to find a way to get out there to it. Lacking a car is a major handicap and from what I've seen or heard there are currently no carpools going there. Well now. That's an interesting development. I just happened to look at your profile, and as it turns out, there now is a car pool going to this month's newcomers' munch. You live a couple of miles from me. I'll drop you a C-mail on the other side, and if you like, I'll introduce you to some real people in the local scene tomorrow. Woooohooooo Panda! Kudo's to you! That is so nice... It's easy as pie. Turns out he only lives 2 miles away. We just talked on the phone, and I'm scooping him up in the Pandamobile at 12:30 tomorrow. [sm=car.gif] Sounds like a really nice kid, and I think he'll make a lot of new friends at the munch tomorrow. Damn, I'm glad I thought to click on his profile. I almost never do that; don't know why it occurred to me this time. That is wonderful, I hope everyone has a great time.

shadowowl -> RE: Question regarding Authenticity (10/9/2009 9:02:27 PM)
I would say it's a scam cause even if they are pro if they are aware of your finacial situation being straped for cash they should have ended it there that should have failed her test if she was a profesional looking for a finacial slave. Asking for money knowing your situation is just taking advantage of someone and more then likely even if you send the money that will either be the end of it or she will ask for more. If she's a pro she should either accept you without cash for the 24/7 or just turn you away as soon as she realized you don't have the money to do it. leading you on and then asking for money is a scam if I ever saw one. I always tell D's I talk to if they want me to prove I'm real then they can prove they have an imagination and ask me to do something other then pay them cash lol.

GraciousLady -> RE: Question regarding Authenticity (10/9/2009 10:25:29 PM)
No decent Dominant would make demands on you that you were not able to meet. If this is not a scam, and I believe it is, then this Dominany does not have your best interests at heart. Either way you should move on.

WyldHrt -> RE: Question regarding Authenticity (10/9/2009 10:38:57 PM)
quote: It's easy as pie. Turns out he only lives 2 miles away. We just talked on the phone, and I'm scooping him up in the Pandamobile at 12:30 tomorrow. [sm=car.gif] Sounds like a really nice kid, and I think he'll make a lot of new friends at the munch tomorrow. Damn, I'm glad I thought to click on his profile. I almost never do that; don't know why it occurred to me this time. Bonus points to Panda! [:D] The OP is in good hands [:)]

ghitaPVH -> RE: Question regarding Authenticity (10/10/2009 11:16:34 AM)
See, and some people say you cant find happy endings on collarme.... Now Im curious and want to know how the munch goes.....

mnottertail -> RE: Question regarding Authenticity (10/10/2009 11:23:51 AM)
gotta love that minnesota nice!!!!!!!!!!!

geomease -> RE: Question regarding Authenticity (10/10/2009 4:30:52 PM)
As usual gypse your multicolored off panel blunt wisdom is quite refreshing. I attended the munch thanks to the kindly panda and it was a lot more comfortable than I expected it to be, I didn't feel embarrassed talking about my interests at the least. As for the girl I sent her my response to her financial test being as polite as I possibly could, and have yet to hear back from her. So for now I suppose I'll keep looking.

GYPSYMAMBO -> RE: Question regarding Authenticity (10/10/2009 4:32:44 PM)
awwwwwwwwwww sweet cheeks.... GM

tazzygirl -> RE: Question regarding Authenticity (10/10/2009 4:36:44 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ThatDamnedPanda quote: ORIGINAL: Lockit quote: ORIGINAL: ThatDamnedPanda quote: ORIGINAL: geomease I see, I suppose what they say is is correct, if something seems to good to be true ir probably is. There is a newbie munch coming up, I just need to find a way to get out there to it. Lacking a car is a major handicap and from what I've seen or heard there are currently no carpools going there. Well now. That's an interesting development. I just happened to look at your profile, and as it turns out, there now is a car pool going to this month's newcomers' munch. You live a couple of miles from me. I'll drop you a C-mail on the other side, and if you like, I'll introduce you to some real people in the local scene tomorrow. Woooohooooo Panda! Kudo's to you! That is so nice... It's easy as pie. Turns out he only lives 2 miles away. We just talked on the phone, and I'm scooping him up in the Pandamobile at 12:30 tomorrow. [sm=car.gif] Sounds like a really nice kid, and I think he'll make a lot of new friends at the munch tomorrow. Damn, I'm glad I thought to click on his profile. I almost never do that; don't know why it occurred to me this time. Awwww. Knew you had heart Panda. Such a sexy animal! [;)]

thishereboi -> RE: Question regarding Authenticity (10/10/2009 5:05:15 PM)
Glad to hear everything went well. Good luck in your search.

geomease -> RE: Question regarding Authenticity (10/10/2009 6:21:31 PM)
Yes, warm fuzzies all around. Munch went well, hopefully will meet that special someone willing to tie me up and leave me in their basement. [sm=hearts.gif] But seriously I hope to find someone who matches me nicely and is willing to go slow with a beginner. Gotta take it one step at a time of course. Also I'm no longer a vanilla but curious now. Ques cheesy level up music as HP and TP recover (yet another reference to my fav MMO kudos if you guess right)

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