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Getting to know you, and you me. - 10/5/2009 8:00:41 PM

Rich1245

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Well hello! I'm a 63yo man that many people might believe is too old to become involved with, but let me tell you, this ol' guy still has the "juice"!! I have the experience to slowly mold a female sub with purpose and with ease. I don't play mind (abuse) games. I don't play physical abuse games. I train and I reward, I care well for my sub, expressing openly and freely my emotions concerning her and her desires. I work hard to meet her needs, to satisfy her desires, and to assure her that pleasing me will bring to her great rewards. For probably the last time in my life I want to meet a submissive female - an honest woman - who is secure in her mind, her body, and her life. I don't want a woman that has an agenda hidden deeply inside the guise of attempting to be submissive. Is this asking for so much? I hope I've described my situation in a clear enough manner that I will attract at least one woman's attention. (I feel like a fisherman throwing a baited hook into the water, then winding in the line to see what I've caught, if anything, or was my bait stolen?) Sometimes when I write here, or in similar places, I wonder if I've said too much, or not enough, or if I've used the wrong words sure to scare a potential partner (solel-mate?) away. Yes, a sole mate would certainly be the ideal! Seriously ladies, I have nothing to gain by being anything but true and open in my words. I don't smoke. I'm disease/drug free. Importantly, I am at a stage in my life when I seek comfort and familiarization; where I can find a woman truely interested in giving her mind and body to me with my assurance that both will be expertly cared for and no harm will come. Think it over. Don't just jump to a conclusion. Contact me privately if I've sparked even the slightest interest in me, if you've felt a tingling between your legs, if goose bumps have suddenly taken up temporary residence all over your body and your nipples have hardened giving you that rare special feeling. Let's not waste a lot of time. If you are seriously interested in meeting me then contact me, let's talk and get to know one another. Allow us a couple of weeks to become somewhat at ease with each other. I'm not in a rush to hold you in my arms until you are ready for me to do that. So let's just get this started and find out how happy we each can be having found a soul-mate to consider spending a extrordinary amount of time, maybe the rest of our lives, together. You may address me as Sir. [email protected].

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RE: Getting to know you, and you me. - 10/5/2009 8:05:58 PM

KyttynTheMynx

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RE: Getting to know you, and you me. - 10/5/2009 8:08:44 PM

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Hi, i'm 64 and you are NOT too old!

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RE: Getting to know you, and you me. - 10/5/2009 8:56:56 PM

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Gary was 64 when we met. If he had first written to me on Collarme I most likely would have not been interested in him due to his age and that he lived 550 miles away. However, we met at a BDSM event. We got to know each other and enjoyed each other's company.

To be frank, many of the Doms I know over 60 say that it is next to impossible to find a submssive online at their age. One said he might get one reply for every 50 notes he mailed out on a site like this. So, your odds are not good if you are using only the internet for your search.

Go to munch. Go to events. Dazzle those submissives with your great personality is my advice. Remember, although there are more women your age than men due to the fact that men die at earlier ages, there are fewer kinky women than kinky men. You might have to actually work at finding and collaring a submissive.

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RE: Getting to know you, and you me. - 10/5/2009 9:18:07 PM

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Thanks peppermint, that certainly is very good advice. There happens to be a munch coming up next week I think, and a party on the 24 which I was going to attend. It has been difficult getting anyone interested in me from the internet. Thanks again.

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RE: Getting to know you, and you me. - 10/5/2009 11:12:38 PM

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Fantastic, Rich!!!
One word, okay more than one word of advice in case you have not been to a munch before. Single guys are sometimes watched with suspicion the first time or two at a munch. Some come to munch figuring it's an easy pick up joint cause kinky women must be hot and ready. Those men stop attending when they go home alone. So, be persistent. Have fun and make friends. Networking is a great way to spread the word about what you have to offer. Good luck!!!

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RE: Getting to know you, and you me. - 10/6/2009 1:23:22 AM

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RE: Getting to know you, and you me. - 10/6/2009 3:32:19 AM

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