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Here's a New Lie - 9/30/2009 4:07:45 AM

MsStarlett

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Ok Ladies, we've all heard the lines that we know are lies. Here's a new one!

I've been contacted by a 'female sub'. 'She' first dropped me a note before 'she' even had an active profile. Second note was to offer me a boy. Third note was to invite me to a "Birthday Party" for this sub male. 'She' want's it to be "really special"... but the other Dommes that 'she' contacted were all fakers.

Yeah. Right.

Let's read between the lines a little. I just got invited to go to a 'Birthday party' for a bunch of total strangers. To make it 'really special', I assume that I'm supposed to show up dressed like a kinky whore and engage in erotic activity with at least the birthday boy and probably ALL of his friends. I seriously doubt that a female would EVER ask another woman, a total stranger, to show up and be the "Free Stripper" at a kegger.

*Gees*

Now, I suppose 'she' is going to start complaining that I'm a 'faker' because I didn't jump on this opportunity. Right. As they say, I might have been born at night, but it wasn't last night.

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RE: Here's a New Lie - 9/30/2009 4:45:07 AM

PeonForHer

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Well, I have to say, s/he deserves credit for being more creative than most. Ingenious!

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RE: Here's a New Lie - 9/30/2009 9:40:56 AM

AAkasha

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Yes, I've heard versions of this one before. But it's funny, I recently had reason to consider contacting femdoms in another country about setting up a "session" with a long distance boy I'm smitten with, in efforts to fulfill a fantasy of mine. As I started to compose my message and strategy, I realized how awfully predictable and totally dishonest it sounded, even though it's REAL!!! A femdom in California contacting femdoms in another country to meet, bind, do x, y and z to a man and then video tape it for me or have me watch live on cam? Even *I* know that sounds absolutely like wank material.

But before I even sent out one email, I realized the fatal flaw in it. How do I know what this woman is like, beyond the text or profiles she may have up? How do I know I can trust her to not harm him? What if I don't like her "style"? I had already started to figure out ways to prove, out of the gate, that my offer was legit - like an immediate phone call, link to my site, references, whatever..but I realized if a woman said, "Sure. Send him over, I'll do it," I would start to worry -- ok, what DO I know about this woman? Surely, if I care about the man, I want to make sure he is in good hands.

I realized it's at least better - but not ideal - to send him to a legitimate professional dungeon for this little fantasy of mine. But the issue of language barrier, currency and other things made me table the idea and instead more realistically evaluate just showing up and doing it to him myself. Which is probably how it will have to go, eventually.

Still, it remains a hot fantasy and one I come back to - that is, having a woman dominate a man, for me, while I observe far away - either by cam or having it filmed - but I would have to really resonate with the lady on the other end, and that requires a whole deeper level of logistics.

Akasha

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RE: Here's a New Lie - 9/30/2009 10:17:27 AM

LadyPact

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I have to agree with Aakasha on this one. Since clip travels around the country and the world, I know first hand the problems that can be associated with this. The truth is, you'll never know that person in the other location and that can bring up certain issues. In My personal experience, we've had very positive outcomes and some slightly negative ones. That's even after the extensive research that I've done and making every attempt to verify who was on the other end.

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RE: Here's a New Lie - 9/30/2009 3:50:52 PM

Politesub53

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Dearest MsStarlett, I`m having this birthday party for politesub53 and

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RE: Here's a New Lie - 9/30/2009 4:06:09 PM

PeonForHer

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I've known of other femdoms who've been in that position, LP. It really does seem to be a diplomatic nightmare to bring off. So many issues of trust - but magnified three ways . . .

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RE: Here's a New Lie - 9/30/2009 4:25:18 PM

SthrnCom4t

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I've actually done some training of a pseudo local male sub, while being in contact with his Mistress who was on a long-term work assignment in Mexico. Originally he contacted me, and I thought, sure....lies! So, then 'She' contacts me, and I casually respond with a request for a post card from her location. A few days later, lo and behold, the post card arrived. She and I had several more opportunities for correspondance, and her devious mind was worth picking, let me tell you! I met with him twice, and it was an enjoyable experience. I'm sure they were looking for more, but I just had too much going on in my life at the time. He was particularly obedient, and since he's moved to the Northwest, I hope he is doing well.

So, just goes to prove, it can happen, but it takes a lot of correspondance and communication.

PS. Ms Starlett ...You could always have some fun by making them meet certain requirements in order for you to 'consider' their proposal. <wicked evil grin>

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RE: Here's a New Lie - 9/30/2009 6:06:18 PM

LookieNoNookie

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MsStarlett

I just got invited to go to a 'Birthday party' for a bunch of total strangers. To make it 'really special', I assume that I'm supposed to show up dressed like a kinky whore and engage in erotic activity with at least the birthday boy and probably ALL of his friends.

Have I mentioned....it's my birthday?

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RE: Here's a New Lie - 9/30/2009 7:03:24 PM

PeonForHer

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"Happy Birthday To You" is the most widely-sung song on the planet, Nookie. It's sung, in English, in Africa, India, Tibet, Nepal - even parts of China. Of all the weird cultural exports from the West, it's that that's reach the farthest. Go figure. Anyway: Happy birthday.

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RE: Here's a New Lie - 10/1/2009 4:36:01 AM

fadedshadow

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fake people suck

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RE: Here's a New Lie - 10/1/2009 6:29:10 AM

chiaThePet

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quote:

ORIGINAL: fadedshadow

fake people suck

Well I'm in big trouble.

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RE: Here's a New Lie - 10/1/2009 6:47:46 PM

LookieNoNookie

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quote:

ORIGINAL: fadedshadow

fake people suck

(As long as that's their avocation....I'm good with that).

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RE: Here's a New Lie - 10/2/2009 8:43:28 AM

SnowRanger

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And real people... OMPP... WOOMP... GAG... GULP... GULP... GULP...

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RE: Here's a New Lie - 10/2/2009 10:19:47 AM

allthatjaz

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quote:

ORIGINAL: AAkasha

Yes, I've heard versions of this one before. But it's funny, I recently had reason to consider contacting femdoms in another country about setting up a "session" with a long distance boy I'm smitten with, in efforts to fulfill a fantasy of mine. As I started to compose my message and strategy, I realized how awfully predictable and totally dishonest it sounded, even though it's REAL!!! A femdom in California contacting femdoms in another country to meet, bind, do x, y and z to a man and then video tape it for me or have me watch live on cam? Even *I* know that sounds absolutely like wank material.

But before I even sent out one email, I realized the fatal flaw in it. How do I know what this woman is like, beyond the text or profiles she may have up? How do I know I can trust her to not harm him? What if I don't like her "style"? I had already started to figure out ways to prove, out of the gate, that my offer was legit - like an immediate phone call, link to my site, references, whatever..but I realized if a woman said, "Sure. Send him over, I'll do it," I would start to worry -- ok, what DO I know about this woman? Surely, if I care about the man, I want to make sure he is in good hands.

I realized it's at least better - but not ideal - to send him to a legitimate professional dungeon for this little fantasy of mine. But the issue of language barrier, currency and other things made me table the idea and instead more realistically evaluate just showing up and doing it to him myself. Which is probably how it will have to go, eventually.

Still, it remains a hot fantasy and one I come back to - that is, having a woman dominate a man, for me, while I observe far away - either by cam or having it filmed - but I would have to really resonate with the lady on the other end, and that requires a whole deeper level of logistics.

Akasha

That was a good read and having once sent a male sub to another Mistress (a friend no less) and it all going tits up, I can well understand your predicament.

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RE: Here's a New Lie - 10/3/2009 10:49:45 AM

LPslittleclip

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birthday party really? well i doubt it was a real one but loaning out Yours to another takes allot of trust on both parts and even with research it can still go awry. there are genuine folks out there just looking to start in the lifestyle, remember a new sub contacting a Domme on alt and chatting several times and driving several hours just to meet without playing. now he has proudly become Mistress slave and collared for more than 2 years. thats how i met my Mistress and it has been a wonderful journey, not always easy or smooth but more than worth the end result.

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RE: Here's a New Lie - 10/5/2009 9:31:02 AM

frankieboy52

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Miss Starlett....if you go..don't forget the Leslie Gore record.

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RE: Here's a New Lie - 10/5/2009 11:16:12 AM

Missokyst

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Yes, but you cant feel it

quote:

ORIGINAL: fadedshadow

fake people suck

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RE: Here's a New Lie - 10/5/2009 11:20:05 AM

fadedshadow

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indeed indeed

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