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Dom + Dom: Physical Challenge!  (Dare and Double Dare didn't work.)  If you both feel like the dom than it comes down to a straight up power battle.  This can be a lot of fun also, and kind of a mindfuck because the domination is more "real" in some sense.  Consider that eventually when one dom wins the other is actually subdued (kind of) against their will.  This might be a really unfortunate situation for a real dom, but lucky you... you're not really a dom... you're a switch that wanted to be a dom that day and got forced into the role of sub.  Well hopefully at this point as a switch who can enjoy both roles you are getting into it because this time around your submission feels more authentic then when you agreed to or had to beg for it in the 2 examples above, you were sincerely subdued by the other switch.  Likewise now you've got a switch (dom) who actually had to physically dominate the other switch (sub) to win the position and as such is having a great time of it as well.  Like I said, a mindfuck... but a good one, in my opinion

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ORIGINAL: leadership527

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ORIGINAL: MistressRouge
It is interesting that many think that Dominant women, are also Dominant in the bedroom [:D]

*chuckles* That's why I like to use top/bottom in the bedroom and dom/sub outside. Near as I can tell, they are two entirely different animals which only happen to line-up sometimes. And, at least in my marraige, the dom/sub thing is pretty fixed but we can go back and forth on top/bottom several times in one evening.