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CarrieO -> RE: Introducing myself (9/26/2009 4:53:05 PM)
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Hello,
I'm not a mistress...just a woman who identifies as a switch...so I may or may not be your target audience. Either way...welcome.
Yes, mnottertail (Ron) gave you some excellent advice on the "Introduce Yourself" forum, probably some of the best I've heard given here to a new sub in a very long time. But, don't forget the other bits offered, especially this from VampiresLair...
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Slow down and look around, then worry about who you want to be with. Remember these are relationships like any other, dont be a role, be a person. Dont meet someone because they are Dominant, meet them for who they are and then enjoy their dominance. Get to know them, not their title.
Now...First things first. You asked for ways to "better" yourself in regards to domestic service. If this is a real interest of yours and something you would like to offer as service, take a look at this thread... http://www.collarchat.com/m_2798445/mpage_1/key_/tm.htm#2798445 It offers list upon list of ways to expand your knowledge.
Now to your questions...
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My question is this, given what I've said about myself is it even possible if there is a girl out there for me? Am I just too unorthodox?
Anything is possible, the question really should be "Is anything probable?" You're so new, given what you've offered thus far on these boards and in your profile, I bet you still have bits of packing peanuts floating around you! My advice is to slow down, get to know people, attend a local munch and learn what it means for you to identify as a submissive male. Talk to other subs, both male and female. Make generous use of the search feature found in the top right-hand corner and READ. Along with doing all that, take the time to develop yourself as a person and the skills you'll need, not just to offer a perspective dominant but also life skills. Take a read over Lockit's thread on cabbagepatch submissives (which I found not only amusing but spot on right!) http://www.collarchat.com/m_2800628/tm.htm
If you really are serious about your approach, and not just looking for kinky sex or a "do-me" session, then you'll have some work ahead of you. Once the frenzy wears off and you start getting to know people, you'll learn to appreciate the concept of having discerning tastes.
Good luck
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