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New Slave in Inland Empire Ca. - 8/26/2009 12:46:48 PM   
PrisAnn951


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Hello everyone.. This is my first time posting here and I want to introduce myself to you all.
My name is Priscilla and I am slave to my Master "R". I care a great deal for him and will do just about anything he asks.
I would like to know from other slaves, what the "good part" is for you. So far I have not gotten rewarded for my loyalty or service to my master. Other than once he allowed me to have orgasm with a vibrator, but I was not sexually arroused first and it was not much fun.

We have only been together about a month now and I wonder how long it takes to start being treated nice once in a while.
I am not allowed to use furniture when he is here, I have to ask permission to leave my house and I have to follow a schedule he wrote for me. I do all he asks.
I get no sexual pleasure, only 2 hours of free time and am never allowed to masturbate or touch myself sexually in any way.
Is this normal in a new relationship? This is my first "willing" time of being a slave.

If you live in my area, I would love to meet you and learn more about being a good slave to a deserving master.

Thank you in advance......... Priscilla
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RE: New Slave in Inland Empire Ca. - 8/26/2009 1:03:55 PM   
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Welcome Pricilla,

It sounds normal for your dominant. As for other's... that is hard to say as everyone does things differently. If you like this and this is all you want out of the situation... then it is normal for you too. If not... I would be asking to speak to him and finding out what direction this can go in or would be taking a walk. Of course I am dominant so that wouldn't happen to me, but I would never do that to a submissive either. Anything close to that and I would be talking to him and explaining things. 

You have a right to decide what you want and need in life and to pick a dominant that considers those things.

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RE: New Slave in Inland Empire Ca. - 8/26/2009 8:19:37 PM   
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Sounds rather harsh to me, Girl.. But I am a switch, not a Master..
But I do feel that ultimately, it is your decision, Honey. This is why
the D/s lifestyle has Limits Lists, despite any, "Slave Contract" which
you may have signed, under duress. Call you local 911 number and
tell them that you need help, girl !!! Both subs and Dominants are
human beings, and human beings are notoriously selfish and ego-
tistical.

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RE: New Slave in Inland Empire Ca. - 8/26/2009 8:48:15 PM   
PrisAnn951


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hi... Thank you for your words of encouragement. I think things are going to be good now. Tonight he showed me the caring side of him and it was very nice. He is a great Dom and when I worship him and do things for him, it is because it pleases me so much. I love being submissive to him and having him arrange my day's and nights for me is what I like also.
When I know I am pleasing him, I have done well. When I'm told to bow down and kiss his feet, it gives me joy. I honor this man and he knows how much I care for him. I accept his punishments knowing I am his to do with has he pleases.
This is going to be a lasting relationship. I can tell I have chosen the right Dom to control my life.

Thank you,
Slave to my Master

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RE: New Slave in Inland Empire Ca. - 8/26/2009 9:10:30 PM   
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911, no way.. it's not that kind of relationship. We are in a M/s relationship that is consensual by both of us. He isn't that mean. He is just in control of me and I want that, or I would not be here.
I doubt the 911 operator would like me calling and saying "help, I'm not getting sex" .. she would laugh at me. I'm not being physically abused. I just wanted to know if withholding sex is normal. How long does it usually last and stuff like that.
I got a personal letter from a lady saying she was withheld sex for 6 months.. and when she finally got it, it was the best she ever had. Maybe that's a good thing.
He does manage my diet and exercise program for better health and everything he does is better for me than I was doing myself. I'm sorry if I gave the impression that he was beating me beyond my limit... that has never happened. As far as the spankings, face slapping an hair pulling goes, I encourage it and he knows I like it when he does these things. I see how strong he is and I don't try to walk on him or belittle him, I know it would not work. I have never really respected men and this one I do. He demands respect and I gratefully give it to him. I adore him. I just want to be sexual with him and that hasn't happed yet. He knows I was to sexual and he is trying to teach me control. I know this.
Thank you for your input and please know I am happy with my Master.

Slave to my Master

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RE: New Slave in Inland Empire Ca. - 10/5/2009 6:40:38 PM   
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OP, there is no right or wrong way as long as it is consensual and does not involve abuse or damage.

It will take time for the two of you to adjust to each other, and for you to get used to D/s.


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RE: New Slave in Inland Empire Ca. - 10/6/2009 1:28:23 AM   
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RE: New Slave in Inland Empire Ca. - 10/6/2009 3:27:54 AM   
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