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How to find the right Daddy for this girl - 8/26/2009 5:58:36 AM

daddyslilgirly

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Maybe it's the eternal question, but I put quite a lot of my true heart out there on my profile, and all I am getting is creepy old guys who start off by calling me their fuck bitch, demanding I clean their house and do all their dirty work, and basically telling me the way it's going to be.

Look at my profile - am I asking for this kind of abuse right off the bat before getting to know someone? I mean, yes, I want all that but I want to get to know a man before agreeing to be his live-in slave. Or is that just the way things go on CM?

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RE: How to find the right Daddy for this girl - 8/26/2009 6:07:07 AM

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ORIGINAL: daddyslilgirly

Maybe it's the eternal question, but I put quite a lot of my true heart out there on my profile, and all I am getting is creepy old guys who start off by calling me their fuck bitch, demanding I clean their house and do all their dirty work, and basically telling me the way it's going to be.

Look at my profile - am I asking for this kind of abuse right off the bat before getting to know someone? I mean, yes, I want all that but I want to get to know a man before agreeing to be his live-in slave. Or is that just the way things go on CM?

It's the way things go in life ... there's always a lot of chaff to be sorted from the wheat.

And it's worse online - the mere fact anyone with a pulse and a computer can set themselves up as whatever they want to claim to be means that yes, you do get a lot of ... let's be polite and call them "numpties".

Stick with it, don't compromise on what you want, and you will almost certainly find what you're after, eventually - bear in mind that, as in life, nothing in BDSM is guaranteed

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RE: How to find the right Daddy for this girl - 8/26/2009 6:14:47 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: daddyslilgirly

Maybe it's the eternal question, but I put quite a lot of my true heart out there on my profile, and all I am getting is creepy old guys who start off by calling me their fuck bitch, demanding I clean their house and do all their dirty work, and basically telling me the way it's going to be.

Look at my profile - am I asking for this kind of abuse right off the bat before getting to know someone? I mean, yes, I want all that but I want to get to know a man before agreeing to be his live-in slave. Or is that just the way things go on CM?

Your profile states that you want a man aged 40+. What differentiates a 40+ man from a creepy old guy?

Your profile also states "I will take care of you, clean your house, cook, do laundry, run errands and I also want to give up all 3 holes to you whenever you want it. I love the idea of being available as a piece of meat for you to use at any time or place."

Why are you surprised that the men who contact you expect housecleaning?

You also state that you live for housework and humiliation.

The responses you are getting are from men who have read your profile and are meeting your stated preferences. You may want to rewrite your profile if you're not happy with what you're getting.

That said, welcome to collarme.

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RE: How to find the right Daddy for this girl - 8/26/2009 7:14:08 AM

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I agree, I would try rewording your profile.
Good luck!

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RE: How to find the right Daddy for this girl - 8/26/2009 3:43:13 PM

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i haven't viewed your profile. but i have noticed that when you mention wanting a daddy or provide any reference to age play there's a large assumption that you're seeking an older partner. don't ask why, i refuse to crawl inside their heads. if you prefer a definite range i'd be upfront about it. but understand that may not deter those that fall outside of it from writing.

welcome and good luck on your journey.

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RE: How to find the right Daddy for this girl - 8/26/2009 4:00:17 PM

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Let me start of on a positive note and say welcome.

Now...let's see about answering your questions. Just remember, you asked.

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Maybe it's the eternal question, but I put quite a lot of my true heart out there on my profile, and all I am getting is creepy old guys

You specify 40+ in your profile. This is much older than your age (18) so don't be surprised.

who start off by calling me their fuck bitch

Sorry to say but that's not unusual when a young girl offers herself up to be a "piece of meat" on the internet.

demanding I clean their house and do all their dirty work, and basically telling me the way it's going to be.

Well, this is what you offer in your profile. If you don't want to be called on it...don't offer it.

Look at my profile - am I asking for this kind of abuse right off the bat before getting to know someone?

Refer back to what you offer and how you present yourself in your profile. That doesn't mean you're asking for "abuse", it means to be more aware of how you will be percieved.

I mean, yes, I want all that but I want to get to know a man before agreeing to be his live-in slave.

And you want him to pay for your relocation (to perferred places like " NYC, LA, Seattle, Denver, Chicago, London, Milan, Paris - you know, someplace interesting!" ) and have "no baggage". Good luck with that, hun.

Or is that just the way things go on CM?

Not for me but then I'm not an 18 year old girl looking to get out of "Redneckistan".

Yes, that may be harsh, but so is reality. You're young and new with no experience...I really do wish you good luck.

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RE: How to find the right Daddy for this girl - 8/26/2009 9:12:48 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: daddyslilgirly

Maybe it's the eternal question, but I put quite a lot of my true heart out there on my profile, and all I am getting is creepy old guys who start off by calling me their fuck bitch, demanding I clean their house and do all their dirty work, and basically telling me the way it's going to be.

Look at my profile - am I asking for this kind of abuse right off the bat before getting to know someone? I mean, yes, I want all that but I want to get to know a man before agreeing to be his live-in slave. Or is that just the way things go on CM?

It's already been said but, basically, when you put "I love the idea of being available as a piece of meat for you to use at any time or place" in your profile, it's pretty much a lightning rod which will draw the abusive types to you with no hesitation. I would recommend editing your profile and taking out the sexual usage references. Spend a little more time describing who you are, what you bring to relationship aside from wanting to "give up all 3 holes to you whenever you want it". Tailor your descriptions to the kind of person you're hoping to meet.

If what you're hoping for is humiliation and objectification - bring that up after you've started correspondance with someone who seems to have the other characteristics you're looking for.

Also - if there's some ceiling to the acceptable age-limit beyond which consider guys creepy and old, plainly state that you're looking for one over 50 (or whatever your limit is).

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