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RE: Naturally A Fem Domme - 8/21/2009 8:51:09 PM

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I think patriarchy was a load of hokem. But so is Female Supremacy. Its bullshit
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So neither is in charge?

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RE: Naturally A Fem Domme - 8/21/2009 9:10:32 PM

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I was asked my thoughts on male 'supremacy'. She had said she felt it was the males role to lead, command and take the reigns(so to speak). Then she brought up, "love honor and obey".

My premise was, "Men are naturally dominant, this is how we evolved - "it is hard wired". I went on a brief rant in agreement about biology, patriarchal societies and nature.

I am a Dom male and I agreed; evolution: males led tribes, we are hard wired. It has been echoed throughout history.

Then I thought about it, talked to a few others(thanks). I know I could top someone with another female and view her as my equal. I am rethinking this, I could view a woman top as an equal(or more) during scene and respect the their role every time... The point there is I am not sexist.

Anyone? What is the question, right? Although there is variation I think we are hardwired for a M/f roles. In homosexual relationships there is still a partner who evolves into a dominant role, one which could traditionally described as male.

I am typing out loud - sorry.

Well I am sure this has already been said, but some males will be dominant, and some will not, some females will be dominant, while others will not. I believe that upbringing as well as enviorment help shape us to be whatever we turn out to be

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RE: Naturally A Fem Domme - 8/22/2009 6:31:26 AM

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

So, basically, your theory is that you are a dominant because you have a dick.

Thanks for sharing.

Thank you for allowing me to share.

It has very little with having a dick, cunts could have evolved such a way. Re-read my self musings.

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RE: Naturally A Fem Domme - 8/22/2009 6:37:39 AM

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The point there is I am not sexist.

I love lines like this, a bit like im not racist but... not offense but ...

Anywho Esinn, the only thing I agree with in your post is that there is always some form of power dynamic in relationships. Other than that its all rubbish. Firstly the whole biological argument is very questionable, socialisation happens post birth. I think what you actually need to do is look up anthropology, look at some eastern cultures, then come back to me and tell me men are naturally leaders. Patriarchy is a system in the west, but it isnt the only system in the world, and indeed you hold a rather blinkered view.

Therefore I am going to agree, you aren't sexist just ignorant.

I feel you. I am neither sexist or racist.... I was placing a personal musing here for review. I am always open to being incorrect. I did my best to briefly sum up the, "why I am not". . .

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RE: Naturally A Fem Domme - 8/22/2009 7:15:28 AM

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I feel you. I am neither sexist or racist.... I was placing a personal musing here for review. I am always open to being incorrect. I did my best to briefly sum up the, "why I am not". . .

Well not quite, you were placing an opinion framed as fact which was actually inaccurate, there is a subtle difference. Sexism means to judge/oppress/discriminate based upon sex, just for future reference. Trying to make it historical actually does not mitigate that.

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RE: Naturally A Fem Domme - 8/22/2009 8:05:10 AM

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It has very little with having a dick, cunts could have evolved such a way. Re-read my self musings.

I did, and my conclusion is that it's a bunch of pseudo-scientific nonsense. Sociology has far more to do with it than "evolution" or being "hard wired." Even so, not all men are dominant within a given culture, and a dominant personality isn't the same thing as being drawn to D/s. Besides, if you were right, there wouldn't be anything to drive a woman to submit to you in particular - after all, if she's submissive to all men, what makes the interaction with you any different/special?

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RE: Naturally A Fem Domme - 8/22/2009 10:40:39 AM

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So, basically, your theory is that you are a dominant because you have a dick.

Thanks for sharing.

Thank you for allowing me to share.

It has very little with having a dick, cunts could have evolved such a way. Re-read my self musings.

Since we tend to put more into the evolution of our minds than our genitals, I think I'll find something a bit more enlightened. Something with some better grammar, perhaps.

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RE: Naturally A Fem Domme - 8/22/2009 1:29:45 PM

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It has very little with having a dick, cunts could have evolved such a way.

I'm still left with the feeling that you believe that anyone with a dick is naturally dominant. Anyone with a cunt has to evolve into a dominant position. Right or wrong?

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RE: Naturally A Fem Domme - 8/22/2009 1:50:27 PM

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Correct . Dark Steven. Anarchy is bliss
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RE: Naturally A Fem Domme - 8/22/2009 2:23:14 PM

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http://www.journals.elsevierhealth.com/periodicals/ens

HBE, Human Evolutionary Behavior, it is a sociobiology. Some interesting stuff but it will be thousands of years before many of the theories are proven true or false though.

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Since we tend to put more into the evolution of our minds than our genitals, I think I'll find something a bit more enlightened. Something with some better grammar, perhaps.

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RE: Naturally A Fem Domme - 8/22/2009 2:35:31 PM

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While I appreciate you linking the main page to the site, there was no specific article referred. I'm sure they do have wonderful theories. I'm just one of those silly folks who prefer facts.

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RE: Naturally A Fem Domme - 8/22/2009 5:46:50 PM

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I was giving you a tool, do what you want with it. There is no single article that proves or disproves anything, as everything is still in the research stage. Since evolution takes thousands of years, the social behavior of humans will take a long time to track, and decide which of the theories is correct or not. Most of the theories are based in factual studies, but like with much of science, different conclusions are reached depending on many factors.

As far as facts go, even gravity is not a fact and can be anomolous, just look into the pioneer theory. beyond that it comes down to using the scietific method to prove and disprove small parts of anything, and from that try and reach conclusions.

HBE is relatively new and studies some of the pschological evolution of humans, based upon sociological impacts (nurture) and biological drives (nature). Many are papers and articles written concerning how each impact the other.

I am going to overlook the last comment, and write it off as a bad mood on your part. Hope your day gets better.

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RE: Naturally A Fem Domme - 8/22/2009 6:06:54 PM

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All I know is, that when Rickey started yelling "LoooooSEEEEE!!!", Lucy (sorry, lucy) got back into line. That speaks volumes.

This is true, but you notice, they slept in seperate beds....

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