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yourMissTress -> RE: Tired Dom seeking Advice from other Dom/me (2/27/2006 7:34:53 AM)
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ORIGINAL: DraconicAnger
Thanks for the input, while the original post may not have been thoroughly read or perceptions were miscontrued. Thanks anyways and honestly the coffee and breakfast was just an example of her duties. I take care of the children and clean the house and no we are not married. My simple question should probably have been.
How would you deal with a sub after having kids but they constantly give excuses as to why chores are not done. This entails when you the Dom do what is necessary to keep the household running? How many Dom/me would accept excuses from subs on a constant basis even after having stern talks with them. 24/7 relationships go way beyond mere scenes all the time. If you enter an agreement with someone it needs to be abided by or discharged in an amicable manner when you are unable to fulfill it.
Drac
Ok, I stayed away from your initial question simply because it clearly put you in the light of a whining child that wanted all the accoutrements of being an adult (note: NOT DOMINANT)and no responsibility. This question brings many more questions to mind. Most of them being centered around the contradictions in your own question.
1) You say that you are doing everything. But she's giving excuses as to why the chores aren't done? Why is she making excuses for you? and to whom?
2) You say that "stern talks" haven't worked. Have you thought about talking to her as a person? Talking to her on an equal level?
3) I am assuming that you loved this woman to begin with. Maybe not. But if you did, before you go off yelling at your slave for not being slavish, what about attempting to help the woman you love out of what appears to be depression of some kind. I'm also assuming you are not a Dr. so what about taking her to one?
No matter what the result of the relationship between the two of you, at this point I feel very sorry for the children involved. I hope for their sake they don't ever hear you talking the way you did on this board. I hope that they don't ever pick up on how callous and selfish their father is, although kids are far smarter than most adults give them credit for, and intuitive as well. Your resentment of their birth and how they interfered in your life and sexual fantasy will not be something that boosts their self esteem.
Good luck to all of you.
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