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RE: Learning about being a "little girl" on o... - 8/11/2009 11:34:00 AM

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ORIGINAL: Missokyst

How do you get to be a dom of 12 yrs with much to teach at age 23?

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ORIGINAL: MasterWolfe23
I have been a Dom for 12 years and can teach much....

Good pick-up, Missokyst!!

And Wolfe...Fuzzy clearly stated she has a Master. Making that offer to another Masters slave/sub in a public forum is in poor taste.

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RE: Learning about being a "little girl" on o... - 8/11/2009 11:36:56 AM

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ORIGINAL: Missokyst

How do you get to be a dom of 12 yrs with much to teach at age 23?

Delusion.

And while I'm frankly not one to enjoy making generalities, someone with such an avatar would not strike me as a pinnacle of maturity from which a "little" can glean support and nurturing.

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RE: Learning about being a "little girl" on o... - 8/11/2009 12:05:24 PM

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I would give someone the benifit of the doubt, and I would question them about that.You can have years worth of experiences and only be a certain age. Sure you can't go to clubs and bdsm events and stuff, but it does not mean you can't have had experience in dominating people and leading and guiding them and some of the experience needed to do so.

Now however if he can't provide a reasonable answer or it all seemed like wank fantasy I'd scoff at him and walk off, but I would be open to hearing how he had experinces first.

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ORIGINAL: Missokyst

How do you get to be a dom of 12 yrs with much to teach at age 23?

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ORIGINAL: MasterWolfe23
I have been a Dom for 12 years and can teach much....

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RE: Learning about being a "little girl" on o... - 8/11/2009 12:09:29 PM

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I love love LOVE to color and do crafts and stuff, and then when Daddy comes home I'll show and then I wi;l him and then be like see Daddy it's pretty? and he'll say yes baby very pretty, and sometimes I'll color a picture for him an he loves that. I also like saying I am his baby Picasso.

Coloring and crafts are not automatically regressed age stuff for me though I am into crafts at any age regressed or un regressed lol.

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ORIGINAL: kuriouswitch

I found mine with teh help of Master but I'd already done some exploring on my own. Coloring books or craft activity kits geared towards kids are usually safe, this way you can let her out and let her do an activity that's both 'age" appropriate and lets you keep some control

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RE: Learning about being a "little girl" on o... - 8/12/2009 3:33:20 PM

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ORIGINAL: LillyoftheVally

I appologise then for my flippant remark, it was genuinely from a state of not understanding more than anything else, as it is not something I personally relate to.

The Daddy/girl dynamic is a very odd one to explain and very difficult to understand if you dont have a context to explain it in. A year ago I would have recolied from a Daddy/girl dynamic because I was being taught it was wrong and simply an excuse for a submissive to misbehave and be selfish. I know differently now. I still distance myself from the "bratty girl" thing because I find it distasteful but that is something I carry in all headspaces not just a chilish one. I wasn't able to relate the child head space I had to a D/s relationship because I had never been in one with a Dominant who was also a Daddy.

To the OP ... as you move forward you now know that part of what your Dominant needs to be for you is also a nurturer of you little space ... you didn't realise that before ... be empowered by that knowlegde to build a stronger relationship foundation.

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RE: Learning about being a "little girl" on o... - 8/13/2009 5:32:19 AM

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I'm also trying to explore the inner-child I have deep inside me. I asked my Daddy for a little girl day. One that W/we maybe go to the zoo or Toys-R-US so I can buy a baby doll or stuffed animal. I maid a statement without even thinking about it at the time but I'm finding it very close to the truth.... I told my Daddy last night that I wanted and needed to recapture the happiness and peace I once felt before my life took on real adult issues before they should have. I'm very lucky that my Daddy is willing to give me that time. I do like what others have said about taking the time to explore this for yourself. A lot of the things I need to work through are things I will have to do for myself and then take them to my Daddy and share what I have learned. Exploring the little within is a very personal thing for me and I don't even know what it all means right now. My Daddy can give me a safe place to do this but I have to be the one that truly start the crawl and work my way up to baby-steps.
I wish you much luck on your personal journey and know that you are not the only one searching the child within.
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