soul2share
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Mike, please don't beat yourself up about your situation. I've been there, done that, burned the fricking t-shirt. I didn't have the money to treat my last dog's disease, and there was no guarantee that the treatment would improve his quality of life, so I made the decision to let him go. I still wonder, but it was the only decision I could make at the time. Knowing that he'd had a good life, and he wasn't in pain made it a little easier to bear...over time. You're going to hurt, that's normal....it's all part of your grieving process. And allow yourself to grieve, OK? Snuggles knows you did your best, and I'm sure the vet didn't steer you in a wrong direction. Those folks truly love animals in ways that are amazing to me. I could never do the job because of your situation...having to tell someone that their beloved family member is dying would kill me. The animals that we've had to let go over the years unfortunately all were victims of cancer...it seems to be common in dogs and cats. And it's sneaky...by the time we knew about it, it was already too late. We'd taken the pets to the doc for another reason, only to find out it was cancer. And the bleeding into the stomach can't have signalled good news of any kind. That you've already opened your home and heart to another lost soul says worlds about you...all good. The newest addition will help you heal, and fill the void left by Snuggles. You've saved a dog from the worst possible ending, and that's gotta be a great feeling. {{{{{HUGS}}}}} to you, and while some folks think it's just a lot of nonsense, I do believe that someday, we'll all be reunited someplace. With our 2 footed and 4 footed families.
< Message edited by soul2share -- 10/22/2011 7:15:42 AM >
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