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Ideas in the City - 8/5/2009 5:19:04 AM   
OnyxDelphi


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So long story short. I'm meeting this slave in the city (for a friend) for a day (NYC!!!), and I'm basically going to test them. See how submissive they really are, if they're real (for starters), and just use and abuse them at my leisure.

However outside of a couple of kinky things I could do to them in a bathroom...I'm drawing blanks.

Any ideas on what I could do to them in that environment?

Such as sex, kinks etc.?
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RE: Ideas in the City - 8/5/2009 5:25:33 AM   
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Status: offline 		Okay.  Here are the elements:  NYC, yourself, slave.

NYC has lotsa stuff to do.
You - I have no clue what you like.  I'll give you a hint - a slave will do it.
Slave - you're actually asking what you can do sexwise to a slave?  How about telling us the slave's gender first?


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RE: Ideas in the City - 8/5/2009 5:36:50 AM   
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This particular slave is a girl...who is very masculine. So she likes to be treated like a guy. Do with that information as you will.

She likes to be humiliated and embarrassed.

And I'm basically asking what I could "pull off" kink wise in the city. I can't just go whipping her in the streets.

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RE: Ideas in the City - 8/5/2009 5:38:58 AM   
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Status: offline 		Well you could always ask the subs in question what they think. But then you run the risk that they were really just testing you to see how dominant you really are, and I am guessing at that point they would tell you, you failed.

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RE: Ideas in the City - 8/5/2009 6:33:02 AM   
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Status: offline 		You're meeting this sub on behalf of a friend? Then why not ask the friend?

But - if you have no idea what you want to do - why are you meeting?

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RE: Ideas in the City - 8/5/2009 6:47:18 AM   
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Status: offline 		public embarrassment in NYC gee where to start. central park and times square and various shopping venues. you state that she is masculine.. dose she like to be treated as strong or would being treated as dainty be bad, i mean good. and why not have a public demonstration of whip use. just ask those near by if they would like to see some good whip use and have her volunteer. then its OK. a few strokes. save the real beatings for later. and clubs party's and such just use your imagination or better yet ask the slave what would be bad or humiliating to them.

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RE: Ideas in the City - 8/5/2009 6:57:50 AM   
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Status: offline 		you can always have her go into a sex store and ask the clerk for help. check out different size dildos and such

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RE: Ideas in the City - 8/5/2009 7:07:22 AM   
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Status: offline 		I'm a fan of meeting on the SI ferry for first meets. It is perfectly safe, has a nice view and you have 2 25 minute trips to work with. I have had one hold up items from a shopping bag as if they were showing me their purchases.  People on the ferry are all over but as in most places try not to pay too much attention.  

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RE: Ideas in the City - 8/5/2009 7:31:41 AM   
angelikaJ


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Status: offline 		I hope it works well for both of you; it sounds as if she is game.

For me, that kind of thing would not work because context is everything and submission to a complete stranger does not carry that element.

There is the Museum of Sex.
You could go and ask her very detailed questions.

Remember that NY does not have laws banning bared breasts... (I would not make her strip in an area with children near by and if she did freak out someone could report you for something non-consensual... something to keep in mind anyway)



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RE: Ideas in the City - 8/5/2009 9:36:24 AM   
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Status: offline 		Go to a drug store and tell her to buy some adult nappies
have her put one on in a public toilet
she might hand her knickers over to you... or you could make her wear them on her head
have her drink lots of water
....
keep in mind that over the counter nappies are not really absorbent enough to take a very big amount of urine...it might leak if you force her to actually urinate a very full bladder into the nappy
...
also best make sure she can cope with this scenario

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RE: Ideas in the City - 8/5/2009 9:44:36 AM   
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Status: offline 		You're asking someone you don't know to submit to you, but you aren't even interested in them for yourself?
If they do what you ask, they may or may not be submissive, but they certainly are stupid.

And sex stuff doesn't prove anything except that they're into the same kinky stuff you are. It won't do anything to test for compatibility because that needs to be done between the two people involved.

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RE: Ideas in the City - 8/5/2009 2:42:26 PM   
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Status: offline 		I'm sooo confused...you're meeting them for a friend? Why??

Why doesn't the friend meet the slave in question? Is this for kink purposes only? If so I still don't see how you meeting them for the friend will prove anything at all. It just proves the slave will hump whoever she pleases.

If you really wanna do something kinky to her...meet her in a restaurant and buy her a nice dinner and compliment her on how nice she looks.

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RE: Ideas in the City - 8/6/2009 1:28:39 AM   
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quote:

I'm meeting this slave in the city (for a friend) for a day (NYC!!!), and I'm basically going to test them


You're a dom. And you don't know what to do with a sub. And you're going to do this not knowing with a New Yorker. I think this is beyond giving you suggestions on a forum - you're probably best off hiring a real dom, taking him with you, and having him show you what to do. I think you're otherwise in for gales of laughter..

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RE: Ideas in the City - 8/7/2009 7:58:01 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: OnyxDelphi


So long story short. I'm meeting this slave in the city (for a friend) for a day (NYC!!!), and I'm basically going to test them. See how submissive they really are, if they're real (for starters), and just use and abuse them at my leisure.

However outside of a couple of kinky things I could do to them in a bathroom...I'm drawing blanks.

Any ideas on what I could do to them in that environment?

Such as sex, kinks etc.?



Why are you doing this? there appears to be no logical reason to attempt this when it appears you do not have enough desire to know what you want or am I misreading something here?

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RE: Ideas in the City - 8/7/2009 8:01:58 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: OnyxDelphi


and I'm basically going to test them. See how submissive they really are, if they're real (for starters),


Well what you need is the trueness test.

To be honest this girl sounds like she needs her head checking if she has agreed to meet a stranger and let him 'abuse her' on behalf of a friend so right away i would say she has to fail the test

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