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MARIEL -> RANTING (7/24/2009 6:17:09 PM)
This is a rant,just had to let it out, some Dom contacts me,speaking friendly he asks me "do you get wet" I said depends on so much and what Dom etc. Talking further.. tries to praise me for my good this and that.. wanting pics, not sending theirs.. talks about wanting to use me webcam..I say I do not do webcam at least not before meeting or if not known a hell of a time.. he gets sexual.. I cut in paper Im not into webcam.. he is praising again,talking further..tries AGAIN with "are you getting wet now"...Im saying I wont discuss that.. praising again..telling me he want to use me also irl etc.. then boom again- wants to use WEBCAM.. tries all praise and talk at same time.. then comes with he doesnt want to talk other stuff or meet me if not WEBCAM. I say NO and walk. why is it some "DOMS" cannot understand?!? (oh yeah hes had ten years experience oh yeah..) talk about ignoring when you say you are not interested!

Apocalypso -> RE: RANTING (7/24/2009 6:19:51 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MARIEL This is a rant,just had to let it out, some Dom contacts me,speaking friendly he asks me "do you get wet" What the next line of that rant should have been is "so I blocked him".

CarrieO -> RE: RANTING (7/24/2009 6:20:59 PM)
If you're not interested then why bother replying with "it depends on so much..." when he asked "do you get wet?" Did you really think he just wanted to talk about the weather?

MeaganBlake -> RE: RANTING (7/24/2009 6:31:58 PM)
I have a standard e-mail I send: "Thank you for your e-mail, but I'm not looking for a sub/slave/sissy/whatever at this time." So far it has been effective and I haven't had to block anyone. Most of them get it, although a few have argued with me a bit. If you're not interested, it's best to just say so directly and then block as needed.

windchymes -> RE: RANTING (7/24/2009 7:02:08 PM)
If you give them a warning, and then they do it a second time, just shut them down. Easy.

Prinsexx -> RE: RANTING (7/24/2009 7:12:01 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MARIEL This is a rant,just had to let it out, some Dom contacts me,speaking friendly he asks me "do you get wet" At this point type back and say: Yes I do when I block and delete wankers like you... then follow through. Works for me...

MARIEL -> RE: RANTING (7/24/2009 7:14:10 PM)
This happened in chat, my "NO" was the last thing he ever got and ever will get. The jerk talks poetically on his profile and sounding serious,sure! and he read mine,as well and I clearly state I want serious,then he just go..then I tell him,again and again. I cant BELIEVE how STUPID some men are.

MARIEL -> RE: RANTING (7/24/2009 7:16:29 PM)
That was good,Prinsexx [:D] I just... cant believe... how stupid some are.. what did he expect.. I clearly state,for gods sake.. telling no several times.. in several ways.. it would be so much easier just find another to try to fuck.. I cant believe how stupid some are..

MAMBOdeBEAU -> RE: RANTING (7/24/2009 7:17:03 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MARIEL "do you get wet" .. talks about wanting to use me webcam..want to use me also irl etc.. then boom again- talk about ignoring when you say you are not interested! [/quore] This asshole has 10 years experience covering his keyboard in cum..he is a mindless zombie ensalved to his prick. HE has learned that if YOU ANSWER at all.respond..he will ask again and again and again...and probably messages 100 and at least 1 will give him wank pics or do something so he can continue his relationship with he beloved pee pee. SUGGESTION: As soon as they ask "do you get wet? "answer in humour like "well if it rains"...or BLOCK right away.. I mean where can the conversation go from here?? "What are you hobbies..??" HIS INTENTION WAS clear right from ?"Do you get wet?" MAMBO would love to hex and shrivel pee pee like this but cannot..for it would come back on her 3 fold.. MAMBO

MARIEL -> RE: RANTING (7/24/2009 7:22:09 PM)
well it was because some men,Ive encountered that not only were after one thing that I happened to get good relationships with, used the same sentence about wet,but not meaning the same,more like information,so it was so I took it, but it might be because Im not english native. at least it didnt strike me since I was thinking otherwise. He was trying to package it as well,also in the beginning didnt shine through at once. jerk! think Ill send him a dick lol

Lockit -> RE: RANTING (7/24/2009 8:03:09 PM)
Wow... you have a dominant you are complaining about on weekends when you are bored and then talking to other's and expect them to respect you. lol Get real.

LookieNoNookie -> RE: RANTING (7/24/2009 8:03:58 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MARIEL This is a rant,just had to let it out, some Dom contacts me,speaking friendly he asks me "do you get wet" I said depends on so much and what Dom etc. Talking further.. tries to praise me for my good this and that.. wanting pics, not sending theirs.. talks about wanting to use me webcam..I say I do not do webcam at least not before meeting or if not known a hell of a time.. he gets sexual.. I cut in paper Im not into webcam.. he is praising again,talking further..tries AGAIN with "are you getting wet now"...Im saying I wont discuss that.. praising again..telling me he want to use me also irl etc.. then boom again- wants to use WEBCAM.. tries all praise and talk at same time.. then comes with he doesnt want to talk other stuff or meet me if not WEBCAM. I say NO and walk. why is it some "DOMS" cannot understand?!? (oh yeah hes had ten years experience oh yeah..) talk about ignoring when you say you are not interested! I can't help you on this....but...a weight has been lifted for me!

LadySweetOrSour -> RE: RANTING (7/24/2009 8:08:06 PM)
Mariel, it's not the done thing to name names here. All you needed to do was block him. Why did you keep talking to him?? Were you that bored?? Everyone here get's dickheads talking like that to them at some stage. We all delete and block. Next time use your head and do the same.

Apocalypso -> RE: RANTING (7/24/2009 8:10:42 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MARIEL I cant believe how stupid some are.. I salute your skill in unintentional irony.

thishereboi -> RE: RANTING (7/24/2009 8:27:39 PM)
fr I would have blocked him after the first time he asked "do you get wet" I am not sure what you expected from him, but generally if they start off acting like a wanker, then they are not really worth wasting time with.

Arpig -> RE: RANTING (7/24/2009 9:20:13 PM)
quote: This happened in chat, my "NO" was the last thing he ever got and ever will get. The jerk talks poetically on his profile and sounding serious,sure! and he read mine,as well and I clearly state I want serious,then he just go..then I tell him,again and again. I cant BELIEVE how STUPID some men are. You know, the odds are that he uses this approach because it works. I suspect you would be amazed at how many women will get on webcam for him. Stupidity is not gender specific.

stella41b -> RE: RANTING (7/24/2009 9:40:49 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MARIEL I just... cant believe... how stupid some are.. what did he expect.. I clearly state,for gods sake.. telling no several times.. in several ways.. it would be so much easier just find another to try to fuck.. I cant believe how stupid some are.. Stupidity is really nothing more than someone using logic in a way you don't understand which appears to be proven in your unfortunate experience.

DemonKia -> RE: RANTING (7/24/2009 10:36:57 PM)
FR, after read thru Mariel, I took a looksie at your profile & my advice is, rather than putting in all that stuff about what you do not want, that you focus on what you do want . .. . . In my experience all that stuff about what you don't like is a bit of a homing beacon for those wanting to be annoying, abusive, inappropriate, & so on . . . . . It's like you're giving them directions about how to yank your chain in an unpleasant (for you) way . . . . . . Also, I'd advise that you put a lot more stuff in there about your vanilla interests . . . . . All the focus on the D/s stuff also strikes me as a spammer-scammer-wham-bam-thank-you-ma'amer-magnet . .. . .

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