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RE: Fakes on this site - 7/22/2009 6:59:32 AM

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RE: Fakes on this site - 7/22/2009 7:34:09 AM

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Their are not to many people in my area who are dominate females and the ones I have expressed interest in are fake. Is there a way to tell who is fake before I message them. Like something that most of them do on there profile

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Their are not to many people in my area who are dominate females and the ones I have expressed interest in are fake. Is there a way to tell who is fake before I message them. Like something that most of them do on there profile

down,

First define what is a fake to you.

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RE: Fakes on this site - 7/22/2009 8:46:47 AM

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i have met all kinds On all kinds of sites and chat places I have met good ones bad ones a few social paths Yes not everyone is the same I am advicate is honest real people who are what they say they are. The best way to tell is by the actions. which are the best judge of them people can type a line of bs or say what you want to hear
just like in nilla there are all kinds what you learn from each Is experince is how to advoid the negitive energy makers.

there are gamer wanna be subs they see the matrix or read some site and get and all excited and go flog me now or read a fashion mag say its the in thing

so i have to get my fake begone spray A real person acts out of the experence and there heart who i am judge oh yeah i judge
I do not want the negitive bs in my inner circle so i just tell them take your lying selfish trashy ass out of my life oh and have a good day rofl
it is up to each and everyone of us to decide how and who fits into what part of what we are

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RE: Fakes on this site - 7/22/2009 11:09:42 AM

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RE: Fakes on this site - 7/22/2009 11:19:03 AM

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I love this site. I love hearing the so called Dom woman moaning about how this sie is full of fakes and time wasters then in the next paragraph say they want a slave/sub to pay them money just because they say there well strict. Well to me a Dom woman is someone who is strong and independent, not someone who thinks they can earn a bit of money by chatting shit on a webcam. one so called Dom wanted a fuckin Tesco slave. How can you be Dom and strong and independant when you cant even buy your own shopping. If you want money get a job.

Pro domming and other aspects of the sex industry is a job. So is being a lawyer. You may not particularly respect what either profession does for a living, nor wish to patronize them, but that doesn't make them "not a job".

Not respecting sex workers is your prerogative, but when you trash talk them like this, it says as much about you than it does about them. Do you understand why pro dommes exist, and what someone's motivations might be either to offer such services or to ask for them? If not, you might try doing some more realistic thinking about what many "submissive" men demand of women on these sites with no interest in an actual relationship or even in reciprocity of desire.

It makes very good sense indeed for there to be pros. In many cases, it is all that "submissive" men are willing or able to give, and the trade of time and energy for money is a fair one. If money were not involved, it would be equally unfair as one person would be doing all the grabbing and taking and demanding without giving, and the other person would be doing all the giving but no getting. Pro dommes level the playing field for men who want gratification of their desires but lack the time, social skills or motivation to form a real human relationship with a dominant woman. Sadly that's a fairly large percentage of men who casually browse adult sites.

Your personal opinion can be rather like your asshole; everybody has one, and if it stinks offensively, you might not want to show it out in public.

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RE: Fakes on this site - 7/22/2009 2:54:35 PM

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ORIGINAL: down4anything27

Their are not to many people in my area who are dominate females and the ones I have expressed interest in are fake. Is there a way to tell who is fake before I message them. Like something that most of them do on there profile

Let me ask you this question:

What is your criteria for a real dominant? If you meet a woman who is just starting out in this realm and she hasn't much practical experience yet she identifies as a domme, do you still call her a fake or a wannbe? Not all dominant people are instant experts at being able to live that role and attract a worthwhile submissive that meets their criteria.

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RE: Fakes on this site - 7/22/2009 4:20:43 PM

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domiNANT..

and what LadyNTrainer said.. dont set your seacrh for someone who is nothing more to you than life support for a flogger.

Good one GT.

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RE: Fakes on this site - 7/22/2009 4:38:45 PM

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Pro domming and other aspects of the sex industry is a job. So is being a lawyer. You may not particularly respect what either profession does for a living, nor wish to patronize them, but that doesn't make them "not a job".

Not respecting sex workers is your prerogative, but when you trash talk them like this, it says as much about you than it does about them. Do you understand why pro dommes exist, and what someone's motivations might be either to offer such services or to ask for them? If not, you might try doing some more realistic thinking about what many "submissive" men demand of women on these sites with no interest in an actual relationship or even in reciprocity of desire.

It makes very good sense indeed for there to be pros. In many cases, it is all that "submissive" men are willing or able to give, and the trade of time and energy for money is a fair one. If money were not involved, it would be equally unfair as one person would be doing all the grabbing and taking and demanding without giving, and the other person would be doing all the giving but no getting. Pro dommes level the playing field for men who want gratification of their desires but lack the time, social skills or motivation to form a real human relationship with a dominant woman. Sadly that's a fairly large percentage of men who casually browse adult sites.

Your personal opinion can be rather like your asshole; everybody has one, and if it stinks offensively, you might not want to show it out in public.

Very well said.

I don't believe I could have written this any better.

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RE: Fakes on this site - 7/22/2009 4:41:46 PM

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Excellent, Stella sweetie! ENCORE!!!!

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RE: Fakes on this site - 7/22/2009 5:06:44 PM

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In reply to the OP, you are just going to have to keep trying, message those that interest and hope for the best. As others have said, look towards what feels real, those that appear to be people first. Engage the person, not the kink, that is unless it is the kink you see first and foremost. If that is the case, you seek the kink, then you are perpetuating the problem with the fake whatevers you here ask about. Those that seek to make a quick buck or whatever currency is their taste feed on the kink that those who seek kink as the thing that causes a person to contact them.

Just with anything you want in life, you are going to have to make sacrifices to obtain it, but if you engage with a real person, you might be re educated, for kink is not life, it is an aspect of it, many things happen in between, some of them of more value than the things that drive your mind.

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