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down4anything27 -> Fakes on this site (7/21/2009 11:12:14 PM)

Their are not to many people in my area who are dominate females and the ones I have expressed interest in are fake. Is there a way to tell who is fake before I message them. Like something that most of them do on there profile




LadyNTrainer -> RE: Fakes on this site (7/21/2009 11:16:22 PM)

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ORIGINAL: down4anything27

Their are not to many people in my area who are dominate females and the ones I have expressed interest in are fake. Is there a way to tell who is fake before I message them. Like something that most of them do on there profile


Possibly because you've been shopping more with your dick than with your brain.  Look for profiles featuring fairly ordinary real-life ladies who don't have photos that appear to be cut out from glamour magazines, or profiles that are all about kinky sex and domination straight off.  Try opening a non-kinky, friendly, "get to know you" conversation with one of the ladies who sounds like a real person rather than a glamorous dominatrix advertisement. 

Of course if what you're looking for is instant kinky wish fulfillment, and you don't want to bother getting to know a lady as if she was a real human being before you get right to the whips and chains, I'm afraid that a pro is probably going to be your best bet anyhow.




GreedyTop -> RE: Fakes on this site (7/21/2009 11:20:06 PM)

domiNANT..

and what LadyNTrainer said..  dont set your seacrh for someone who is nothing more to you than life support for a flogger.




Lockit -> RE: Fakes on this site (7/21/2009 11:22:10 PM)

You figured out that they were all fake and are then asking us how to tell who is fake? lol.. Either I am very tired or you are very confused! lol  Good night! lol




sweetsub1957 -> RE: Fakes on this site (7/21/2009 11:28:47 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Lockit

You figured out that they were all fake and are then asking us how to tell who is fake? lol.. Either I am very tired or you are very confused! lol  Good night! lol


Yeah, that's pretty goofy don't You think?  First he says You're all fake and then he asks You how to tell if You're fake?  What?  Hey!  What the hell!?  ~shaking my head in amazement at his twisted reasoning~




GYPZYQUEEN -> RE: Fakes on this site (7/21/2009 11:32:13 PM)

OP:

How to find a real Dom

Lesson #1

BE real yourself..like attracts like


GQ




CatdeMedici -> RE: Fakes on this site (7/22/2009 3:39:33 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: GYPZYQUEEN

OP:

How to find a real Dom

Lesson #1

BE real yourself..like attracts like


GQ



Brilliant! Simply Brilliant!




sirsholly -> RE: Fakes on this site (7/22/2009 3:46:35 AM)

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Is there a way to tell who is fake before I message them. Like something that most of them do on there profile
nope




oceanwinds -> RE: Fakes on this site (7/22/2009 3:48:25 AM)

Opps, I misread. I thought the post said friends on this site. I guess everyone can see where my head is and my perspective.




RCdc -> RE: Fakes on this site (7/22/2009 4:12:59 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: down4anything27

Their are not to many people in my area who are dominate females and the ones I have expressed interest in are fake. Is there a way to tell who is fake before I message them. Like something that most of them do on there profile


That's an easy question to answer.  They usually start a thread on fakes or wannabes.
Check their profile posts.
 
Oh.  Opps.[8|]
 
the.dark.




sirsholly -> RE: Fakes on this site (7/22/2009 4:16:04 AM)

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That's an easy question to answer. They usually start a thread on fakes or wannabes.
Check their profile posts.

Oh. Opps.


subtle but oh so nasty! [:)]




DarkSteven -> RE: Fakes on this site (7/22/2009 4:28:34 AM)

OP, let me rephrase your question - why is it that the real Dominas won't respond to you?

Here's the answer - it's because your profile stinks.  It says "Here I am and want to be trained".  It should say "I'm a college student majoring in Theater who likes to go to movies and eat out.  I'm a decent cook and would enjoy it a lot more if I were cooking for two."

No Domina wakes up in the morning and thinks of a relationship that consists solely of training.  She wants a full relationship with a hooman bein' that includes play as only one aspect.





subboy690 -> RE: Fakes on this site (7/22/2009 4:30:29 AM)

I love this site. I love hearing the so called Dom woman moaning about how this sie is full of fakes and time wasters then in the next paragraph say they want a slave/sub to pay them money just because they say there well strict. Well to me a Dom woman is someone who is strong and independent, not someone who thinks they can earn a bit of money by chatting shit on a webcam. one so called Dom wanted a fuckin Tesco slave.  How can you be Dom and strong and independant when you cant even buy your own shopping. If you want money get a job. Most of the "tribute" Mistress's on here i woudnt give them mony for a pint most arnt even that good lookin




DarkSteven -> RE: Fakes on this site (7/22/2009 4:57:03 AM)

Pete, you confuse me.  Your profile strikes me as excellent - it shows you to be a person first and a sub second.  Then you bollix it all up with an acid journal entry (which you've also posted here).

Just man up and accept the fact that finding a suitable Domme will require some winnowing and some work, don't be bitter, and keep at it.  Snarkiness is not going to help, nor will lumping the legit Dominas with the webcam girls.




RCdc -> RE: Fakes on this site (7/22/2009 4:59:50 AM)

Awww... still love me?*flutters lashes*
 
the.dark.




Prinsexx -> RE: Fakes on this site (7/22/2009 5:12:59 AM)

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ORIGINAL: down4anything27

Their are not to many people in my area who are dominate females and the ones I have expressed interest in are fake. Is there a way to tell who is fake before I message them. Like something that most of them do on there profile

Try reading the profiles with the special Collarme glasses. The word 'fake' appears when you hit the view full profile button.




sfdrew -> RE: Fakes on this site (7/22/2009 5:38:30 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Prinsexx

quote:

ORIGINAL: down4anything27

Their are not to many people in my area who are dominate females and the ones I have expressed interest in are fake. Is there a way to tell who is fake before I message them. Like something that most of them do on there profile

Try reading the profiles with the special Collarme glasses. The word 'fake' appears when you hit the view full profile button.



LAMO... I think I lost my pair, I'll have to get another box of S&M cereal to get another one. Just don't use 3D glasses or it puts their bullshit right in your face, unless you're into that kind of thing.




Whiplashsmile4 -> RE: Fakes on this site (7/22/2009 5:56:37 AM)

If what you are asking was so easy to figure out, somebody would have come up with "Fake Detector 2.0" to download from the internet and install on your PC.

Some fakes stand out as plain as day, other ones are not so easy to spot without interacting with them. Some people are simply not fake, they are just not right for you.




softness -> RE: Fakes on this site (7/22/2009 6:17:54 AM)

Try looking for DominANT females in your area ... you may have more luck ... learning the difference between a verb and a noun is always a good thing too.

You say yourself that you are new, and so please take this advice as it is given - with a genuine intention to help you. There are as many different ways to live this life as there are people living it. Trends and norms to appear but none of them are binding to the rest of us. Take the full time vs part time "fake/real/true" discussion which rages daily on BDSM boards ....

I am being trained as a Leather submissive and spend every weekend with my Dominants and Leather Family. I serve them and they train me, but come Sunday evening I have to return home and do my working week. Blissfully for the next 7 weeks I can stay with them 24/7 and have nothing to fill my time other than service to them. I am not a "fake" because usually I able only able to serve them at the weekends. I am no more "real" now that I have the opportunity to be in service full time for a while. I will not take a step down in status when my holidays finish and I have to go back to work.





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