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TheHeretic -> RE: Recuperation (8/5/2009 11:27:24 PM)

I don't supposed you've considered hiring some cheap help around the house to take care of those chores, Popeye?  You could probably find someone in front of your local Home Depot.  [;)]




scarlethiney -> RE: Recuperation (8/6/2009 8:40:53 AM)

Popeye,

6yrs ago I had three major surgeries in six months and felt just as you do. It seemed like it was months before I felt "back to normal".  Everything exhausted me and it was frustrating and depressing. The best advice I can give you is rest as much as you can and be patient with yourself as you heal.
I did set little goals for myself which helped me see I was making progress.  I walked to the mail box one day, did that several days and then the next goal was to make it two houses down the street and back.  Not only did I feel better after accomplishing each distance goal but I think it helped me recover faster. It literally took months to get to a point where every day chores didn't exhaust me.
You cannot make your body recover any faster than it is ready to. 

Baby yourself, treat yourself to a facial or foot massage (not sure if there are any contradictions with this because of your surgery). Get a manicure. Find a real barber and get a the full treatment, hot towel shave and neck massage.

Hope your feeling better soon.




sula -> RE: Recuperation (8/6/2009 10:56:28 AM)

Popeye - i think you're doing remarkable well; only 6-7 weeks??  And i too think everyone here is right: time, time, time.  But, i do hope someone is checking in on you every now and then, even if to help with grocery shopping. 
i'll be home after 4-6 days.  And after your cat comment, i won't be looking for any help from mine either!  Except to be the staionary warm body for him to walk on.
Well, you continue to get better - and no heroics [image]http://www.collarchat.com/micons/m23.gif[/image].
sula




susie -> RE: Recuperation (8/6/2009 12:51:49 PM)

Recovering from surgery takes time and I think one of the hardest things is to make sure you do take that time. It is all too easy to think that you are over it and to try and get back to the way you were before. Take time and make sure you rest.

I had my brain op just over a year ago and I am still sleeping loads and get tired easily.

Good luck I do not what you are going through as I had a colostomy 12 years ago.




Vendaval -> RE: Recuperation (8/6/2009 4:06:17 PM)

Hi Popeye,

Thank you for letting us know how you are doing. Do take it easy and be patient with your body. You can always have books, puzzles, games, movies, etc ordered to your house from Amazon or another Online store.

Take care,

Vendaval




popeye1250 -> RE: Recuperation (8/6/2009 4:34:48 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Vendaval

Hi Popeye,

Thank you for letting us know how you are doing. Do take it easy and be patient with your body. You can always have books, puzzles, games, movies, etc ordered to your house from Amazon or another Online store.

Take care,

Vendaval




Ven, ...or a little adult company from C.....s list! ;)




BeingChewsie -> RE: Recuperation (8/6/2009 5:33:31 PM)

Hi Popeye,

I had a lap chole done in January 2007, it was almost 4 week before I returned to work and several months before I felt "Good" again. I still have some pain at the incision sites due to scar tissue but nothing serious. It will take a few months to get back on your feet. Hang in there and rest when you feel you need too.

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ORIGINAL: popeye1250

Well, I've been out of the hospital for three weeks yesterday.
The handout that the surgeon's office gave me said I'd be able to do normal activities within 3-6 weeks.
I saw him last wed. and he said it would be "six weeks to three months" to recover.
I still have pain abdominally, from the incision and from scar tissue. My g.i. tract slowed down markedly for the first few weeks and he gave me a script for stool softeners and I was talking to a friend who's a N.P. and she said the same thing.
One thing that's a problem is that I tire easily. I'll go to the market, come home, put the groceries away and find myself exhausted!
I'll hit the couch and nod out for an hour or two. I just feel "drained."
It's a real chore trying to get any info from surgeons! The clock starts ticking the minute they open the door and you have about two minutes to extract whatever info from them you can get. They're backing up towards the door as they're reading your chart!
I had a bunch of questions to ask but all I got was "stool softeners" and "you're going to get better."
I'm used to healing fast! My cat will put a deep scratch on my arm and it's gone in 2-3 days. A nurse friend told me that my immune system is "incredable."
She said it took her a week to heel a scratch. I just never figured I'd be so tired from all this but this same nurse told me it's a big assault on the body to have major surgery. I'm just used to bouncing back fast from injuries/ sickness so all this is differant to be sure.
I probably made lite of it but a colecetomy (removal of 18 inches of large intestine) really is a major operation.
Anyone else in here have any stories of recuperating from major surgery, how you felt, how long it took etc?




kdsub -> RE: Recuperation (8/6/2009 6:04:05 PM)

Popeye I've had a couple of hips ...a knee...and a toe worked on...all in the last 5 years...Each one took longer then the previous to recover from... Age makes a big difference sad but so in healing. I am 63 now and this October I need lumbar fusion surgery and I'm sure it will take longer than the last to recover from...if I live. [:o]

I had the same problem as you with doctors not wanting to take time with me so I wrote my questions down on paper... handed it to the doctor and had him answer them one by one. I did not let him off the hook until I was satisfied.

You have to take control of the conversation.

Good luck Butch




LookieNoNookie -> RE: Recuperation (8/6/2009 6:27:34 PM)

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ORIGINAL: popeye1250

Well, I've been out of the hospital for three weeks yesterday.
The handout that the surgeon's office gave me said I'd be able to do normal activities within 3-6 weeks.
I saw him last wed. and he said it would be "six weeks to three months" to recover.
I still have pain abdominally, from the incision and from scar tissue. My g.i. tract slowed down markedly for the first few weeks and he gave me a script for stool softeners and I was talking to a friend who's a N.P. and she said the same thing.
One thing that's a problem is that I tire easily. I'll go to the market, come home, put the groceries away and find myself exhausted!
I'll hit the couch and nod out for an hour or two. I just feel "drained."
It's a real chore trying to get any info from surgeons! The clock starts ticking the minute they open the door and you have about two minutes to extract whatever info from them you can get. They're backing up towards the door as they're reading your chart!
I had a bunch of questions to ask but all I got was "stool softeners" and "you're going to get better."
I'm used to healing fast! My cat will put a deep scratch on my arm and it's gone in 2-3 days. A nurse friend told me that my immune system is "incredable."
She said it took her a week to heel a scratch. I just never figured I'd be so tired from all this but this same nurse told me it's a big assault on the body to have major surgery. I'm just used to bouncing back fast from injuries/ sickness so all this is differant to be sure.
I probably made lite of it but a colecetomy (removal of 18 inches of large intestine) really is a major operation.
Anyone else in here have any stories of recuperating from major surgery, how you felt, how long it took etc?


Popeye...the only thing constructive about this whole thing that I can say is this:

Remember when you told your doctor "it hurts when I do this!"  ?

(Don't do "this").




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