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Ryana -> RE: Good luck in your search? (7/10/2009 7:03:29 PM)
When someone tells me "good luck in your search" i usually reply thank you, my search is rather easy as I'm just looking for friends LOL

SteelofUtah -> RE: Good luck in your search? (7/10/2009 8:29:53 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Ryana When someone tells me "good luck in your search" i usually reply thank you, my search is rather easy as I'm just looking for friends LOL This is something I see a LOT and I am curious and your comment brought it to my attention. If you are ONLY seeking friends why does your Profile say you are Actively Seeking Dominant Men? I ask this because I see this all the time why have your Profile Options say one then and then your Profile say another. It is Confusing considering when I search for what I am looking for I am searching for someone who is looking for a Poly Household and I find LOTS of people who are already IN a Poly Household looking for a Third. This is at least more understandable than someone who says they are Taken and Not looking but thier Profile options say they are Activly seeking a Dominant Man. So not that I am pointing fingers directly at you but I noticed it in your profile when I looked at it and am hoping you can help me to understand. Steel

Missokyst -> RE: Good luck in your search? (7/10/2009 9:24:03 PM)
This was not directed at me but is there another spot I should be changing if I am not actively seeking? I really need to look at the profile options more closely! going to check that out now. Kyst quote: ORIGINAL: SteelofUtah If you are ONLY seeking friends why does your Profile say you are Actively Seeking Dominant Men? Steel

DemonKia -> RE: Good luck in your search? (7/10/2009 10:03:32 PM)
Nah, Kyst, you got that covered . . . . Steel's talking about the place that also includes 'Seeking Friends', which is what you've got checked off . . . . . It's that big chunk of tick-boxes at the top of the 'Edit Profile' page that has all the 'Joining Poly House', 'Roommates', 'MaleDom Couples', 'FemDom Couples', & so on & so forth . . . .

Missokyst -> RE: Good luck in your search? (7/10/2009 11:14:13 PM)
Whew... lol I went in and unchecked the friends only part just in case.

frankx -> RE: Good luck in your search? (7/11/2009 2:44:24 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: girlygurl Or, in your case frankx, sticking your finger through your cam. [:D] Sorry, no disrespect. I just couldn't resist. girly (bad slut) girly (bad slut) Maybe I could find an alternative use for my finger. Just lean this way a bit. [sm=fingers.gif] take special care F

frankx -> RE: Good luck in your search? (7/11/2009 2:51:25 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Venatrix quote: ORIGINAL: LdyyR From me, Good luck in your search, which I've used quite a few times, means, I'm not the one, keep looking. But I do wish you the best even if. Yes. It's much nicer than "bugger off." That reminds me of a line from a favourite film of mine - Local Hero. A guy is painting the name on a boat (for about the third time in the film) and someone remarks " are there not two l's in dollar?" to which the reply is "and are there two g's in bugger off!" pip pip

CallaFirestormBW -> RE: Good luck in your search? (7/11/2009 4:32:16 AM)
I usually use that phrase for someone whom I've talked with or who has contacted me, and we're just not good match. On the other hand... are we really so bored or easily annoyed that we have to gripe about other people's well-wishes for us? For heaven's sakes, folks, it is someone being -pleasant-, or at least not overtly -rude-... how bad can that be, and does being wished well -really- bother us THAT much??? Dame Calla

pixidustpet -> RE: Good luck in your search? (7/11/2009 7:25:24 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SteelofUtah quote: ORIGINAL: Ryana When someone tells me "good luck in your search" i usually reply thank you, my search is rather easy as I'm just looking for friends LOL This is something I see a LOT and I am curious and your comment brought it to my attention. If you are ONLY seeking friends why does your Profile say you are Actively Seeking Dominant Men? I ask this because I see this all the time why have your Profile Options say one then and then your Profile say another. It is Confusing considering when I search for what I am looking for I am searching for someone who is looking for a Poly Household and I find LOTS of people who are already IN a Poly Household looking for a Third. This is at least more understandable than someone who says they are Taken and Not looking but thier Profile options say they are Activly seeking a Dominant Man. So not that I am pointing fingers directly at you but I noticed it in your profile when I looked at it and am hoping you can help me to understand. Steel mine doesnt say i'm seeking anything. but i still get goobs emailing me, or trying to tell me how to set my mail controls...when i've been here a couple years now and KNOW how to do that. if i set so no males can c-mail me, then i cannot recieve mail from my long distance dominant. i shouldnt have to make my life more difficult to make IDIOTS who wont read a damn profile (and mine is short) understand that no, their attentions arent wanted. eyeroll back to the topic, if i bother to be nice to some dumbarse who emails me demanding that i drop everything to be his submissive? i end it "good look in finding what you're looking for, cause it sure aint me". kitten, snarklette.

pixidustpet -> RE: Good luck in your search? (7/11/2009 7:28:07 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CallaFirestormBW I usually use that phrase for someone whom I've talked with or who has contacted me, and we're just not good match. On the other hand... are we really so bored or easily annoyed that we have to gripe about other people's well-wishes for us? For heaven's sakes, folks, it is someone being -pleasant-, or at least not overtly -rude-... how bad can that be, and does being wished well -really- bother us THAT much??? Dame Calla its ho-o-o-o-o-o-o-o-o-t MamaCalla, and we're bo-o-o-o-o-o-o-o-o-o-red!!! flees, giggling kitten, whose visiting imp knows BETTER than to use the bored word, cause mama finds something for him to do. [:D]

Venatrix -> RE: Good luck in your search? (7/11/2009 8:08:50 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: frankx quote: ORIGINAL: girlygurl Or, in your case frankx, sticking your finger through your cam. [:D] Sorry, no disrespect. I just couldn't resist. girly (bad slut) girly (bad slut) Maybe I could find an alternative use for my finger. Just lean this way a bit. [sm=fingers.gif] take special care F Oh, dear. Does this mean handbags at dawn?

frankx -> RE: Good luck in your search? (7/11/2009 8:52:29 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Venatrix quote: ORIGINAL: frankx girly (bad slut) Maybe I could find an alternative use for my finger. Just lean this way a bit. [sm=fingers.gif] take special care F Oh, dear. Does this mean handbags at dawn? Finger currently holstered, but ready for action when required. Poised, like a coiled spring. Shaken but not stirred. * wanders off to sound of James Bond theme *

DemonKia -> RE: Good luck in your search? (7/11/2009 10:28:11 AM)
FR, after read thru giggles Some of the sub-themes of this thread are reminding me of what I would think about when I said, 'Have a nice day!' (very chirpily), when I was a sales & customer service person, lol . . . . . I'd generally be thinking of the end of 'My Own Private Idaho', where it flashes on the screen, 'Have a nice day', 'means', 'fuck you' . . . . . lol

Arpig -> RE: Good luck in your search? (7/11/2009 2:10:17 PM)
Given that this is an adult personals site (at least it is on the other side) and that the vast majority of people on the other side are indeed looking, its a simple assumption to make. When somebody cmails me, I usually glance at their profile, but I do not always bother to read their whole profile, so its entirely possible that I wouldn't know if they are looking or not. Myself, I find it a non-issue really, what difference does it make if somebody assumes you are looking and wishes you good luck. I often sign my CMails "Good hunting", it is simply a way of wishing somebody you know nothing about well. Whether or not I am actually actively seeking a partner or not, it in no way diminishes the sentiment expressed, they are just being polite and wishing you well.

FullCircle -> RE: Good luck in your search? (7/11/2009 2:27:06 PM)
Only like minded people say things like "Good luck with your search." FACT.

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