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divinelycaged -> RE: Oh SHIT.... I think im falling for my dom (7/9/2009 8:10:26 PM)

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Kellyx
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ORIGINAL: Kellyx

LOL LOL LOL

Ewwwww no!

I don't eben know what the hell hapend that night. I never saw him again bahaha.  I do however love his belt! I think it's a Bowie belt.



That picture sure is popular on the internet. Well done.




variation30 -> RE: Oh SHIT.... I think im falling for my dom (7/9/2009 8:22:59 PM)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NNC0kIzM1Fo




variation30 -> RE: Oh SHIT.... I think im falling for my dom (7/9/2009 8:24:44 PM)

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ORIGINAL: NihilusZero

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ORIGINAL: Kellyx

Like im worried he might start to like meee properly and be less dominant in the bedroom and also in everyday life it would be strange to be submisive

Silly. Save the worrying for when there's something to actually worry about.



oh drop it.

who wasn't in love with 'the one' when they were 17-19




slaveluci -> RE: Oh SHIT.... I think im falling for my dom (7/9/2009 8:27:56 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Kellyx

Arhg im shit at explaning

Like im worried he might start to like meee properly and be less dominant in the bedroom and also in everyday life it would be strange to be submisive

And what if we have a proper couple fight it would just be strangeeeeee


Interesting that you distinguish between a D/s relationship and a "proper" one. Hmmmmm..........luci




variation30 -> RE: Oh SHIT.... I think im falling for my dom (7/9/2009 8:29:30 PM)

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ORIGINAL: slaveluci


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ORIGINAL: Kellyx

Arhg im shit at explaning

Like im worried he might start to like meee properly and be less dominant in the bedroom and also in everyday life it would be strange to be submisive

And what if we have a proper couple fight it would just be strangeeeeee


Interesting that you distinguish between a D/s relationship and a "proper" one. Hmmmmm..........luci


I just thought it was a britishism.

those people can't use the language properly.




NihilusZero -> RE: Oh SHIT.... I think im falling for my dom (7/9/2009 8:34:00 PM)

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ORIGINAL: variation30

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ORIGINAL: NihilusZero

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ORIGINAL: Kellyx

Like im worried he might start to like meee properly and be less dominant in the bedroom and also in everyday life it would be strange to be submisive

Silly. Save the worrying for when there's something to actually worry about.



oh drop it.

who wasn't in love with 'the one' when they were 17-19


My response was lighthearted. I was trying to convey that she shouldn't spend her time worrying about possible bad things and just enjoy the giddiness of the moment.




NihilusZero -> RE: Oh SHIT.... I think im falling for my dom (7/9/2009 8:35:11 PM)

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ORIGINAL: variation30

I just thought it was a britishism.

Seconded.




Racquelle -> RE: Oh SHIT.... I think im falling for my dom (7/9/2009 8:47:10 PM)

Kelly, have a fun time.  Enjoy it.  Tell him how you feel.  Don't expect to be with this guy forever - 18 is still so young (I know you are sick of hearing that.)  Many people have long lasting love/BDSM relationships, and many people enjoy "kinky dating" where you get the fun of going out and being a proper little couple and going home and getting your fanny whacked.  (On this side of the pond, "fanny" is your buttocks.)




jeninvegas -> RE: Oh SHIT.... I think im falling for my dom (7/9/2009 9:06:06 PM)

I love the "properly like him" part, haha, that's cute.




kuriouswitch -> RE: Oh SHIT.... I think im falling for my dom (7/10/2009 1:48:26 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Kellyx

But i was wondering if you could have a normal relationship and also have a great DOM/sub understanding aswell?



lol, I know this feeling well. I remember about three months in telling (yes telling which didn't go down well at all) that we had to cool it, that I was developing inappropriate feelings for him. He told me that there are no inappropriate feelings and we had a talk about it. Communication is important, make sure he's willing to have a deeper relationship, see where he is at emotionally.

yes, I've found that it is possible to love my Master and have a "normal" relationship and still keep the dynamic.

Personally being in love with Master helps him to get deeper, bring down walls and break limits.




ranja -> RE: Oh SHIT.... I think im falling for my dom (7/10/2009 2:21:18 AM)

When two people spend intimite time together...maybe even ahem...fuck... the chances are that these two people might bond... and then it could happen that these people eventually  might even marry... some things are just sooo strange...

Racquelle...a fanny is a bum in American? jeez i didn't know that... that explains a lot of confusion haha...thanks for that bit of info....well appreciated




rayne221 -> RE: Oh SHIT.... I think im falling for my dom (7/10/2009 9:07:18 AM)

It's called the 24/7 D/s relationship - for those who wish to live the power exchange and include it in thieir romantic relationship.
I maybe naive or hanging around very different circles for the past 12 years, or perhaps just plain stupid -- but only in the last little while have i begun hearing of D/s and or BDSM relationships where there is not a bond between Dom and sub, Master/slave.... etc.
How can someone submit, as the old term goes, mind/body and soul when in fact, there is no bond with that person? I am sure it can and does happen, for me though i really don't get it.




LATEXBABY64 -> RE: Oh SHIT.... I think im falling for my dom (7/10/2009 9:16:05 AM)

i think it is called fuck buddies lol another chapter of chaos crazy people in our lifestyle




leadership527 -> RE: Oh SHIT.... I think im falling for my dom (7/10/2009 4:17:00 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Kellyx
But i was wondering if you could have a normal relationship and also have a great DOM/sub understanding aswell?
I just don't think it could work both ways. Im just really lame and want everyone to be like Disney

Why not? Carol and I find that the twin themes of love and authority mix quite well into a delightfully heady brew.




matt321123 -> RE: Oh SHIT.... I think im falling for my dom (7/27/2009 7:13:00 PM)

Sex is better when feelings are involved; why wouldn't a D/s relationship be that way? My wife and I are like that, and it makes it so much better.




TheOtherKat -> RE: Oh SHIT.... I think im falling for my dom (7/27/2009 7:55:48 PM)

My girl and I actually did it backwards, and got the cutesy like feelings before engaging in any D/s.




GaPhoto -> RE: Oh SHIT.... I think im falling for my dom (7/27/2009 10:04:15 PM)

Definetly, not a thing wrong with it.  If anything love will only intensify the relationship, even the play.  The more trust you have in your partner, the deeper you will be able to go.

Zack




sweetsub1957 -> RE: Oh SHIT.... I think im falling for my dom (7/27/2009 11:15:04 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Kellyx

But i was wondering if you could have a normal relationship and also have a great DOM/sub understanding as well?

I just don't think it could work both ways. Im just really lame and want everyone to be like Disney



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ORIGINAL: Kellyx

Like im worried he might start to like meee properly and be less dominant in the bedroom and also in everyday life it would be strange to be submisive

And what if we have a proper couple fight it would just be strangeeeeee



Yes, you can have it all.[sm=hearts.gif]  Sir & I do and it doesn't make Him less Dominant, in or out of the bedroom.  Also, it's not strange at all for me to be submissive in our everyday life when we're together.  And if we have a "proper couple fight" He gently tells me how it's going to be & if I disagree,  well then, we talk about it. [:D]




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