It is well within the rights of a transgendered person to identify as whichever gender.
But it's also well within the rights of anyone else to only engage sexually with people natural-born males and females.
I feel like there is a certain obligation to any potential lovers one may have to share the information of their past. Not to do so would seem like a violation of trust.
*peace sign* I'm trans and don't mind people knowing. It was a struggle that I am overcoming and i'm proud to say that i feel that i am a woman despite what anyone else may say. You have to accept people are closed minded sometimes and won't always understand what they don't want to accept. No I can't have children by my mind and soul are both female so thats what i am. Nothing more nothing less. Soon my body will match. GO ME [;)]
There are a bunch of us around... but we also generally don't accept a buncha crap.. :) We call people on their idiocies. You dont appear to be an idiot. Welcome again :)