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OnyxDelphi -> How to convince them to be a slave. (7/4/2009 3:55:37 AM)

Here's an odd question for you based on a dream I had recently.

Open minded answers please.

Lets say you currently pay the phone bill on a secret crush of yours. In return they divvy up nude pics and videos of themselves at your request. Now lets say their charger breaks or they need something else for their phone...whatever.

You have the means to provide it for them, but in return, you want them to be in the mindset of  being your slave for real. Actually viewing you as their master and not it just being a play word that's used because of an exchange.

How do you go about making the naturally switch person, become your personal slave?




OnyxDelphi -> RE: How to convince them to be a slave? (7/4/2009 3:57:06 AM)

One very obvious idea just came to them.

You could ask them.

But even then, their not in the mindset. Their in a state of being where they ask, you provide, and in return they give you odds and ends.

I doubt you can call this submission. Its an arrangement.

So, any other ideas?




sirsholly -> RE: How to convince them to be a slave? (7/4/2009 3:58:16 AM)

You are not going to turn someone into a slave. Either they have the mindset or they do not.

And you are asking her to prostitute herself for the phone bill. Not cool




OnyxDelphi -> RE: How to convince them to be a slave? (7/4/2009 4:00:13 AM)

Well, doesn't have to be a she. Could be a he.

And that raises the age old discussion of who's fucking who. The man that burns his money on strippers (prostitute is such a dirty word), or the stripper who walks away with it all.




sirsholly -> RE: How to convince them to be a slave? (7/4/2009 4:02:38 AM)

nm




lusciouslips19 -> RE: How to convince them to be a slave? (7/4/2009 4:03:28 AM)

Open minded answers please".

What this mean? Every answer that agrees with you is open minded and anyone that doesnt isnt?

Eh, I think I wont at all then.




OnyxDelphi -> RE: How to convince them to be a slave? (7/4/2009 4:05:33 AM)

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ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19

Open minded answers please".

What this mean? Every answer that agrees with you is open minded and anyone that doesnt isnt?

Eh, I think I wont at all then.




No, it means I'd like actual replies. I don't care if you don't agree. I never actually stated a point to disagree with.

Thank you.




Level -> RE: How to convince them to be a slave. (7/4/2009 4:11:39 AM)

You hyp-no-tize them....
 
Has this person shown any desire to be a "slave"?




ranja -> RE: How to convince them to be a slave. (7/4/2009 4:50:33 AM)

it is always an 'arrangement' in my opinion...you could try to brainwash them and if they are open to suggestion you might succeed...or offer them more money?




eyesopened -> RE: How to convince them to be a slave. (7/4/2009 4:54:45 AM)

All successful interactions are transactional.  The prefix inter means between, among, in the midst of.  The prefix trans means across or to the other side.  That being said, in your example the only interaction and transaction has been based on goods or services in exchange for sexual or erotic goods and services.  Perfectly acceptable if both parties agree.

To change the interaction from simple transaction of goods and services you could try changing what you have to offer.  When you can offer the mindset of a Master you may be more likely to receive the mindset of a slave.




CatdeMedici -> RE: How to convince them to be a slave. (7/4/2009 4:59:10 AM)

Why would they? What do you bring to the equation that would make someone see you as a "Master"?




sirsholly -> RE: How to convince them to be a slave. (7/4/2009 5:09:04 AM)

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ORIGINAL: CatdeMedici

Why would they? What do you bring to the equation that would make someone see you as a "Master"?
Damn Cat...he paid the phone bill!




windchymes -> RE: How to convince them to be a slave. (7/4/2009 5:21:25 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Level

You hyp-no-tize them....
 
Has this person shown any desire to be a "slave"?



I hear.......and obey.......Master.......[&:]




windchymes -> RE: How to convince them to be a slave. (7/4/2009 5:22:34 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: OnyxDelphi

Here's an odd question for you based on a dream I had recently.

Open minded answers please.

Lets say you currently pay the phone bill on a secret crush of yours. In return they divvy up nude pics and videos of themselves at your request. Now lets say their charger breaks or they need something else for their phone...whatever.

You have the means to provide it for them, but in return, you want them to be in the mindset of  being your slave for real. Actually viewing you as their master and not it just being a play word that's used because of an exchange.

How do you go about making the naturally switch person, become your personal slave?


This all sounds like bribing someone to be your slave.  I personally would want someone to come to me willingly.....




sirsholly -> RE: How to convince them to be a slave. (7/4/2009 5:23:20 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: windchymes

quote:

ORIGINAL: Level

You hyp-no-tize them....
 
Has this person shown any desire to be a "slave"?



I hear.......and obey.......Master.......[&:]
psssssttt....WindChymes....if this gets yer phone bill paid, lemme know...ok?




LadyPact -> RE: How to convince them to be a slave. (7/4/2009 5:27:33 AM)

Well, since it's a question related to paying someone's phone bill, I'll put it this way.

The day I have to pay someone to submit to Me, I'm hanging it up.




VampiresLair -> RE: How to convince them to be a slave. (7/4/2009 5:28:49 AM)

Id say you need something far more than the ability to buy them a phone chaqrger, and pay their phone bill for them to be a slave. Honestly, if you need to use that monetary arrangement as the one and only source of your command over them, then you do not have the footing with them to be their Master. What else do you do for them, aside from pay for this one thing in exchange for pictures? It sounds more like she is the one in control, she offers photos which cost her nothing and you pay her bills.

What do you expect her to do as a slave, that requires the mindset and should be prompted to this enormous change by a new phone charger?




RedMagic1 -> RE: How to convince them to be a slave. (7/4/2009 5:33:23 AM)

You could tell her, over and over, that she is so unattractive no other dom would ever wish to provide for her, much less look at her pics.  Keep this up until she is laid off and cannot find further work because of the economy.  Extra points if she need to feed at least one mouth besides her own.  Then you tell her that you suppose you will cover more of her bills, but only if she becomes more servile, because a piece of trash like her isn't worth anything otherwise.  So she decides it is better to sleep with the enemy than to sleep in the street.  It totally rocks to be you... until the morning she wakes up, has a WTF moment, gets a knife from the kitchen and cuts you a new asshole.

I love happy endings.




DemonKia -> RE: How to convince them to be a slave. (7/4/2009 5:40:04 AM)

Wow, Red, I'm so glad you seem to restrict your powers to the 'good side' . . . . *shakes head* . . . . Cuz, man, you are capable of evil, lol . . . .

[sm=evil.gif]

&, yeah, OP, 'having' to 'trick' or 'coerce' someone into being slavish doesn't sound like anywhere near as much fun as finding a willing slave . . . . In fact, to me, it sounds like an awful lot of work . . . & not the 'fun', 'good' kind of work . .. . .

quote:

ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

You could tell her, over and over, that she is so unattractive no other dom would ever wish to provide for her, much less look at her pics.  Keep this up until she is laid off and cannot find further work because of the economy.  Extra points if she need to feed at least one mouth besides her own.  Then you tell her that you suppose you will cover more of her bills, but only if she becomes more servile, because a piece of trash like her isn't worth anything otherwise.  So she decides it is better to sleep with the enemy than to sleep in the street.  It totally rocks to be you... until the morning she wakes up, has a WTF moment, gets a knife from the kitchen and cuts you a new asshole.

I love happy endings.






daddysliloneds -> RE: How to convince them to be a slave. (7/4/2009 5:44:08 AM)

you don't. having the ability to be the problem solver, fixer/doer, and having the financial means to make someone elses life easier is a fucking shitty way of trying to manipulate them into feeling the need/desire to be owned.




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