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Is there such a thing as bad sex...for men? - 6/23/2009 1:33:34 PM   
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Status: offline 		Guys, I don't mean that your female partner (this is question more designed for heterosexuals) is a bad kisser or is as stiff as a log. I want to know if ya'll have just stuck it in and just said to yourselves "Well...that doesn't feel very good, now does it?"

I hear stories of women saying that they've had bad sex (i.e it hurt, he didn't know what he was doing, just didn't feel good at all) all the time. But I think I can safely say that the experiences for men and women differ as far a sex goes lol. Has it ever felt downright bad? What happened?

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RE: Is there such a thing as bad sex...for men? - 6/23/2009 1:46:48 PM   
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RE: Is there such a thing as bad sex...for men? - 6/23/2009 2:12:20 PM   
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Has it ever felt downright bad? What happened?

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Hell yes. There've been a few times when it was just plain lousy. Times when I thought there was maybe more of an emotional connection than there actually was, nothing seemed to click, and the whole thing just felt flat and left me feeling empty and wondering what in the world I'd been thinking.

Was this really a serious question? You think men aren't human, too?

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RE: Is there such a thing as bad sex...for men? - 6/23/2009 2:16:10 PM   
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Status: offline 		I think rednicky was talking about actual physical sensation.

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RE: Is there such a thing as bad sex...for men? - 6/23/2009 2:26:52 PM   
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ORIGINAL: hlen5

I think rednicky was talking about actual physical sensation.


I was but panda said was interesting. But I am talking about the feeling. Has it ever felt bad?

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RE: Is there such a thing as bad sex...for men? - 6/23/2009 2:48:53 PM   
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ORIGINAL: rednicky


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ORIGINAL: hlen5

I think rednicky was talking about actual physical sensation.


I was but panda said was interesting. But I am talking about the feeling. Has it ever felt bad?


Ah. OK. I dunno; sure, there've been times it was somewhat painful, but in each case it was intended to be. Other than that, no, probably not. Our workings work pretty simply. Not that much that can hurt, really.


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RE: Is there such a thing as bad sex...for men? - 6/23/2009 3:06:51 PM   
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Status: offline 		Having an erection can be moderately painful after several orgasms in a day, think sore muscle. Other than that penetration can feel good or not like much at all, what most guys call bad sex, but it isn't painful unless you're doing something eles to cause pain

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RE: Is there such a thing as bad sex...for men? - 6/23/2009 4:11:10 PM   
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Status: offline 		Yep, had it once a month, for ten years, it became so bad, it became a chore. What you get when you mix kinky with strictly and unconditional unadventurous vanilla. My fantasy was just good sex, but all I got was a bag of potatoes.



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RE: Is there such a thing as bad sex...for men? - 6/23/2009 5:07:01 PM   
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ORIGINAL: rednicky

Guys, I don't mean that your female partner (this is question more designed for heterosexuals) is a bad kisser or is as stiff as a log. I want to know if ya'll have just stuck it in and just said to yourselves "Well...that doesn't feel very good, now does it?"



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RE: Is there such a thing as bad sex...for men? - 6/23/2009 5:28:07 PM   
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RE: Is there such a thing as bad sex...for men? - 6/23/2009 5:44:02 PM   
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RE: Is there such a thing as bad sex...for men? - 6/23/2009 5:47:43 PM   
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I've been with women that didn't know how to keep their teeth out of the way during a blowjob.  It can be rather uncomfortable.  I have cramped up during sex, that hurts.  Sometimes a woman can't seem to get very wet; that's not very comfortable (of course they make lubricants for that).  Some women are really fond of digging their nails into your back, and I've had some draw blood.  That really fucking hurts. 

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RE: Is there such a thing as bad sex...for men? - 6/23/2009 5:52:01 PM   
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ORIGINAL: rednicky

Guys, I don't mean that your female partner (this is question more designed for heterosexuals) is a bad kisser or is as stiff as a log. I want to know if ya'll have just stuck it in and just said to yourselves "Well...that doesn't feel very good, now does it?"

I hear stories of women saying that they've had bad sex (i.e it hurt, he didn't know what he was doing, just didn't feel good at all) all the time. But I think I can safely say that the experiences for men and women differ as far a sex goes lol. Has it ever felt downright bad? What happened?


Had one girl that could not suck a dick to save her life. I licked her up one side of the wall and down the other but she just could not get the hang of  the mechanics of it. I thought I would just let it slide and get to the fucking. Ma no. She said she wanted to wait til next time so I had something to come back for. There was no next time for her.

Was getting into some sex with one girl years ago and entering was difficult. So tight it did not feel good at all. I had a condom on so after about 25 minutes I just acted like I came and flushed the condom and left. She was having a ball and I might as well have been watching the stock market drop 700 points. Ever since then I always send the fingers in first to reconnoiter before I bring the main team in. I never said anything to her though.




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RE: Is there such a thing as bad sex...for men? - 6/23/2009 6:05:35 PM   
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Status: offline 		Wow...I never thought there was such a think as being 'too tight'. A lot of girls are in trouble.

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RE: Is there such a thing as bad sex...for men? - 6/23/2009 6:16:18 PM   
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RE: Is there such a thing as bad sex...for men? - 6/23/2009 6:24:06 PM   
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ORIGINAL: rednicky

Wow...I never thought there was such a think as being 'too tight'. A lot of girls are in trouble.


Too tight, Too loose. Too dry. Laying there like cold fish. It happens.


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RE: Is there such a thing as bad sex...for men? - 6/23/2009 6:38:20 PM   
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Status: offline 		I think they've all been covered so I'll not give any examples.  I'll just say yes.

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RE: Is there such a thing as bad sex...for men? - 6/23/2009 7:10:27 PM   
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Status: offline 		Bad sex for men?.... I'm sure there are some in the pen that'd say "yeah"...
 
Personally, I've never had bad sex, but yes, it can happen.

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RE: Is there such a thing as bad sex...for men? - 6/23/2009 8:05:44 PM   
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RE: Is there such a thing as bad sex...for men? - 6/23/2009 9:21:53 PM   
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Status: offline 		Well you know what they say, sex is like the oil business, when its good, its fucking great, and when its bad, well its still pretty damn good.


actually the answer is yes.


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