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Judge and Jury - 6/12/2009 9:50:50 AM   
frazzle121


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Status: offline 		A male profile today, that named a fem sub profile, that lists all the scammers and fakes.

Now though im sure, this 21 yr old sub thinks, she's doing the right thing.

The scammers are normally obvious, contact me via my yahoo is 9/10 times at the end, never mind incomprehensible.

Fakes on the other hand, are in the eye of the beholder. I'm sure most of us would love a £/$ for everytime we've been called fake, just because we weren't compatable with someone.

She also names those asking for tribute. Well if someone is daft enough to send money to a stranger, maybe i'll start a Domme profile.

There is no question, just pointing out that the reason CM dont do a list like this, is it doesnt work. We are all looking for different things, use common sense, not some random person, who i will point out youve never met, to tell you who's who.

Was surprised i wasnt on list, obviously i havent annoyed enough people. LOL
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RE: Judge and Jury - 6/12/2009 9:56:23 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: frazzle121
A male profile today, that named a fem sub profile, that lists all the scammers and fakes.
Now though im sure, this 21 yr old sub thinks, she's doing the right thing.

A bad idea in general and the entire concept that a 21 year old would have the scope of experience even if it were a good idea is ludicrous. There's a reason you don't see too many 21 year old supreme court justices.

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Fakes on the other hand, are in the eye of the beholder.

A BDSM sacred cow but that doesn't make it right. Since this is my week to be flame bait by making heretical statements, I'll just go right ahead and say "I disagree." This sort of statement is yet another artifact of the "i'm ok", "you're ok", "everythign is ok" mindset of this community but common sense should indicate that it cannot be true... if for no other reason than life is never this simple.



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RE: Judge and Jury - 6/12/2009 9:59:35 AM   
frazzle121


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Status: offline 		Not sure if youre agreeing or disagreeing thats fakes are in eye of beholder.

Ive been doing this real time for too long, yet ive met people that called me fake, just because we weren't looking for the same thing.

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RE: Judge and Jury - 6/12/2009 10:11:23 AM   
leadership527


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Status: offline 		My opinion is that not all fakes are in the eyes of the beholder. But perhaps if I want to be flame bait, I should at least do it on my own thread and not derail this one. I agree what what the OP was originally posting about is a bad idea.

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RE: Judge and Jury - 6/12/2009 10:25:42 AM   
Fitznicely


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Status: offline 		I'm not sure if I agree now, or who I agree with LOL

I agree that some fakes are blindingly obvious unless you're a complete newcomer. I wonder if they deliberately prey on newbies.

As to the idea of some 21 year old wanting to police CM...more power to them but LOL...

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RE: Judge and Jury - 6/12/2009 10:30:55 AM   
frazzle121


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Status: offline 		Ok should have worded this better.

Yes there are total fakes, and as said usually spottable a mile away, i was pointing out, that who 1 person calls a fake may not be.

Hates the written word, coz it can be twisted and misinterpretted all over the place.

Still want a £ for everytime im called fake, i need a holiday. lol

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RE: Judge and Jury - 6/12/2009 10:52:38 AM   
antipode


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A male profile today, that named a fem sub profile, that lists all the scammers and fakes.


Did you report the profile? That's not allowed..

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RE: Judge and Jury - 6/12/2009 11:58:29 AM   
oceanwinds


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Status: offline 		I would hope this doesn't become a policed site. We have way to many judges and juries already here exclaiming about this person being a fake, and the list goes on and on. It is good imo that these people have found something to do to occupy their time. If they want to make list, it would be easier for me to black list them as a no no.

One day people will stop pointing fingers at all the fakes etc . and get on living life. Okay i confess, I live in care bear land.

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RE: Judge and Jury - 6/12/2009 1:33:52 PM   
janiebelle


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CM, or the community in general, does not need self-appointed captains of the kink police.
I would fancy to think that, as adults, we can make judgements on folks for ourselves, and not worry about publishing our appraisals for mass consumption.
j

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RE: Judge and Jury - 6/12/2009 1:55:17 PM   
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Status: offline 		I hope you reported it as its against TOS.

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RE: Judge and Jury - 6/12/2009 2:23:01 PM   
antipode


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I would hope this doesn't become a policed site


I do. I really would like it if someone who fills out they are in Buffalo, New Mexico, is rejected when their IP address is in Ghana.

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RE: Judge and Jury - 6/12/2009 2:28:36 PM   
Toppingfrmbottom


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Status: offline 		I disagree. Who's to say you're a fake or any one is a fake or not, and have emprical evidence?  unless I am mis understanding you.
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ORIGINAL: leadership527


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Fakes on the other hand, are in the eye of the beholder.

A BDSM sacred cow but that doesn't make it right. Since this is my week to be flame bait by making heretical statements, I'll just go right ahead and say "I disagree." This sort of statement is yet another artifact of the "i'm ok", "you're ok", "everythign is ok" mindset of this community but common sense should indicate that it cannot be true... if for no other reason than life is never this simple.



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RE: Judge and Jury - 6/12/2009 2:45:48 PM   
frazzle121


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Status: offline 		I got a reply off her that has the list, If we can prove we arent fake, she'll take us off list. LOL

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RE: Judge and Jury - 6/12/2009 2:49:21 PM   
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Status: offline 		She lists you personally?  I'd report that profile. 
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RE: Judge and Jury - 6/12/2009 3:41:52 PM   
oceanwinds


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ORIGINAL: antipode

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I would hope this doesn't become a policed site


I do. I really would like it if someone who fills out they are in Buffalo, New Mexico, is rejected when their IP address is in Ghana.



And then after rejecting those who are from Ghana, what next? Yes, it's a pain, but people are aware, or could be if they choose.

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RE: Judge and Jury - 6/12/2009 3:59:04 PM   
DomImus


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ORIGINAL: antipode
I do. I really would like it if someone who fills out they are in Buffalo, New Mexico, is rejected when their IP address is in Ghana.


If I live in and post from the state of Alaska and my profile states I am from Texas and I am only here to participate in the forums how can that possibly have any negative impact on anyone else here or in any way have any bearing on what I post?

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