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RE: have you ever had a dom or a sub and - 6/13/2009 3:27:42 PM

lateralist1

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LafayetteLady So you think marriage is a bigger commitment than D/s?
It's really interesting to find out how other people think.
It took me 16 years to finally walk away from my first marriage.
I was the dominant one and I thought he couldn't cope without me.
It seems I was wrong.
He had the house, the job and the pension.
That's real power.

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RE: have you ever had a dom or a sub and - 6/14/2009 8:07:10 AM

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Being a switch I frequently end up with a sub and a dom at the same time. Two Doms really didnt like it and one of them actually became quite nasty, that relationship ended and the sub and i had to avoid the Dom in public for fear of a fight happening. I have had the sub two years and i take my ownership of him very seriously.... he's as good as collared and isnt going anywhere.

Basically if i ended up in that kind of situation again which ever one wasnt happy could go.... I very open about who and what I am before i start relationships with people and if they cant handle that then they wont be happy with me in the long run...

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RE: have you ever had a dom or a sub and - 6/14/2009 8:13:02 AM

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ORIGINAL: LadyVillen

ive never had it mid relationship for the dymanics to change. But have found that a lot of preported Doms and Masters have contacted me, not because of my submissive side, but to be Dommed by my Domme side.

Hello you....

I have this happen to me too... however what i have found is that the alleged dominant guy is actually submissive, but they claim to be dominant as they think it will be easier to get a female that way, thats why they approach switches... very sad, but oh so very true.... though in saying that occassionally you do get a genuine dominant who likes to be topped every once in a while.... my very first Master was the guy who introduced me to ball busting.....

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