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Dodgy contact requests - 6/8/2009 2:19:54 AM

ster

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Is it only me and my suspicious nature.
But I am suddenly (last few months) been getting alot of requests from 'subs' from africa or with email's from subs here in holland who want me to reply back to their email address. I have had one sub who has introduced herself to me three times (over 2 months) and each time she has included a different email address that 'she' wanted me to write to.

So does anyone hear know of any new scams going on or am I just being to suspisious.

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RE: Dodgy contact requests - 6/8/2009 2:22:36 AM

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No it isn't you...
Listen to your gut instinct, especially with this being a free site, there should be no such need. M

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RE: Dodgy contact requests - 6/8/2009 2:27:41 AM

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Yes, they are scams; no, they are not new. All dating-type sites are infested with scammers, and this one is no exception.

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RE: Dodgy contact requests - 6/8/2009 2:29:00 AM

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I get the odd one or two. If I can't be bothered replying with every meathead stereotype chestbeating list of demands I can think of, they usually get deleted.

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RE: Dodgy contact requests - 6/8/2009 2:29:48 AM

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Thanks,

I am always wary about the internet,
If I was female I would expect lots of strange mails but I think as a man I am really more surprised at getting all this attention, and that makes me wander if there is some new scam out there.

(paranoia is good on the internet)

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RE: Dodgy contact requests - 6/8/2009 2:31:10 AM

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I disagree on the paranoia...
I call it common sense, and good instincts. If someone sounds full of chit, they probably are. M

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RE: Dodgy contact requests - 6/8/2009 3:07:45 AM

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Whenever i get one that says add me to yahoo and all that i usually pass. Seems like they all want me to join some website for just $1. i usually ignore those

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RE: Dodgy contact requests - 6/8/2009 4:46:40 AM

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I am getting a constantly messages from submissive men living in turkey or egypt. I do not believe that they are genuine, so i delete and block usually.

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RE: Dodgy contact requests - 6/8/2009 4:55:31 AM

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well for me ANYONE that copy and pastes messages are blocked.... if you cant take the time to write a personal message.. then i dont havet he time to give you my personal time

i too have been getting alot fo egypt, holland and scandnavia ones a well

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RE: Dodgy contact requests - 6/8/2009 5:12:43 AM

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RE: Turkey maids etc..
the same sissy maid messages me every week..
so I just said( felt like playing it out).... BOOK A FLIGHT and gave him directions to come here..and a plane fee schedule on line..
never heard from him again..
ahahah

OP:
there are MANY Scams...many..you will feel it if it is..they have fake pics..addresses..
and big boo hoo BS line...contracts..
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and a recent scam is one where the woman is saying she is the property of a training camp and you need to pay $800 for her..

Another is they(pics) are #1) gorgeous and engage you on line then #2) they go to another country ya right and get stranded and cant get back to you awwwwww
without plane fare...

another one is...

they are stranded in the other country and just need a bit more money to get a legal thing straightened out to get to you... their one and only..BLOCK THEM

If they got $1 from 100 guys a day..hay not bad hay??

GQ

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RE: Dodgy contact requests - 6/8/2009 5:19:12 AM

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I'm very popular with Turkish men apparently. I get heaps of those.

And anyone who starts off with add me at this email address is blocked immediately. I did get one charming email from a Romanian who said I was worthy of worship (gee ta!!) and if I paid for his airfare to Oz, I would be getting an amazing man who would worship at my feet forever. No washing up or sex? Lazy prick.

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RE: Dodgy contact requests - 6/8/2009 6:07:16 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadySweetOrSour

I'm very popular with Turkish men apparently. I get heaps of those.

a Sub here in the city had an interesting take on the Egypt and Turkey sub thing..he said that to be a submissive male in those countries is deathly impossible especially to be with a woman and be sub.

He said that he heard that males can anally have males and it is a "release" and accepted( and not called bi or homosexaul at times) cause it is not a real male but
for a male to submit to a woman as in a BDSM relationship other than hush hush fear is virtually impossible..and that to have a
power exchange( leaving sex out) is a real NO NO.

So maybe some really are seeking to come here for what they yearn for..
ALSO I noticed many say they can be "whored out"...so I am assuming may be occuring for them already and I wonder if it is always consensual..and how many are in a desperate situation.......
makes you wonder..

very marginalized to say the least..

THE again when I was in TURKEY//(family from long ago..gypsy) I saw extremes from women with male drivers and male secretaries to women following a man fully covered only her eyes showing thru a screen

enough blabbing..

GQ
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RE: Dodgy contact requests - 6/8/2009 8:46:02 AM

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I just delete their mail. Of course, as a guy with "male submissive" (though it should be masochist), I'm sure I don't get nearly the mail that our female folks get! It has got to be a P.I.T.A. for some of you.

And yeah, if they ask for money, they are scammers. Especially those that are "stuck" in a foreign country after being robbed and needing some help to pay their hotel bill and get home.

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RE: Dodgy contact requests - 6/8/2009 8:57:53 AM

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Unless I know the person, any stranger wanting my personal email "to chat" gets an automatic deletion.

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