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Stephann -> RE: Role Models for the Long Run (5/20/2009 7:56:29 PM)
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Hi there,
You've received some pretty decent advice so far. Here's a few more things to consider:
How much a part of your life do you want BDSM and/or Dominant/submissive oriented relationships? Don't worry, you don't need to answer that question yet. Rather, you explore. Attend munches, dungeons, play parties, and meet people safely who can give you advice, share their lives, and help point you in the right direction. You might find that this is all just a fantasy, or you may find that it gives you the most thrilling, emotionally satisfying experiences of your life. In learning how 'much' it matters to you, you then may also make decisions along the way that don't interfere with your career goals.
Lots of people in the lifestyles have very busy, active careers. Before my slave started working as a model, she was an accountant and I was a software project manager. She was always my slave, but when at work, we were just 'normal people' living normal lives. Don't approach your life as an 'either/or' question; find ways to do both, in a manner that feels sane and natural to you. There's nothing worse than trying to live your life in a manner everyone else expects you to live; chasing other peoples dreams never leads you down the path to chase your own.
Warm wishes,
Stephan
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