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susie -> RE: it's my birthday... (5/10/2009 1:12:12 AM)
Every year so far Master has bought be jewellery for my birthday. He obviously knows me very well as he has always picked things I would choose for myself. Last year he added a couple of CDs too choosing 2 of my favourite bands at the time. I have never thought to tell him what I want and he has never asked me.

housemouseinoz -> RE: it's my birthday... (5/10/2009 1:16:06 AM)
My Sir just had his birthday, i had some gold melted down and got the jeweler to make him a ring out of it, it has the BDSM logo on it and his initial on one side of the band and mine on the other. I did ask the guy making it to make my initial in lower case, when i went to pick it up, he said he tried it that way and it looked stupid :-( that my sentiment was nice...lol but it really looked unbalanced. When Sir opened it, i think his words were "That's fucking awesome" so i think he liked it :-) hm

TreasureKY -> RE: it's my birthday... (5/10/2009 1:30:30 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Prinsexx So: for s-types.... when it's your birthday would you expect a present from your D? What would you like? Would you get disappointed if you didn't get what you wanted or what you expected? And also what is the best/worst gift you have ever had? I don't have any expectations about my birthday at all. Of course, it's wonderful to have your existence recognized as being important to someone else, but I think that the more often that is done on an everyday basis, the less "necessary" it is to have a special day set aside for it. As far as presents, I don't like being asked what I want. My view is that a present should be a demonstration of the giver's thoughts and feelings of you... what they believe will be representative of what you and your presence in their life means to them. Whether large or small, to me the "successfulness" of a birthday present is wrapped up in the effort made... considering whatever level of effort the giver might make at any other time. Disappointment comes when the effort made demonstrates a lack of interest in me less than what I would hope it would be. In the case of a partner, I would hope that he has a level of interest in me at least equal to the interest I have in him. Edited to clarify that effort doesn't have to mean work and/or expense. It can mean that in the midst of his busy life and a myriad of distractions, he remembered that during a conversation at dinner two months ago I mentioned a book I'd heard about that sounded interesting to me. The effort isn't in stopping by a book store on the way home from work to buy the book... it's that he paid enough attention to my life to make a mental note of something that interested me, and to know that I'd not yet gotten the book.

Prinsexx -> RE: it's my birthday... (5/10/2009 1:34:36 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SteelofUtah Steel P.S. Happy Birthday...... This is For You >>CLICK<< ON THE BUTTON MAN WOW! i still throw my knickers at the youtube screen! when Tom's on!!

Prinsexx -> RE: it's my birthday... (5/10/2009 1:41:07 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: dreamerdreaming I've always forbidden my slaveboy to buy me presents. The gift I want from him is what he gives me every day. Himself. (Not his submission- the gift is him.) The only other gift I ever ask for from him is his writing. He writes me lovely poems and stories, and is just finishing his latest book. So that's nice. He makes me very happy with his gifts! I'm a lucky girl. [:)] Well it's my M's birthday two months after mine so the process is going to be reversed. i totally appreciate what you're saying about the gift being him. But the only other gift is his writing. It is very important that i stay strong for everyone around me as my family is going through emotional growing pains. Often when Master calls me it is to remind me that He needs me as slave and that i am also needed as mom. That's His gift to me really, the understanding that i am needed. It's a rare thing in any man to say that and it's rarer in any of the d-types i have known. But it's beautiful in my ears.

Prinsexx -> RE: it's my birthday... (5/10/2009 1:44:50 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MsFlutter quote: ORIGINAL: BKSir Damn! What's with all these May birthdays? I thought they were all supposed to be in November or something. I'll say happy birthday now though, so I don't forget. ;) HUG There's apparently a fleet of us May babies. I get a federal holiday for my bday. Life is good :) What happens Stateside in July? to create all you May babies? It boggles the imagination.

Prinsexx -> RE: it's my birthday... (5/10/2009 1:47:01 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: missturbation quote: for s-types.... when it's your birthday would you expect a present from your D? No i don't expect a gift for my birthday. I don't think i have even told my Sir when my birthday is. I plan to keep it that way too [;)] quote: What would you like? Erm a good book is always a good pressie for me. My best ever b'day pressie was from my ex sir, he gave me my first taste of needles. One through each breast downwards anf then lit candles in them. Oh and i had a sign that said 'happy birthday cunt', his nick for me [:D] Miss T..what are you some kins of masochist or what?

dreamerdreaming -> RE: it's my birthday... (5/10/2009 1:56:47 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Prinsexx quote: ORIGINAL: MsFlutter quote: ORIGINAL: BKSir Damn! What's with all these May birthdays? I thought they were all supposed to be in November or something. I'll say happy birthday now though, so I don't forget. ;) HUG There's apparently a fleet of us May babies. I get a federal holiday for my bday. Life is good :) What happens Stateside in July? to create all you May babies? It boggles the imagination. We do have a national holiday in July: Independence day on the 4th. A lot of people get a long weekend, for that.

Prinsexx -> RE: it's my birthday... (5/10/2009 1:58:48 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Miyani ~FR~ I haven't yet reached a birthday with My boy, we're only at the 8 month mark, but I absolutely plan on celebrating it with him, and giving him presents. Matters are a bit complicated by the fact that his birthday is My husband's and My wedding anniversary, but a celebration will happen, even if it's for only half the day. If I choose not to ask him what he wants, I will still be getting him something(s) he thinks he wants, and I know him well enough to have a fairly good idea of what that is. If I do choose to ask him what he wants, even if there is a chance he may not get it, I will expect a full and complete answer. If I do ask, I will be asking for a list, and telling him not to expect anything from the list. But he will most likely get at least something he's asked for, and the list ensures that I have things to choose from. Also, the gifts I get him won't necessarily be kink gifts, or gifts for "us." One of them definitely will be - it's a skill I've already begun developing, so that I can surprise him with it. he doesn't know I've begun to learn it. I may also get him something for his little side. But I love a full and complete person, and I plan to acknowledge that by getting something that the rest of him will appreciate as well. This is a great response and thank you. I learn so much from the other side of the whip. And even though i've been around, well been around the block way too many times, as they say...i'm still fascinated by others' dynamics. i sense a nice game going on with the two of you. There's a birthday game going on with us too. i've known him as a friend for so long but we have only been Master and slave for 4 months. It's amazing, mind-blowingly beautiful and intense for me. The kind of relationship that has put all previous relationships into perspectives. i know he knows what i want. But since there's ni limits as to what i want Master has a great deal to choose from. What makes it different for me is that he is not an emotional masochist. It's new to me... the understanding that i really can get what i want as well as what i need from this relationship. That's the hardest thing for me... is asking for what i want. It's a delicious process though. Thank you for your post.

Prinsexx -> RE: it's my birthday... (5/10/2009 2:03:05 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Sunnyfey I was told to tell my Sir what I wanted for my birthday. I told him, I got it. oh play up, play the game. Where's the romance in you? ps It's just a rumour i am a syndrome. I'm actually a real person and when you are as old as me the fact that i make it through another birthday at all is just bloody amazing. Jokes... lighten up.

Prinsexx -> RE: it's my birthday... (5/10/2009 2:05:22 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: housemouseinoz My Sir just had his birthday, i had some gold melted down and got the jeweler to make him a ring out of it, it has the BDSM logo on it and his initial on one side of the band and mine on the other. I did ask the guy making it to make my initial in lower case, when i went to pick it up, he said he tried it that way and it looked stupid :-( that my sentiment was nice...lol but it really looked unbalanced. When Sir opened it, i think his words were "That's fucking awesome" so i think he liked it :-) hm Well that is fuckin awesome. The only guy I ever bought a ring for turned out to be married all along......derrrr. Ain't doing that again!

Prinsexx -> RE: it's my birthday... (5/10/2009 2:12:10 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TreasureKY I don't have any expectations about my birthday at all. Of course, it's wonderful to have your existence recognized as being important to someone else, but I think that the more often that is done on an everyday basis, the less "necessary" it is to have a special day set aside for it. i agree with what you are saying. There is a completely unmaterial (immaterial?) side to the whole concept of birthdays. For example i rarely ever expect my um's to get me a gift. for Mother's Day or even at Christmas time. It's not how we operate as a family. I am mother and it's a one way street of service to them as far as i am concerned. If they make me a cup of tea or reverse roles and become my carer in any small way it is enough of an acknowledgement for me. But i think i really love the 'love' game Master plays with me. I as over twenty years older than him and ackowledging my birthday like this is a paradox because He never asks my real age and age for Him, is, as far as i am aware, both unimportant because of the chemitry we have, but importatmt at the same time, because of my strengths as an s type. i suspect we will not be talking about how old i am but my actual age might emerge on the night. Who knows... it's just delicious He even remembered.

Prinsexx -> RE: it's my birthday... (5/10/2009 2:15:27 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: dreamerdreaming quote: ORIGINAL: Prinsexx quote: ORIGINAL: MsFlutter quote: ORIGINAL: BKSir Damn! What's with all these May birthdays? I thought they were all supposed to be in November or something. I'll say happy birthday now though, so I don't forget. ;) HUG There's apparently a fleet of us May babies. I get a federal holiday for my bday. Life is good :) What happens Stateside in July? to create all you May babies? It boggles the imagination. We do have a national holiday in July: Independence day on the 4th. A lot of people get a long weekend, for that. Only kidding.. of course i know about the 4th July. ..There must be fireworks going off with a bang in more ways than one as i think 40 weeks later lays somewhere in May? Or did i do my maths wrong?

SIRLOINSTEAK -> RE: it's my birthday... (5/10/2009 2:21:37 AM)
I'm sorry, I always thought B-day tradition was SPANKINGS!! I got the b-day present for you, (start taking off your belt that holds you pants up)....... Make sure she tells you she loves her b-day present, otherwise, she is just pretending to be into BDSM..... If anyone asks, she can always say, he gave me this really nice BELT...I LOVE IT!! ;0 I DID GIVE HER MY BELT, she's telling the truth! ;0

GoddessTeaze -> RE: it's my birthday... (5/10/2009 2:52:52 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Prinsexx For D types... do you get your s type(s) a gift for their birthday? If so is it what they want or is it what they expect or is it what they don't want? And also what is the best/worst gift you have ever had? The best was a Trip to Italy, and this year a dress & a bag, those are great gifts to get. The worst is nothing.. I wish you a very happy Birthday, and many many more !!! [:D] GoddezzT`

DerangedUnit -> RE: it's my birthday... (5/10/2009 3:05:14 AM)
i got nothing from my last dom and for valentines day he went out and brought ne back a hat a girl that was flirting with him gave him lol yeah but then again we arnt together anymore so maybe that says something

Prinsexx -> RE: it's my birthday... (5/10/2009 3:13:47 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SIRLOINSTEAK I'm sorry, I always thought B-day tradition was SPANKINGS!! I got the b-day present for you, (start taking off your belt that holds you pants up)....... Make sure she tells you she loves her b-day present, otherwise, she is just pretending to be into BDSM..... If anyone asks, she can always say, he gave me this really nice BELT...I LOVE IT!! ;0 I DID GIVE HER MY BELT, she's telling the truth! ;0 o spankings are just an ordinary kind of thing... but i just wanted to ask sirloinsteak...where DID you get that tag from...it's a great name btw.

Prinsexx -> RE: it's my birthday... (5/10/2009 3:22:41 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GoddessTeaze The best was a Trip to Italy, and this year a dress & a bag, those are great gifts to get. The worst is nothing.. I GoddezzT` sorry GoddessTeaze i can't do centred type it fucks with my head..and i also need larger print size at my age lol.. ah a trip to Italy.. well a trip would be fine just as long as i could get home after a few days. I lived there once, and had to flee from an abusive partner who was the father of my kids and he therefore would have had custody rights to them..i got via the British Consulate who smuggled me out. So i am pretty ambivalent about Italy. Milan is great for shopping.. any kind of Italian shoes would hit the spot but I must say the best bar I have ever drunk in? It was Udinese football Club. Jeeez what a great place. Football tickets to watch Aston Villa would also hit a spot for me. I guess you don't really know a person until...well you know them. I've got over two months to think what He wants and i'm fucked if he says my submission is a gift... it's kind of a tired phrase in my ears...He won't i'm fairly sure so now i'm stuck what the get the Master who has more kit than Nike.... well different kit but you know what i mean. Milan...or Florence...or Venice...or Udine in the football club bar....

Prinsexx -> RE: it's my birthday... (5/10/2009 3:25:57 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DerangedUnit i got nothing from my last dom and for valentines day he went out and brought ne back a hat a girl that was flirting with him gave him lol yeah but then again we arnt together anymore so maybe that says something Yes it does...it says everything. But then again when i was into emotional masochism big time i would have loved that. i did get a phone call from an ex once as a 'gift'... he was having a blow job from someone else...it sounded gross. i was outta that relationship even before i got the phone call.

InTonguesslave -> RE: it's my birthday... (5/10/2009 3:55:27 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Prinsexx quote: ORIGINAL: DerangedUnit i got nothing from my last dom and for valentines day he went out and brought ne back a hat a girl that was flirting with him gave him lol yeah but then again we arnt together anymore so maybe that says something Yes it does...it says everything. But then again when i was into emotional masochism big time i would have loved that. i did get a phone call from an ex once as a 'gift'... he was having a blow job from someone else...it sounded gross. i was outta that relationship even before i got the phone call. snort - thanks for the laugh, did me good! happy birthday prin xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx[sm=dancing.gif]

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