I wonder why we are always discussing punishments around here as if submissives were all naughty children who need to be punished or they will not behave. How about researching rewards for jobs well done?
Perhaps separation from Dom is the worst punishment he can cast? In this respect, being told to sit in the corner is worse than spanking yourself with rubber bands.
They're already in a long-distance relationship. How much more separated can they get?
Cali
*grin* *wave*
catize -> RE: LD punishment (5/8/2009 9:53:31 PM)
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ORIGINAL: peppermint
I wonder why we are always discussing punishments around here as if submissives were all naughty children who need to be punished or they will not behave. How about researching rewards for jobs well done?
Better yet, why don’t we realize that most submissive men/women have self control and will obey and follow rules? Why don’t we dwell on the fact that most of us do our very best because pleasing our dominants pleases us? Why don’t we get treated like adults who may occasionally make mistakes and have brains enough to understand a discussion on how to correct it? [8|]
I wonder why we are always discussing punishments around here as if submissives were all naughty children who need to be punished or they will not behave. How about researching rewards for jobs well done?
Better yet, why don’t we realize that most submissive men/women have self control and will obey and follow rules? Why don’t we dwell on the fact that most of us do our very best because pleasing our dominants pleases us? Why don’t we get treated like adults who may occasionally make mistakes and have brains enough to understand a discussion on how to correct it? [8|]