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kiwisub12 -> RE: How about no... (5/2/2009 3:45:50 PM)
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Sounds to me that the OP is tired out from her responsibilities during the week, and then her second set of responsibilities during the weekend - and having so much responsibility can tire a girl out!!!
The OP can't do much about the weekday responsibilities, but the weekend responsibilities can be negotiated. For instance , she can request down-time to relax - maybe in a hammock, or read a book, or walk a dog. She is just as submissive doing any of these activities as when she is talking up cock. And i rather think her dom would appreciate the appreciation. Heck, for that matter she can ask for a scene-free weekend, just to spend time with her dom in vanilla activities. Once her dom realises how burnt out she is feeling, i would think (or hope) that a bit of consideration would come into the dynamic.
My Sir allows me the free time to follow my interests - with only a little complaining [:D]. He is very cognisant of the need for rest and relaxation -and i appreciate the hell out of him. And i have never become burnt-out re. D/s activities and mindset. So we are doing something right.
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