BKSir
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Joined: 4/8/2008 From: Salt Lake City, UT Status: offline
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Give it time, Bull. It'll get there. Right now, unfortunately for myself as well, polygamy, in a large way is used as basically a form of organized crime, including insurance fraud, welfare fraud, etc. I'm completely in favour of legalizing it, even taking my personal wishes out of the equation. If they did, they'd be able to more closely regulate it and keep the (literally) tens of millions of dollars per year in fraud from happening as much. Living in Utah definitely gives one some interesting views on polygamy, as well as some unique resources to actually research it. After all, what is marriage, but a civil contract between people? In essence, marriage, legally speaking, is little more than an incorporated business. Well, more like an L.L.C., but whatever. Quite frankly, when it comes down to it (and I know I'm going to catch a lot of flack for this), the church (whichever one, all of them) is little more than a shiny place to have the ceremony. In reality any justice of the peace, ships captain, government licensed monkey can perform a wedding. I'm all for saying "Same sex marriage is legal. (I damn well better be) But if an individual church or place of worship doesn't want to do the ceremony, they don't have to." I think that's how it SHOULD be. I don't want to trample on their rights to believe what they want to believe any more than I wan them to trample on my rights to be able to enjoy the same benefits they do, with the person (or people in some cases out there) that I've been with for 14 years now. Not to mention, chances are, if they don't want to perform the ceremony I probably don't want it held there anyway. *shrug*
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