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ncbabe -> RE: Help displaying (4/21/2009 5:11:18 PM)
Thanks to everyone for their comments and advice. I have displayed for him now. My face was hidden at all times and there were no personal items in the background. And although I was nervous at first he did in fact guide me and I was very comfortable with what I was doing.

camille65 -> RE: Help displaying (4/21/2009 5:12:06 PM)
Hey I'm glad it turned out well!

angelic -> RE: Help displaying (4/21/2009 7:06:34 PM)
Deleted... too late.

LookieNoNookie -> RE: Help displaying (4/21/2009 7:11:19 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: catize He “owns” you but you have never met. I wouldn’t agree to be owned by someone I’ve never seen in person. I certainly would not display myself sexually on cam at this juncture. He needs to be willing to meet you in real life. Sorry, but your scenario makes me think he is just looking to get off on cam. Trust, but verify…..and if he doesn’t like it, big indication he has no intentions of moving this to real time. Ayepper.....couldn't have said it better.

SailingBum -> RE: Help displaying (4/21/2009 7:22:42 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie quote: ORIGINAL: catize He “owns” you but you have never met. I wouldn’t agree to be owned by someone I’ve never seen in person. I certainly would not display myself sexually on cam at this juncture. He needs to be willing to meet you in real life. Sorry, but your scenario makes me think he is just looking to get off on cam. Trust, but verify…..and if he doesn’t like it, big indication he has no intentions of moving this to real time. Ayepper.....couldn't have said it better. My guess is there are both looking to get off in cyber land. She agreed to the cyber wankfest. Neither of them may want to go "real time". Why do lots of folks blame the "dom" when it take 2 to tango? No really it's not the story of the big bad wolf eating the girl as the girl is half the relationship BadOne

LookieNoNookie -> RE: Help displaying (4/21/2009 7:29:13 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SailingBum quote: ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie quote: ORIGINAL: catize He “owns” you but you have never met. I wouldn’t agree to be owned by someone I’ve never seen in person. I certainly would not display myself sexually on cam at this juncture. He needs to be willing to meet you in real life. Sorry, but your scenario makes me think he is just looking to get off on cam. Trust, but verify…..and if he doesn’t like it, big indication he has no intentions of moving this to real time. Ayepper.....couldn't have said it better. My guess is there are both looking to get off in cyber land. She agreed to the cyber wankfest. Neither of them may want to go "real time". Why do lots of folks blame the "dom" when it take 2 to tango? No really it's not the story of the big bad wolf eating the girl as the girl is half the relationship BadOne (Equally well said!)

ncbabe -> RE: Help displaying (4/22/2009 5:49:45 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SailingBum My guess is there are both looking to get off in cyber land. She agreed to the cyber wankfest. Neither of them may want to go "real time". Why do lots of folks blame the "dom" when it take 2 to tango? No really it's not the story of the big bad wolf eating the girl as the girl is half the relationship BadOne Thanks for pointing this out. I am not looking for it to become real time. I know he may just be getting off on it, but I'm doing this for what I get out of it and as long as we're both aware of what this is then I don't see a problem.

catize -> RE: Help displaying (4/22/2009 6:59:41 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SailingBum quote: ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie quote: ORIGINAL: catize He “owns” you but you have never met. I wouldn’t agree to be owned by someone I’ve never seen in person. I certainly would not display myself sexually on cam at this juncture. He needs to be willing to meet you in real life. Sorry, but your scenario makes me think he is just looking to get off on cam. Trust, but verify…..and if he doesn’t like it, big indication he has no intentions of moving this to real time. Ayepper.....couldn't have said it better. My guess is there are both looking to get off in cyber land. She agreed to the cyber wankfest. Neither of them may want to go "real time". Why do lots of folks blame the "dom" when it take 2 to tango? No really it's not the story of the big bad wolf eating the girl as the girl is half the relationship BadOne If I could be eaten in cyber-land I might have to consider buying a web cam! [:D]

GYPZYQUEEN -> RE: Help displaying (4/27/2009 11:31:36 AM)
IF something feels wrong it is ..if you have reservations.. think..if you have doubts..why..? FOLLOW your intuition... A DOM needs to make an effort to do more than say "not worry".. when someone is about to strip and be totatlly vulnerable.. He needs a good spanking and I agree with Kirata.. "he is doing fucking nothing" no guidance...not NEGOTIATING..????

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