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RE: Is my Mistress out there...? - 4/8/2009 10:17:04 AM

BoiJen

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Hoshi,

It seems to me you're not getting the message...I'll try again...

Because you are already in a relationship, with your husband, you don't have the same type of time and ability to devote to a Domme. And any Domme, who isn't already primarily attached or multiply attached, wants absolute devotion. Again they don't share. You already having a husband means they're gonna have to share. Which means in some way or another, that Domme is gonna have to ceed to your husband's wants.

In essence, you're asking for a Domme that will submit to your husband. There's an obvious problem with that for any Woman who has no desire to sumbit to anyone. Now, one might suggest that you're looking for a female that feels Dominant toward females and submissive to males.

Like I said...you'll be working through the trenches but these individuals do exist. Just don't be naive about your approach to the search.

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RE: Is my Mistress out there...? - 4/8/2009 1:11:00 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MamaDomme1
BoiJen had it correct from the get-go, IMHO

She usually does. Boijen is smart, savvy and adorable enough to be banned in three counties.

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RE: Is my Mistress out there...? - 4/8/2009 1:33:38 PM

BoiJen

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Awww...I don't usually get called savvy unless I'm trying to get in a Woman's skirt...or at least convince her to smack me around a bit ;-)

But I'd greatly appreciate the Ladies of the boards not sharing which countries I'm banned in....it might cut down on my fan club membership.

Hoshi, you'll notice like three or four different dominant Women who regular these forums said I was right...you'll likely find them among my fan club....like slaveKal (another cool individual), I've not only got the right ideas, I've gotten somewhere with them. So I'll end my participation here just saying, that if you're looking to add a play mate or family member, I think (and suggest) that you refine your search to a female who considers herself a switch in her power play role so that everyone's needs might be met in a less potentially confrontational way.

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RE: Is my Mistress out there...? - 4/8/2009 4:11:17 PM

Hoshi

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I would be happy with a switch, slave, or Domme...I'm not sure, but I think my profile says that I would like someone to switch with. I'm sorry that everyone got the idea that I was seeking the ultimate Domme, because I'm not.

I am basically looking for a lifestyle aware/participating female that is happy to join my already existing family. I'm not looking for a sister slave I am looking for an equal that will top sometimes and bottom other times with me. I didn't realize that was naive...

Thank you so much to everyone, you have given me a lot to think about and have been more than helpful!

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RE: Is my Mistress out there...? - 4/9/2009 7:05:35 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Hoshi

I would be happy with a switch, slave, or Domme...I'm not sure, but I think my profile says that I would like someone to switch with. I'm sorry that everyone got the idea that I was seeking the ultimate Domme, because I'm not.

I am basically looking for a lifestyle aware/participating female that is happy to join my already existing family. I'm not looking for a sister slave I am looking for an equal that will top sometimes and bottom other times with me. I didn't realize that was naive...

Thank you so much to everyone, you have given me a lot to think about and have been more than helpful!

Well why didn't you say so in the first place?!

You titled the thread "Is my Mistress out there?"

In your OP you state: "I want a lover that I can serve." You then end with the question "How can one find a Mistress?"

Maybe "Where is my equal that will top sometimes and bottom other times with me?" would have been a better title.

Just a thought.

Good luck Hoshi, you're gonna need it.

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