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Male Chastity - 1/28/2006 6:12:28 PM   
thordor


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My Mistress and fiancee wants me to be in chastity in her absense.

For now we are living some way apart and it may be a year before we are together.


I'd like to ask what are the long term effects of prolonged chastity. Please remember i never wear chastity before. We have looked on the internet and think the CB-3000 device would be suitable.

I wonder if there may be any physical effects like not been able to get strong erections if going for such a long period in chastity. Can anyone with exeprience please advise?


My Mistress tells me i need this to learn patience and tolerance. she knows she has my loyalty with or without this.


Would be greatful to hear of other's experiences.


Thank you,


Thordor
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RE: Male Chastity - 1/29/2006 6:28:33 AM   
LadiesBladewing


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Status: offline 		There are no long-term complications to enforced chastity with the exception that the prostate ought to be emptied regularly, in order to prevent possible later-in-life prostate issues. This can be done without any sexual response, through direct stimulation of the prostate "milking", and can be handled by the servant himself with some instruction.

There is some information online concerning prostate milking for the health of male servants that your Lady might be interested in.

Lady Zephyr

quote:

ORIGINAL: thordor

I'd like to ask what are the long term effects of prolonged chastity. Please remember i never wear chastity before. We have looked on the internet and think the CB-3000 device would be suitable.

I wonder if there may be any physical effects like not been able to get strong erections if going for such a long period in chastity. Can anyone with exeprience please advise?


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RE: Male Chastity - 1/29/2006 7:01:36 AM   
MstrssPassion


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Status: offline 		The self-milking technique is possible, but not easy to do.

I would suggest that you practice this & be somewhat proficient at it before you are locked up & your Mistress is away. (assuming that she is near you now)

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RE: Male Chastity - 1/29/2006 7:02:34 AM   
MrDiscipline44


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ORIGINAL: thordor
I wonder if there may be any physical effects like not been able to get strong erections if going for such a long period in chastity. Can anyone with exeprience please advise?

Are you kidding? I've always felt stronger erections when I abstained from sex. Hell, thats part of the fun of abstaining from sex in the first place. This is my opinion, of course.

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RE: Male Chastity - 1/29/2006 11:20:58 AM   
LadyCharly


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Status: offline 		I believe most in the medical community suggest not to go longer than 6 months without emptying the seminal sac. If the seman is allow to stay dormant, it could become infected and cause major problems. Regular milkings will keep the prostate healthy, it's not about erections or orgasms.


Lady Charly

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RE: Male Chastity - 1/29/2006 11:29:35 AM   
cloudboy


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ORIGINAL: thordor

I'd like to ask what are the long term effects of prolonged chastity.


O, that's easy: misery, sleeplessness, and frustration.

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RE: Male Chastity - 1/29/2006 11:54:10 AM   
MHOO314


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ORIGINAL: LadyCharly

I believe most in the medical community suggest not to go longer than 6 months without emptying the seminal sac. If the seman is allow to stay dormant, it could become infected and cause major problems. Regular milkings will keep the prostate healthy, it's not about erections or orgasms.


Lady Charly




So I guess that's why so many priests are under scrutiny for child molestation and not prostate cancer.

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RE: Male Chastity - 1/29/2006 5:25:10 PM   
thordor


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Status: offline 		Hi,

I just want to thank you all for replying. I found your replies, to be helpful, interesting and funny.

Right now, i'm looking at it like this. it's a very tough decision!

Pro's
Focus on other things.
Channel sexual energy through me, rather than out. Clearing and energising.
Increased Spirituality.
Keep Mistress happy

Con's
Frustration
More desire to play and involve with other girls when I know I cannot.
Sleeplessness
Not sure about swimming, massage and sport activity
Too much thinking about Mistress and her control over me as a result of my chastity. May effect my ability to perform clearly in my job.

{i realise i've put Mistress last in both of these.. not been selfish, but i just recognise it will affect me more than her}


Thordor

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RE: Male Chastity - 1/29/2006 5:53:44 PM   
MHOO314


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quote:

ORIGINAL: thordor

Hi,

I just want to thank you all for replying. I found your replies, to be helpful, interesting and funny.

Right now, i'm looking at it like this. it's a very tough decision!

Pro's
Focus on other things.
Channel sexual energy through me, rather than out. Clearing and energising.
Increased Spirituality.
Keep Mistress happy

Con's
Frustration
More desire to play and involve with other girls when I know I cannot.
Sleeplessness
Not sure about swimming, massage and sport activity
Too much thinking about Mistress and her control over me as a result of my chastity. May effect my ability to perform clearly in my job.

{i realise i've put Mistress last in both of these.. not been selfish, but i just recognise it will affect me more than her}


Thordor



If She is not part of an intelligent decision--it will affect both of you in the long run.

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RE: Male Chastity - 1/30/2006 1:57:43 AM   
lockedhusband2


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyCharly

I believe most in the medical community suggest not to go longer than 6 months without emptying the seminal sac. If the seman is allow to stay dormant, it could become infected and cause major problems. Regular milkings will keep the prostate healthy, it's not about erections or orgasms.


There is absolutely no medical basis for this myth. There is one study (just one) that correlates a possible reduced risk of prostate cancer if you ejaculated 7 or more time a week in your twenties. I also don't believe there has been any study to see if long term manual stimulation of the prostate causes any adverse effects. If emptying the seminal sac was required there wouldn't be thousands of vasectomies every year.

Physically long term chastity is very low risk.

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RE: Male Chastity - 1/30/2006 2:36:36 AM   
lockedhusband2


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quote:

ORIGINAL: thordor

Pro's
Focus on other things.
Channel sexual energy through me, rather than out. Clearing and energising.
Increased Spirituality.
Keep Mistress happy

Con's
Frustration
More desire to play and involve with other girls when I know I cannot.
Sleeplessness
Not sure about swimming, massage and sport activity
Too much thinking about Mistress and her control over me as a result of my chastity. May effect my ability to perform clearly in my job.


I am in a CB3000 myself. I have had one orgasm since last Thanksgiving. I think the biggest pro is "Keep Mistress happy"

Frustration and increased horniness is both a con and a pro, definately a rush.
Sleeplessness might be a problem the first few days but you will be able to sleep fine quickly enough.
"May effect my ability to perform clearly in my job." excess horniness even out of chastity can effect the job. You may have delt with this in the past. However you normally handle your Mistress running through your thoughts at work you would do the same. Like sleep

Don't be afraid of trying it out, you can always change your mind.

Good Luck

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RE: Male Chastity - 1/30/2006 3:54:49 AM   
FantMstr


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quote:

ORIGINAL: thordor

......

I'd like to ask what are the long term effects of prolonged chastity. Please remember i never wear chastity before. We have looked on the internet and think the CB-3000 device would be suitable.

......


Thordor



My concerns are the the "self-control" needed, the mental aspects and what the long term will do to your relationship. It is one thing to play a scene for a short period of time with your Mistress there to enforce it and “reward you”. It is another to go straight into a long term chastity arrangement with Mistress not there. Especially if you have no experience in what you are getting into. In short you may find that it gets F'n old after a while, and this will test you and your relationship.

Fantasy Mstr


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RE: Male Chastity - 3/21/2009 1:20:56 PM   
johnsteed2


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quote:

ORIGINAL: lockedhusband2

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyCharly

I believe most in the medical community suggest not to go longer than 6 months without emptying the seminal sac. If the seman is allow to stay dormant, it could become infected and cause major problems. Regular milkings will keep the prostate healthy, it's not about erections or orgasms.


There is absolutely no medical basis for this myth. There is one study (just one) that correlates a possible reduced risk of prostate cancer if you ejaculated 7 or more time a week in your twenties. I also don't believe there has been any study to see if long term manual stimulation of the prostate causes any adverse effects. If emptying the seminal sac was required there wouldn't be thousands of vasectomies every year.

Physically long term chastity is very low risk.


Actually, there are studies that correlate both reduced and increased risk of prostate cancer related to ejaculation frequency, with various variables such as the study you noted (which saw an increase with 7 or more times per week in one's twenties).

Separately, however, there is indeed a risk of infection (prostatitis), which is why the general recommendation I've seen is "about once per month" to ejaculate either via climax or prostate massage (or electric prostate stimulation).

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RE: Male Chastity - 3/21/2009 2:48:49 PM   
CatdeMedici


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quote:

My Mistress tells me i need this to learn patience and tolerance. she knows she has my loyalty with or without this.


Then what's the issue? Can't you keep your hands to yourself? Must you play with your cylinder all the time?
 
So aside from going mad and growing cobwebs between your legs, can't think of much else.

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RE: Male Chastity - 3/21/2009 3:06:20 PM   
Vanityfull


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Status: offline 		blue balls, you might get bitchy all the time, thats about it.

"I've always felt stronger erections when I abstained from sex. Hell, thats part of the fun of abstaining from sex in the first place. This is my opinion, of course."

i agree, the less often i get off the better it is when i do, but im odd.. but so are you people.. freaks!

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RE: Male Chastity - 3/21/2009 6:04:15 PM   
GotSteel


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Status: offline 		There are forums specifically about chastity that you may want to look into. I don't really know the male chastity specific sites but lockmeup.com and lockedinsteel.com might be a good place to start. Lockedinsteel has a weekly internet radio show as well as a chatroom so you could get a better idea of what your getting into. I have heard that the cb3000 doesn't actually work a lot of the time, there is some sort of "pullout" issue.

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RE: Male Chastity - 3/21/2009 6:46:03 PM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		There is a health risk to long term chastity and that is cancer.  There is also an emotional risk of being trained or so trained that you have a hard time orgasming later on when you and your dominant want you to.

I don't do long term for a number of reasons.. but these two are high on the list.

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RE: Male Chastity - 3/21/2009 8:30:47 PM   
herpreciouspet


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Status: offline 		i am presently wearing a cb3000 device. i have heard that there is the potential of "pullout", but it has never been an issue for me. i do have points of intrique inserts that i have been told will reduce the potential of this issue.

Concerning the topic of long distance and wearing a device for your Mistress, i am presently wearing her device on a daily basis with scheduled times for release. We both have found it an effective means to have her control me, when apart. Not because i cannot resist touching her property nor obeying her instructions to not orgasm, but because it is something that we both wish and it is satisfying for Mistress.

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RE: Male Chastity - 3/21/2009 11:32:09 PM   
Renskor


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There is a health risk to long term chastity and that is cancer.
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ORIGINAL: Lockit

Bullshit. I wore a cb3000 before. Your body can deal with this. Can you prove this whatsoever? More importantly are you a guy? Have you ever tried it yourself? If you can answer yes to any of those then i will apologise.

Im sorry to say this just stuff like this annoys me, if you get backups that bad your body will release itself, ie wet dreams, you can even get these when your penis is limp. Like i said before your body can deal with it. The only problem i can see is chafing. It hurts sometimes.

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RE: Male Chastity - 3/22/2009 8:32:11 AM   
orlandoslv


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Status: offline 		i have been wearing a CB-2000 since 10 January because Bohemian Goddess owns the cock and balls that used to me mine.  Since i am Her property She has complete control of any sexual release i may have in the future although i think that release may be a long time coming.  I agree with Renskor that your body will take care of itself.  i have seen a lot of people, mainly males, that say that going without release for say over 90 days will be harmful.  i think most of these males do not have the fortitude to go for a long time without a wank. 

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