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Kaltenth -> How Evil Are You? (4/2/2009 5:54:35 AM)

OK, so I'm trying to come up with a list of very evil tasks that can be given to a male or female submissive.
Pretty standard hard limits of no blood/scat/bestiality/children apply. Examples of the kind of thing (adapted from other posts elsewhere):

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Make them type at least two sides of A4 of text (whatever you choose) with their nose and video themselves doing it; you can warn them that when you next see them they will get one cane-stroke for each spelling mistake.


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Window of opportunity: Only allow 1 minute for him to make himself come.


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Pick an abject posture you'd like to see them photographed in, take their camera/phone out and approach a member of the same/opposite sex like a tourist and ask if they would take a snap which they then send to you.


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If you have a lawn, order your sub to cut the grass. One blade at a time, with tweezers, or chopsticks or teeth.


So can you think of something evil to give as a task? And, for extra points, have you ever set a task (or been set a task) that was actually impossible to do, but done it anyway just for the look on the submissive's face when they try so hard and fail anyway?
Thanks in advance [image]http://img.informedconsent.co.uk/icons/bigsmile.gif[/image]




IronBear -> RE: How Evil Are You? (4/2/2009 7:22:37 AM)

According to a number of kingsters here, I am the most evil bastard in Australia. I can live with that and I jolly well like it. 




RCdc -> RE: How Evil Are You? (4/2/2009 8:09:51 AM)

Setting up someone to fail on purpose is pretty much fucked up unless they know the result is supposed to be failiure.
Other than that, someone who couldn't set their own or tries to preplan a list of tasks that isn't tailored to a specific person gets a fail.
 
the.dark.




InTonguesslut -> RE: How Evil Are You? (4/2/2009 8:15:37 AM)

I'm with the dark here.
Half the fun is surely coming up with something specialised to your sub / slave. Setting up to fail, plain wrong unless the intention is known and its part of 'play'.




DavanKael -> RE: How Evil Are You? (4/2/2009 9:02:46 AM)

There is something inherently mean-spirited about setting someone up to fail.  Someone may argue that it's pat of being sadistic but I would argue that it dips into an unacceptable level of abuse. 
  Davan




kidwithknife -> RE: How Evil Are You? (4/2/2009 9:10:19 AM)

What other people have said.  Don't touch deliberately setting someone up to fail with a bargepole.  I know several subs who would have  their heads seriously fucked up by that approach.  And not in a 'mindfuck' way.




Kaltenth -> RE: How Evil Are You? (4/2/2009 9:44:49 AM)

*sighs heavily*

OK... this thread wasn't meant to be a forum for airing opinions on the subject... simply to see what evil tasks other people had been set (and to ask whether anyone had been set anything they couldn't actually manage to complete, whether that was the intention or not).




lameduck13 -> RE: How Evil Are You? (4/2/2009 9:48:37 AM)

I live for impossible tasks, which is what you are asking for am I right? Something that is extremely hard or impossible to do.

Here's a few:

Have your slave/sub tethered to a pole with 4 feet of lead, have a pad lock attached from the lead to their collar/body harness. Place the key 7 feet from the pole, now unless ur sub/slave is 7 feet tall they will get within a few inches or closer but will not be able to grab the keys. Tell your slave/sub for every minute on the lead they will receive one whipping. Enjoy.

Take a male sub and chain/tie him to a bed. next take a sex toy or your hand if your not opposed to this and start playing with him. Tell him if he comes he will be punished. Don't stop until he comes.

Ball gag/tie gag your sub/slave and ask questions if they can't give a clear response whip them.

Hog tie your slave/sub and tell them to crawl from one room to another, while you whip them. If you have carpet they carpet will rug burn a female slave/sub's breasts and a male slave/subs chest. To increase the difficulty give them time limits and make the hogtie tighter. To make impossible take a lead from a fixed opject and attach to their top knot or lock depending on how you hogtie them.

I have more if you'd like them.




Kaltenth -> RE: How Evil Are You? (4/2/2009 9:55:22 AM)

They sound brilliant, lameduck13.  Any more? [image]http://img.informedconsent.co.uk/icons/bigsmile.gif[/image]




AfroerotiK -> RE: How Evil Are You? (4/2/2009 9:55:53 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Kaltenth

*sighs heavily*

OK... this thread wasn't meant to be a forum for airing opinions on the subject... simply to see what evil tasks other people had been set (and to ask whether anyone had been set anything they couldn't actually manage to complete, whether that was the intention or not).


I'm every amazed at how pious and condescending people are on BDSM sites.  "Oh, the horror of setting someone up to fail.  It's unthinkable. . . . I would never humiliate a sub, that's not respectful."  Give me a break!  I treat subs like shit and they beg for more.  Sadly, I can't respond with most of my evil machinations simply because my most extreme tortures revolve around the administration of enemas and that verges on crossing the scat line of propriety. 




lameduck13 -> RE: How Evil Are You? (4/2/2009 9:59:52 AM)

If you'd like to message me on the site and reveal a little information about how many subs you have and what sex your subs are I can give you a few that would incorporate all your subs. 




DesFIP -> RE: How Evil Are You? (4/2/2009 10:26:12 AM)

Most people object to being involved without consent in someone else's sex life. So if he's supposed to humiliate himself in public and get someone else to take a picture, who goes to jail if the police are called? And what happens if everyone takes one look at him and runs away?

Beyond that, most of your ideas seem stupid and useless, and I would judge a top who asked those things as being one who isn't someone I would submit to or consider competent to give me a grocery list, let alone have any control over my life.




Kana -> RE: How Evil Are You? (4/2/2009 10:28:43 AM)

C/mon
You wanna be evil...
It takes time, effort.
You have to lay awake at night, endless hours dreaming of ways to torment.
Dedicate yourself, give it over
Put forth some serious effort
(Remember, Evil isn't for wusses)
You can't do just one nasty thing and call yourself evil
It's not just a state of mind, it's a way of life.

But ya can't cop it from strangers.


*Wicked Grin*




Lynnxz -> RE: How Evil Are You? (4/2/2009 10:33:53 AM)

It's my experience that people that claim they are 'evil' are being overdramatic.... like the emo kids in the mall that sit in the corner all day sighing about how horrible their lives are. (At least till 5, when Mom and the minivan are back to pick them up.)

As far as setting up someone to fail... those tasks in the OP aren't abusive, jeeze. It's just busywork or entertainment, except for the tourist thing which seems mildly creepy. So you're being 'set up to fail', and it's 'not fair'. Who cares? Life isn't fair, you aren't always going to win.





lameduck13 -> RE: How Evil Are You? (4/2/2009 10:42:28 AM)

A few more:

Take a male sub/slave bound his hand behind his back so he can't reach himself, then tell him you want him to beat his meat and come for you.

Frogtie a female slave/sub in a shwoer aim the shower head at her nether regions. Tell her she has to work her way out of her bonds. every thirty seconds turn the shower head on cold. Make sure the drain is closed for this. Also make sure ur sub/slave doesn't fall over as she could drown. Now if ur sub/slave does fall over, give them ten seconds to think about what they did to make them fall over before righting them.





CollaredLisa -> RE: How Evil Are You? (4/2/2009 10:53:39 AM)

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

Most people object to being involved without consent in someone else's sex life. So if he's supposed to humiliate himself in public and get someone else to take a picture, who goes to jail if the police are called? And what happens if everyone takes one look at him and runs away?

Beyond that, most of your ideas seem stupid and useless, and I would judge a top who asked those things as being one who isn't someone I would submit to or consider competent to give me a grocery list, let alone have any control over my life.


I agree, I think those kinds of tasks are a little childish/ immature... You know, a little like "Ha ha... you can't do it..."
But, hey, to each their own.




RCdc -> RE: How Evil Are You? (4/2/2009 12:49:02 PM)

Nothing pious about it.  If you are using humiliation in your play - more power to you.  If they come back for more - more power to them.  But that wasn't what was outlined.
 
But if people really have to get ideas from others to become 'evil' yeah I am pious all the way.  If a person doesn't have enough imagination to get 'evil' then it's all pretend.  If someone going to be evil, then I at least want them to be real about it.  Op asked for experience, I gave it.  Second hand imagination sucks, it loses it's follow through because it's not from inside ones own head.  It's like following instructions on how to construct a bookcase - never works well and ends up crooked and naff.
 
Enemas are pretty yawn, standard borefest.  lameduck is giving examples too and none of them seem in any way 'evil' to me.  No offense to him at all, but they are standard, boring examples.  But that's me.  And probably dozens of others.  Some of the shit I might find torturous, some others will go - [sm=sleepy.gif]But assuming that just because of the sex of a person means they will work is naive at best.  You have to know the persons eek factor and work with them as an individual to know if it's so called evil or not for them.
 
the.dark.




lameduck13 -> RE: How Evil Are You? (4/2/2009 2:31:49 PM)

With all do respect the poster was not asking for your opinions on the matter the poster was asking for examples of what we thought were evil if you don't have any ideas to contribute please don't bother, this isn't a flame thread because we see things differently.




RedMagic1 -> RE: How Evil Are You? (4/2/2009 2:55:53 PM)

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ORIGINAL: lameduck13

With all do respect the poster was not asking for your opinions on the matter the poster was asking for examples of what we thought were evil if you don't have any ideas to contribute please don't bother, this isn't a flame thread because we see things differently.

You recently posted about how you chose a dominant poorly and ended up in an abusive relationship that lasted for over a year.  It doesn't surprise me that you have lots of "great" ideas of "evil" things to do to a sub.  It also does not surprise me that people with realtime experience at building healthy, successful D/s relationships are saying the OP's question demonstrates an immature way of looking at human relationships.

It is not a flamepost for someone to say that most of the notions you and the OP have written are incompatible with long-term relationship success.  The 18 months you lost from your life are a good example of why NOT to take ideas like this seriously.

Please be careful.




lameduck13 -> RE: How Evil Are You? (4/2/2009 3:02:13 PM)

Redmagic I'm going to assume you were talking about the except from my life I revealed in another thread when you are talking about the 18 months lost from my life. If im correct read on if not don't bother reading.

First, as much as a horror as it may appear to have been the more and more I think about it, the time I spent with that Domme were what I needed at the time. I honoestly believe that people are growing and changing all through life, as I grew and changed my Domme could not, there for I felt I had to cut it off. I did not leave because it was to intense or to extreme, just not what I needed any longer. And after a nice phone conversation yesterday with my former Domme she is happy with a new submissive and they couldn't be more happy.




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