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ladysekhmetka -> Revealing to your significant other... (4/1/2009 11:08:18 AM)
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So after using the search function and either the topic not being mentioned (possible) or I fail at search engines (more likely), I come seeking knowledge and wisdom from the assembled populace of the board. If this is in the wrong place, please let me know or move it to the appropriate boards.
I consider myself something of an amateur writer and at the moment I'm writing a science fiction/fantasy (more scifi) series of stories. One of the main characters and her significant other are involved in BDSM, both before they met each other. They meet in such a way that doesn't reveal their preferences. While it may not be a huge role in the story (as I plan for this to be mostly an adventure/action set of stories with maybe one or two romantic/erotic chapters or stories), how they first reveal this information to each other will be referenced or used in a side story.
Now, I need to figure out how they break the ice to each other on this, and while I know how I would do it, neither of these characters would handle things the way I do. So I'm looking for how other people have revealed their involvement in kink to a possible significant other (I hope that's plain enough), specifically from female submissive and male dominant perspectives.
Also, as a secondary topic, if anyone has any crazy ideas or theories on the differences between BDSM and sex toy tech in general of today and the practices in a highly advanced technological society (think Spaceships, Interplantary Travel, energy weapons, etc.) they would be willing to share, I would appreciate it.
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