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I put the following ad in...on Craigslist..... - 3/30/2009 6:36:16 PM   
LookieNoNookie


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Of course....Craigslist doesn't have the best list of folks who actually think for a living....but I put it out there because...it's a local kind of gig (By the way...this isn't an ad....I'm just flumoxed because I can't actually grasp why this is so dammed difficult for some folks):

"Single sub, looking for his best friend - 50 (Eastside)
Reply to: xxxxxx@xxxxxx
Date: 2009-03-28, 6:52PM PDT

Just your basic single male, looking for his best friend...the love of his life.

5/9, 220, green eyes, slightly taller than my hair....smart, successful, looking for someone who understands the sub/Domme lifestyle.

I really hope someone doesn't purge this post, because it's sincere.

So many think that because it interferes with their preconceptions...that it's inherently 'wrong".

It's right for me.

I make a lot of decisions every day...some are hard...some are easy...but, when I come home, I want someone who makes all the (home and relationship) decisions.

I'm a Christian...so you may find it odd that I want a woman to lead my life. That's okay if you struggle with that.

I don't.

I prefer a strong woman.

And, my preference would be to be with a woman who understands a cuckold relationship. It's not all that odd really...it's just different.

So am I.

I want to care for someone, and I want to love someone deeply. Sub men are that way...We're the guys you walked away from because you thought we didn't have a spine....oddly enough...we do....we just use it to support every dream you ever had.

It's funny....most women would tell you they want someone who adores them (and "can't find them"). A sub male lives for that...he desires that....it's his oxygen.

And yet, so many women think "OMFG...a sub man....that's weird"...then they spend the next 30 years wondering why their man doesn't pay attention to them.

And yet here we are...in abundance...I'm only one of many...we absolutely love....to love.

You.

Strangely, all you have to do is take control.

Isn't it funny....so many of you spend inordinate amounts of time frustrated....trying to get your man to do what you want...and he won't listen...because you come to it from the wrong angle.

Yet here I am....like so many others....desirous of doing exactly what you want...every day....to the letter....

And all you have to do is take control....from a man who so wants to give it.

Anyway...as I said....I'd like to find my best friend.

I'm not the first to post similarly...and I surely won't be the last (there's more than a few of us).

When I find you....it'll be my last (post)."

**************

I got every kind of chic who wanted a friend....except....those who knew what a sub was...and/or a cuckold.

(None knew what a Domme was).

And by the way....I got 29 responses in 12 hours (from chics who had no clue whatsoever what any of the above meant....so....all you Dommes that think us subs can't read....your Vanilla sisters have the same problem!).

I'm going to become a Monk.


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RE: I put the following ad in...on Craigslist..... - 3/30/2009 7:27:44 PM   
DedicatedDom40


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Status: offline 		Are you sure they didnt interpret 'sub' to be subdivision?

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RE: I put the following ad in...on Craigslist..... - 3/30/2009 7:33:50 PM   
twoisnotenough


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Status: offline 		Ooh.. are we doing sub-division? I know a couple i would Love to time share.
Dude! 29 responces in 12 hours? good grief. give it a couple days, at that pace you may just find someone to hang with.

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RE: I put the following ad in...on Craigslist..... - 3/30/2009 7:38:01 PM   
popeye1250


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Status: offline 		I took an ad out on Craigslist last week for a bondage model shoot.
I got 3 responses and a gorgeous slender redhead will be here Wed afternoon for some great bondage pics!

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RE: I put the following ad in...on Craigslist..... - 3/30/2009 7:38:36 PM   
kittinSol


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Status: offline 		I liked your ad (also, I had no idea you were such a babe, but that's irrelevant *sigh*). It doesn't really surprise me though that you got this odd assortment of ill-fitting replies, Lookie... Craigslist is the Walmart of personal ads. Perhaps patience will yield good results? I hope it works out for you :-) .

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RE: I put the following ad in...on Craigslist..... - 3/30/2009 8:35:21 PM   
Vendaval


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Status: offline 		Silly Lookie,
 
Offer them free chocolate, champagne and shoes!
 
(If trolling for men offer steak and blow job and beer.)

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RE: I put the following ad in...on Craigslist..... - 3/31/2009 12:56:10 AM   
philosophy


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ORIGINAL: Vendaval


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...you forgot the TV remote.......

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RE: I put the following ad in...on Craigslist..... - 3/31/2009 5:10:05 AM   
LookieNoNookie


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Vendaval

Silly Lookie,
 
Offer them free chocolate, champagne and shoes!
 
(If trolling for men offer steak and blow job and beer.)


Hahahahahahahaha

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RE: I put the following ad in...on Craigslist..... - 3/31/2009 5:17:27 AM   
housesub4you


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Status: offline 		Hey Popeye

Sorry I can't make it wed.   how about Thursday

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RE: I put the following ad in...on Craigslist..... - 3/31/2009 8:17:23 AM   
subfever


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Status: offline 		A couple months ago, the Adult Gigs section in the Chicago area suddenly morphed into sexually-oriented, play-for-pay contact section. It was only a short time ago, when ads like these would have been quickly flagged and removed. At the same time, the number of posted ads in this section has exponentially increased.

It seems as though either the self-appointed guardians of CraigsList all left at once, or CraigsList modified their flagging system. In either event, Adult Gigs now has a very sleezy look. A high percentage of these ads now explicitly offer cash for sexual acts, and could be law enforcement's dream, if LE wanted to go fishing for a few easy busts.


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RE: I put the following ad in...on Craigslist..... - 3/31/2009 8:41:34 AM   
MsFlutter


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Status: offline 		I love that ad - it will strike a chord with someone out there. I hope it is soon.
 
taller than your hair <chuckle> that's cute :)

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RE: I put the following ad in...on Craigslist..... - 3/31/2009 8:46:49 AM   
sappatoti


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ORIGINAL: subfever
A couple months ago, the Adult Gigs section in the Chicago area suddenly morphed into sexually-oriented, play-for-pay contact section. It was only a short time ago, when ads like these would have been quickly flagged and removed. At the same time, the number of posted ads in this section has exponentially increased.

It seems as though either the self-appointed guardians of CraigsList all left at once, or CraigsList modified their flagging system. In either event, Adult Gigs now has a very sleezy look. A high percentage of these ads now explicitly offer cash for sexual acts, and could be law enforcement's dream, if LE wanted to go fishing for a few easy busts.

The same has happened to the Craigslists in a number of cities I occasionally peruse. I think I remember a while back about Craigslist beginning to charge posters to the "Services" section a nominal fee, if they were asking for payment in exchange for their services (and who wouldn't if you're trying to drum up business?). I haven't researched this but from reading a number of posts in the "Rants and Raves" section, which seems to anecdotally mention it, I just figured there was some element of truth to it.

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Perhaps those who wish not to pay the fee are moving their ads into other areas where the fee is not a problem?

I've seen the same types of "pay for play" ads, though uniquely worded, appear in the "Personals" section as well. Quite annoying.

Where DID all those über watchdog flaggers disappear to anyway?

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RE: I put the following ad in...on Craigslist..... - 3/31/2009 9:18:52 AM   
aravain


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Status: offline 		most of 'em have given up for my city, at least on the m4m section.

I just read occasionally now and laugh my ass off at the 40 year old virgin who was a power-bottom 30 year old yesterday with the same picture... silly things like that.

Occasionally Cleveland's m4m section will have loads of drama too it's fun to read, then!

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RE: I put the following ad in...on Craigslist..... - 3/31/2009 9:23:45 AM   
popeye1250


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Status: offline 		I'm off to meet the model at the local Hooter's for lunch!

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RE: I put the following ad in...on Craigslist..... - 3/31/2009 9:29:43 AM   
kittinSol


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ORIGINAL: popeye1250

I'm off to meet the model at the local Hooter's for lunch!



Will you have Ketchup with that  ?

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RE: I put the following ad in...on Craigslist..... - 3/31/2009 11:31:29 AM   
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RE: I put the following ad in...on Craigslist..... - 3/31/2009 12:47:29 PM   
subfever


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quote:


Where DID all those über watchdog flaggers disappear to anyway?


Good question.

As little as 5-6 months ago, they were out in full force. They were actually annoying, as they were aggressively flagging ads that were far less explicit than what I see today.

The ads are so utterly blatant today and in such large comparative volume, that before long, the vast majority of women using it will be those prostituting themselves. The "good" girls will avoid it just to avoid guilt by association.

I have to admit that while I generally do not appreciate self-appointed guardians of other people's moralities, I'm going to miss the former usefulness of the Adult Gig section. It's entirely possible that the flaggers were the lesser of two evils.

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RE: I put the following ad in...on Craigslist..... - 3/31/2009 3:38:43 PM   
Vendaval


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quote:

ORIGINAL: popeye1250
I'm off to meet the model at the local Hooter's for lunch!


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RE: I put the following ad in...on Craigslist..... - 3/31/2009 6:09:39 PM   
LookieNoNookie


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ORIGINAL: MadAxeman

They serve food?


(I actually read that somewhere).

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RE: I put the following ad in...on Craigslist..... - 3/31/2009 7:07:17 PM   
popeye1250


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Status: offline 		Actually she's a stripper who works in one of the local "Gentlemen's Clubs."
I met her and her boyfriend for lunch at Hooters this afternoon and they seem real nice.
She's 5'7", red hair, 140 lbs, blue eyes and nice body.
Her boyfriend actually answered the ad. They'll be here at 2 pm tommorrow so I'm getting things cleaned up, sterilizing the gags that she'll be wearing, putting on clean sheets and pillow cases, and putting one of those "under the bed restraint systems" under the mattress.
I installed some eye hooks in the wall on the corners of the doorway for some standup shots, and some in the wall behind the head of the bed.
Also we'll be doing some shots of her tied over the kitchen table and maybe some hog ties on the living roo carpt or maybe the bed.
And they want copies of the pics too.

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