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Greetings from from an excited new dom to the site! - 3/27/2009 11:03:31 AM

MasterWithAPlan

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Such a warm welcome everyone is getting here! Nice to know that people are accepting of things not quite....."normal".

I'm new to the site, and already seeing ways to make friends, keep a dialogue, and to find what it is I am so eargly seeking!

I'm a dominant man working towards being a great master, and I work harder at it than anyone may even think possible. Everything in my life is starting to revolve around being good at this, it is such a rush!

While everything on the whole is going well a problem I've been coming across are submissives not responding to messages I'm trying to gain trust through. Some people want domination immediately, but in my opinion, if I don't deserve submission, why the hell are you giving it to me? Lol, so I DONT plan on being like that right off the bat, no matter how unattractive it may sem to someone wanting dominance. Anyone else feel this way? BUT, if you answer my mails and we get past the first couple and you're still interested, then the switch will be flipped. I understand the need to feel dominated by a personality, but isn't it unhealthy to do it immediately? A safety issue? I'd like to hear your opinions about this, for or against, its all helpful!

My profile is a good read, I put a bit of time into it. Take a peek.

Look forward to seeing you all on the dark side........

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RE: Greetings from from an excited new dom to the site! - 3/27/2009 11:27:56 AM

GoddessRavenClaw

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Yes I agree with you....I am a Dom and its surprising how many people message expecting some kind of 'play' straight away. I dont see how anyone can have a sub/dom relationship without first building trust and some common ground, after all, is the key element not trust?

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RE: Greetings from from an excited new dom to the site! - 3/27/2009 11:42:06 AM

CarrieO

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Welcome!

Nice profile...I tend to enjoy the ones that take the time to "sell" themselves and can articulate properly.
Try to look past the ones who don't reply and focus on remaining positive...and post on the forums.

Enjoy, good luck and have fun!

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RE: Greetings from from an excited new dom to the site! - 3/27/2009 5:02:16 PM

DarkSteven

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Personally, I agree with you. Domination should be done after some sort of rapport is established. But to each their own...

Anyhow, welcome.

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The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

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