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RE: Confused and curious about Dom/Dom couples - 1/27/2006 12:38:31 AM

misssubmisse

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RM - For years, I have had the habit of saying things like, "Yes, Master" "Yes, Daddy" "As you wish, Oh Great One" sarcastically, or playfully too, and never knew there was such a thing as "age play"...This site is quickly changing the way I do things

It's been funny to see things I used to say, or even picking up things others say IRL and it makes me giggle in a new way now because of the double entendre effect. You, experienced people, have probably been laughing at the 'nillas for years, eh? lol

LOL @ the quote, fantastic is nice, I'll try

Petr - Thanks for that, good analogy since I've studied business...what an obscure way to have what i learned apply to my life though, eh? lol

Slaveless - Thanks for your story, now I've read of more couples that are having a similar relationship, so I'm actuall able to understand how it works, thank God for all the replies and the fact the information's stuck for the most part lol

Btw, wish you both the best of luck finding the right slave for you, hope you find the right one soon

Iron - Thanks for your own story too, that helps also. I have no idea yet about Gor and from what I'm told it's pretty intricate just in it's own right, so I'll have to learn the basics thoroughly first, then move on to the next challenge lest i fry my braincell

lol I do know what poly means though and didn't have to ask, I'm proud of myself for the moment

Thanks to everyone who has replied, you're all wonderful to offer your knowlege and I appreciate your time

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RE: Confused and curious about Dom/Dom couples - 1/27/2006 1:00:23 AM

RavenMuse

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quote:

ORIGINAL: misssubmisse
RM - For years, I have had the habit of saying things like, "Yes, Master" "Yes, Daddy" "As you wish, Oh Great One" sarcastically, or playfully too, and never knew there was such a thing as "age play"...This site is quickly changing the way I do things It's been funny to see things I used to say, or even picking up things others say IRL and it makes me giggle in a new way now because of the double entendre effect. You, experienced people, have probably been laughing at the 'nillas for years, eh? lol

Given how new the whole online community is to me I don't feel like an 'experienced people'

But yes, vanilla friends are used to me suddenly chuckling at some seemingly innocent comment "Oh Raven is off again, what this time?..... no on second thoughts, we probably don't want to know!"

Of course some know more than they let on and 'accidentaly' say such things to catch me out.... a couple are prone to doing so just as I take a mouthfull of coffee.... caffiene sinus wash is NOT recomended.

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RE: Confused and curious about Dom/Dom couples - 1/27/2006 1:29:59 AM

misssubmisse

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LOL @ caffeine sinus wash

I haven't told anyone in my RL about what I enjoy with a partner at this point, so for me when they make comments, it's much harder not to have a fit of school girl laughter because I know they're blissfully unaware.

I've had more "moments" like those with complete strangers, and I prefer them actually, because then I know even if I looked like a goofball, I'll likely never face them again lol

Had a bank teller in her golden years once make about 3 consecutive comments about whips, something tells me she very well may have a profile here somewhere lol I should pay her a visit again sometime soon, it was fun to both pretend we didn't mean it "that way"

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RE: Confused and curious about Dom/Dom couples - 1/30/2006 3:06:29 PM

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I know a Dom/Domina couple. Yes, they each have submissives but are one another's primary lovers. It's a good example of how you need to be ready to set aside any past concepts of relationship in this community. This works for them, so it's OK with me.

Just to complicate things, their adult child came out to them as a Domina and she has a submissive.

Kinda makes you want to ask who takes out the trash...

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RE: Confused and curious about Dom/Dom couples - 2/1/2006 8:03:42 PM

Dracironsgirl

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quote:

ORIGINAL: misssubmisse

i've been messaged by a few Dom/Dom couples (i'll just use the Dom/Dom even though there's also been Domme/Dom and Domme/Domme but it's too much to type them all every time :S lol)

So it got me thinking, how would two Doms be a couple?

good question ..i didnt think Doms or sub/slaves went together as a couple, kind of like opposites attract, but then just me in thought

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