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CocoaKeyHolder -> Quick question... (3/13/2009 7:54:20 AM)

I know the answer to this question very well, I was just wondering how many other peole actually do as well.
Does anyone know the difference between a hotwife and a cuckoldress?



antipode -> RE: Quick question... (3/13/2009 8:15:45 AM)

quote:

difference between a hotwife and a cuckoldress


I have no idea what a hotwife is.



feydeplume -> RE: Quick question... (3/13/2009 8:21:03 AM)

is a hotwife like a slutwife? thereby making a hotwife submissive or switch with her partner, while cuckoldress tends (not always,  i know) to be dominate or switch with her partner?



VeryNastyDom -> RE: Quick question... (3/13/2009 9:01:40 AM)

The dictionary definition of cuckold is a male who raises and supports the child of another male, thinking that it is his. 

That definition has kind of morphed into a description of a man who knows that his wife sleeps with other men, both with and without his tacit approval.  The term "hot wife" and "cuckoldress" get used interchangably and with no precision whatsoever.



windchymes -> RE: Quick question... (3/13/2009 10:16:51 AM)

I thought a "hotwife" was one who was approaching menopause.....[8|]



kittinSol -> RE: Quick question... (3/13/2009 10:18:00 AM)

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ORIGINAL: windchymes

I thought a "hotwife" was one who was approaching menopause.....[8|]


A hotwife is like a hotplate, just less flat.



Lockit -> RE: Quick question... (3/13/2009 10:18:47 AM)

That would be a hot wife evolving to wife on fire!



Lynnxz -> RE: Quick question... (3/13/2009 10:39:26 AM)

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ORIGINAL: kittinSol

quote:

ORIGINAL: windchymes

I thought a "hotwife" was one who was approaching menopause.....[8|]


A hotwife is like a hotplate, just less flat.


:(

Lumpy pancakes.



feydeplume -> RE: Quick question... (3/13/2009 10:41:59 AM)

thanks, learned something there I think. New terms and usage pop up all the time. I was wondering if it was the new porn term for MILF with threeway (hotwife I mean).




ThatDamnedPanda -> RE: Quick question... (3/13/2009 11:56:54 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: kittinSol

quote:

ORIGINAL: windchymes

I thought a "hotwife" was one who was approaching menopause.....[8|]


A hotwife is like a hotplate, just less flat.


Depends on the wife, no?



HeavansKeeper -> RE: Quick question... (3/13/2009 2:00:57 PM)

There's little debate in my mind about what a hotwife is. She's the one with partners other than the husband.

Cuckold vs. Cuckoldress vs. cuckolder vs. cuckoldee give me reason for pause.

A cuckold is a person who enjoys* having their spouse use others sexually. This is more the kink definition than dictionary definition. Using the same logic as found in "waiter vs. waitress", the cuckoldress is a female who's partner uses others for sex. The truth is, gender and cuckoldry are exclusive. Both men and women who are "left at home" should be able to be called cuckolds.

The question was "What's the difference between a hotwife and a cuckoldress?"

A hotwife has sex with people other than the main squeeze.
A cuckoldress's main squeeze has sex with others.

They're opposites, of sorts.



*I needed a verb. You can replace with "is victim of" if you prefer [8D]



VanessaChaland -> RE: Quick question... (3/13/2009 3:30:46 PM)

In modern day usage of the two terms, a cuckold is more likely to be submissive (humiliation, serving and other kink involved activities) to his wife and her dating other men while a hotwife tends to be more of the vanilla swinger variety.

Obviously the true definition of a cuckold simply means a married male who's wife has extra marital affairs, with or without his knowledge or permission. As it has become more "fetishized" there are a variety of subtle nuances, terminology that tend to separate or define the two. At least the online "version" and we all know everything online is accurate and true, lol. :)



Prinsexx -> RE: Quick question... (3/13/2009 3:50:33 PM)

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igor2003 -> RE: Quick question... (3/13/2009 3:53:57 PM)

A hotwife is one that is shared by her spouse with other people with her husbands complete knowledge and encouragement.

A cuckoldress is one that has sexual encounters with other people of her own choice, without regard as whether her husband knows or cares.



DesFIP -> RE: Quick question... (3/13/2009 4:01:57 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Prinsexx

and for a hotwife a good vibrating spin on the washing machine isn't because it washes his shirts well...



This has always confused the hell out of me. I mean, do the rest of you keep stepladders around so you can get up on top of the machine or what? Because mine is too tall for me to sit on.



Maya2001 -> RE: Quick question... (3/13/2009 5:53:38 PM)

use of arms much like getting on a horse, though with vibes like the magic wand who needs to climb on the washer anymore



kallisto -> RE: Quick question... (3/13/2009 6:02:48 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: DesFIP

quote:

ORIGINAL: Prinsexx

and for a hotwife a good vibrating spin on the washing machine isn't because it washes his shirts well...



This has always confused the hell out of me. I mean, do the rest of you keep stepladders around so you can get up on top of the machine or what? Because mine is too tall for me to sit on.


I grab onto the cabinets above the washing machine and hoist myself up, then do a 180 degree turn so I don't have to throw  my legs over the back of the machine.  [:)]   (ok, I only do this when I'm needing something out of said cabinets)  [:)]  sorry Des...just an attempt at a little humor



MG4Apuppygirl -> RE: Quick question... (3/14/2009 2:42:54 AM)

Awww.....How cute. Another trick question from someone who already knows the answer.



thishereboi -> RE: Quick question... (3/14/2009 6:56:18 AM)

I have never heard of a hotwife before. I hope you come back and let us know how many posters got it right. I looked at your profile and noticed the fantasy about having your bulls child. I have to wonder what kind of explanation your going to come up with when the kid gets old enough to want to know who daddy is. How does that work?



RealSub58 -> RE: Quick question... (3/14/2009 8:49:18 AM)

I just read the pretentious thread ...... perfect example?  The OP



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