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Edge play - 3/11/2009 4:26:47 PM

LoveHate

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Now, I respect the dangers associated with asphyxiation and suffocation scenes, and yet I cannot stay away... certainly most of you can understand. I've found that some woman practice this somewhat taboo fetish, but I've yet to meet someone who truly enjoys this type of edge play herself.

Do any of you Dommes out there enjoy this type of play? What do you enjoy about it?

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RE: Edge play - 3/11/2009 4:34:07 PM

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Do air tight penalty boxes count?

Breath control is my number one fetish outside of bondage. However...I am cautious to the core, so I tend to only roleplay it, except for some gloved hand-over-mouth stuff, some creative gags and telling a man to hold his breath if he knows what's good for him. While I watch. That can keep me entertained for hours.

Beyond that, for more intimate partners, smothering and forced (I should say, "forced") oral worship, whatever you may call it..yeah. But still, I can't get enough of the idea of converting a hockey penalty box into my *own* type of penalty box, but that won't be happening -- except in my head **

Akasha

** Note: Clear showers with four walls are most excellent for roleplaying this air tight box. I'm just sayin'.....

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RE: Edge play - 3/11/2009 6:29:01 PM

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Yes! I love creativity in this and any practice... safe, of course, but it's too much fun!

It's such a powerful exchange, and yet it physically excites me like crazy... I just can't get enough!

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RE: Edge play - 3/14/2009 8:01:37 PM

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Hi.

One of my Mistress friends loves this. She smothers a sub with a pillow and she sits on his face at TV time too. She'd made some videos on this. It always shocks me how long the guy can take it.

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RE: Edge play - 3/14/2009 8:33:49 PM

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Yes, I do enjoy the fetish. No, I tend to avoid real strangulation, which has unpredictable results. I tend to like the men who are close to me for their brains as much or more than their bodies. Rendering one braindead for the sake of a sex game is an unacceptable risk.

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RE: Edge play - 3/14/2009 9:23:56 PM

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I don't play with "edges" close enough to death or stroke to render me liable to prosecution for first-degree homicide. Hard limit.

Besides, I have had a stroke. Not taking that karmic burden. Knife play is all the edge play I want to muck with.

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RE: Edge play - 3/15/2009 1:44:24 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LoveHate

Now, I respect the dangers associated with asphyxiation and suffocation scenes, and yet I cannot stay away... certainly most of you can understand. I've found that some woman practice this somewhat taboo fetish, but I've yet to meet someone who truly enjoys this type of edge play herself.

Do any of you Dommes out there enjoy this type of play? What do you enjoy about it?

Are you asking if there are any women who like to have this done to them or any who do this to someone else?

I will only say... I care for a son (adult) with anoxic brain injury and have done research and know how many who enjoy this, have had things go wrong and what is sometimes left from what seemed so thought out and done right. I know what isn't available in information for those left to care for them... I know that little medical protocal is something I find worthy or even helpful to many and that we don't have the facilities to care for them properly. And I know that there aren't many talking about it because they are so overwhelmed in caring for their loved one's that they just can't handle much more and when they do have time, they are escaping the day to day of it and where this accident has put them in life.

Looking into the face of a loved one who is gone... who looks mostly normal, young and healthy, who has far less brain cells to work with is heart breaking. Anoxic brain injury is not like other forms of brain injury where it can be located in one or two spots, but is found all over the brain, which will affect all sorts of things and doesn't have the healing rate or expectations like other brain injuries. Those brain cells are dead and there is no rebirth.

I'd rather play on the freeway blindfolded.

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RE: Edge play - 3/15/2009 2:53:39 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LoveHate

Now, I respect the dangers associated with asphyxiation and suffocation scenes, and yet I cannot stay away... certainly most of you can understand. I've found that some woman practice this somewhat taboo fetish, but I've yet to meet someone who truly enjoys this type of edge play herself.

Do any of you Dommes out there enjoy this type of play? What do you enjoy about it?

I am a slave who loves this type of play a great deal. I know my Lord loves the feeling of complete and utter control he has when he holds my life in his hands - so literally. I am sure that there are Mistresses out there who feel the same - it may just take a bit to find one who does.

Good luck in your search - I'm sure she's out there and waiting for you!

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RE: Edge play - 3/15/2009 3:16:59 AM

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*hugs Lockit*

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RE: Edge play - 3/15/2009 3:23:35 AM

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i have had a hand over my mouth fetish and gag fetish for a very long time.whether the hand is gloved or not,a womans hand over my mouth sets me soaring.i think it is something rather special as outwardly lame as the act itself appears.there are times when a hand over the mouth cannot be done and so a gag is more appropriate.With that said..i also have a need to breathe fetish since conception.Afterall i would not be getting anymore hands across the mouth if i were planted in the ground..just my two cents.

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RE: Edge play - 3/15/2009 4:37:15 AM

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Yes I love breath play and I will put my hand up and admit I sexually get off on having his life in my hands. Holding a hand over his mouth and nose and whispering in his ear 'you breath when I say you can breath', feeling his body struggling underneath me, letting go for just a moment and hearing him gasp......... theres something highly erotic about this but then I'm not stupid. I know how long he can hold his breath and I do remember to count. There have been times when he has had to wait a little longer because I'm on the pinnacle of an orgasm but its never that long that he will pass out.

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RE: Edge play - 3/15/2009 4:55:19 AM

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quote:

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i have had a hand over my mouth fetish and gag fetish for a very long time.whether the hand is gloved or not,a womans hand over my mouth sets me soaring.i think it is something rather special as outwardly lame as the act itself appears.there are times when a hand over the mouth cannot be done and so a gag is more appropriate.With that said..i also have a need to breathe fetish since conception.Afterall i would not be getting anymore hands across the mouth if i were planted in the ground..just my two cents.

... and then who would make the meatballs?

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RE: Edge play - 3/15/2009 4:58:47 AM

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quote:

With that said..i also have a need to breathe fetish since conception.

excuses, excuses

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RE: Edge play - 3/15/2009 6:13:34 AM

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quote:

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quote:

With that said..i also have a need to breathe fetish since conception.
excuses, excuses

yeah.. what are you going to do with these whiney subs? I swear...

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RE: Edge play - 3/15/2009 8:09:49 AM

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LoveHate:

When I was training with a Domme learning skills like these. She was heavily into edge play. She was an edgy type person where I am more subdued and laid back.
I allowed her to do needle play on my slave, and I nearly passed out while she was doing it, and I merely assisted her. He did pass out when she put him in the cage. He said he was is sub/slave space for three days, and I believe it because I saw his behavior.
It is not for everyone, and you need a lot of personal training with a Dom/me before you try it on your own.

Best Wishes.

MJ

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RE: Edge play - 3/15/2009 3:42:39 PM

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who would make the meatballs?????..Emeril Lagasse????and i am not touching the whining subs comment...smiles.

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RE: Edge play - 3/15/2009 5:53:24 PM

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The most I've done with breath play is having my mouth and nose covered by a hand. I've read too many horror stories about play gone wrong to consent to certain things. My fantasies are completely different from what I will allow myself to be subjected to. I just think breath play in extreme forms is asking for trouble.

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RE: Edge play - 3/15/2009 6:11:51 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: AAkasha

Do air tight penalty boxes count?

Breath control is my number one fetish outside of bondage. However...I am cautious to the core, so I tend to only roleplay it, except for some gloved hand-over-mouth stuff, some creative gags and telling a man to hold his breath if he knows what's good for him. While I watch. That can keep me entertained for hours.

Beyond that, for more intimate partners, smothering and forced (I should say, "forced") oral worship, whatever you may call it..yeah. But still, I can't get enough of the idea of converting a hockey penalty box into my *own* type of penalty box, but that won't be happening -- except in my head **

Akasha

** Note: Clear showers with four walls are most excellent for roleplaying this air tight box. I'm just sayin'.....

For God's sake, A. OK - you said once before I was a wimp and maybe you're right. But, jeez, you do alarm me sometimes. What the fackenell was that stuff about 'converted hockey penalty boxes'?

On second thoughts - don't tell me. I think you're a nice lady underneath it all, and I don't want to hear tell of you languishing in some modern-day Alcatraz.

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RE: Edge play - 3/15/2009 6:34:20 PM

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I love the idea of breath play, and I will do a little smothering with ahem... well, SMOTHERING, okay? But, a very dear dominant friend died as a result of breath play gone horribly wrong, and since then, it's just not something that I indulge in. No duct tape over the mouth, no carotid takedowns, nothing that interferes with the free flow of oxygen to the brain.

Bloodsports? NOW we're talking!

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RE: Edge play - 3/15/2009 7:03:59 PM

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For God's sake, A. OK - you said once before I was a wimp and maybe you're right. But, jeez, you do alarm me sometimes. What the fackenell was that stuff about 'converted hockey penalty boxes'?

On second thoughts - don't tell me. I think you're a nice lady underneath it all, and I don't want to hear tell of you languishing in some modern-day Alcatraz.

I assume you are being a little silly and are not SERIOUSLY offput by this. It's all fantasy, as I noted. But incredibly hot when roleplayed effectively. I have a great shower for that.

Some subs meet me and I share some of these more *obscure* fantasies (yes, I have some others that are even more obscure than that) and sadly for some subs if it doesn't turn his crank (or involve his cock or ass) he doesn't have much patience in exploring it. Last I heard, femdom was about making my panties wet, and *sometimes* the fantasy might be mine, not his. A man who embraces it and tries to understand it is far more likely to have his tongue in my pussy or strap on cock in his ass than one that says, "Well that's too weird. What else are you into?"

So subs - the rule of thumb I'd give is this: Sometimes you may be rewarded for having the patience and selflessness to explore ideas that don't really get you off. In this case, we're talking about roleplay anyway, not actual breath control.

Akasha

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