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Fantasies - 3/4/2009 2:38:17 PM   
pridedenied


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Status: offline 		I've been thinking a lot lately about fantasies and how often I find
my own coming true as of late. For example, I wrote down one that
started in the shower and included all sorts of fun things; (getting
pushed down, being layed on top of, lots of licking... just to name a
few)

Has anyone else ever had a fantasy just come true? I think it has a
lot to do with how in sync you are with your domme. I am so thankful
for mine! :D Does anyone care to share some fantasies that have come
true or that you wish would come true?

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RE: Fantasies - 3/4/2009 2:55:01 PM   
MasterRaid


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From: The Brink of insanity.
Status: offline 		My fantasy includes world peace and a structured health care plan.
             Not really I have simple needs, most have been met. I prefer helping others to fulfill theirs.


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RE: Fantasies - 3/4/2009 3:10:59 PM   
jakelogan01


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Status: offline 		sometimes dreams and nightmares come true, but it's usually us who make them possible. if your dreams are coming true, you must be doing something right, even if you are not aware of it

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RE: Fantasies - 3/4/2009 3:11:35 PM   
CatdeMedici


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Status: offline 		I don't have fantasies, I have goals and dreams--goals I accomplish, dreams I strive for and they become goals.

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RE: Fantasies - 3/15/2009 5:57:26 PM   
heartbound


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Status: offline 		I have often heard that fantasy and reality are two totally different things.  I think that is true for the most part. 

However, for the first ten years I was in the lifestyle, I always had fantasies about being slapped in the face.  It never happened and it wasn't something I ever told anyone about.  Mistress and I met over two years ago and she did it to me during one of our play sessions.  I could not believe how ridiculously turned on I was, and how submissive it made me feel.  So that was a fantasy come true.  But I can also honestly say that Mistress is my fantasy come true. 

There are some fantasies I have had that I don't think I would want in reality.  It's kind of like going to a nudist beach.  In your mind, everyone is attractive and hot looking.  When you get there, reality hits and you realize nudists are not limited to those who are easy on the eyes. 

I have had fantasies such as being forced to sexually serve multiple partners, being passed off to another Dom/Domme for punishment, and being in a rape scene or even a prison scene.  For the most part, I think my fantasy would be nothing like the reality and it would be better off staying a fantasy.

-heartbound

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RE: Fantasies - 3/15/2009 10:16:57 PM   
masterlink65


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Status: offline 		no, if my fantasy came true i would have taken over by now, and everyone would be retrained by now.

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RE: Fantasies - 3/16/2009 12:52:19 AM   
VanessaChaland


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Status: offline 		I used to fantasize about getting laid. Period, lol.

Now I am a happily married bisexual lady who cuckolds her husband and has kinky "interludes" with other members of both sexes of a variety of types and natures. So yes, not only have my fantasies come true, but ones I never even knew about years ago have happened.

(Now the only fantasies I have regard bitch slapping my accountant and finding a decent online source for gluten free chips.) :)

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RE: Fantasies - 3/16/2009 6:10:49 PM   
BohemianGoddess


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Status: offline 		I can't say my fantasies have come true. Some of them are pretty wicked and would probably screw with my mind forever big time if I dared to try them. I have always thought that I would let my fantasies just be a dream. If I do everything then there would be nothing else to lust about. Otherwise, my fantasies have been about goals and dreams that I can achieve to make myself a better person.

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RE: Fantasies - 3/16/2009 8:37:29 PM   
WestBaySlave


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Status: offline 		  I appreciate many of my fantasies because I can do things in my mind that I can't or wouldn't want to do in real life. This does make for awkward conversation when someone says something like "Tell me your darkest fantasy and I'll make it come true," because my internal reaction is "Eek! Please don't!"



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RE: Fantasies - 3/16/2009 9:34:13 PM   
Kana


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Status: offline 		I have made most of my fantasies come true, in and out of BDSM
Whats the point in having dreams unless you chase them?
That said...
I have a few fantasies no one, and that especially includes me, wants to see true
That's why they are just that
Fantasies
But the best fantasy...
The very best,
Was the first play
After years of dreaming of it

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RE: Fantasies - 3/16/2009 10:07:31 PM   
crazyredhead1957


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Status: offline 		He has asked me to write down some of my fantasies and He is making them come true.......even better in real life.  Also i fantasized for years about my first D/s experience and when it finally happened, it was better in reality.  i have been very lucky with fantasies that come true.  Only one was negative....that was an ex b/f from many years ago.....turned into a nightmare.  lol

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RE: Fantasies - 3/16/2009 11:52:07 PM   
xtremsportz86


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Status: offline 		I myself have many fantasies and so far only a few have come true. Partially because I have not taken advantage of the oppurtunities given me, but then also people not being willing to try things as well.

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RE: Fantasies - 3/17/2009 12:50:17 AM   
pixidustpet


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Status: offline 		there was one specific little thing that i had fantasized about for a few years, and had never spoken of it.  and the last time i got to see Daddy in person, he did it.  without me saying anything, without me asking.

that made it an even more special memory to me.  (it was silly, and positively vanilla in nature, and he was tickled pink when i told him how happy it made me.)

kitten

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RE: Fantasies - 3/17/2009 1:00:25 AM   
Juliannadelion


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From: circusofthedamned
Status: offline 		I had always had the fantasy of being bled during a beating.  Being able to suffer for the love and attentions of my Master.  I had never met anyone who shared that fantasy until I met Asher.  He has a lovely barbed cat and I was able to 'take it like a champ' if I do say so myself.

And it was better than I had ever hoped it could be.  The ache of the welts left was beautific for several days after.

And you are right, in my opinion, the better the owner knows his slave, the easier and better the reality of the fantasies becomes!

I'm a happy little painslut!

ps anyone who wants to see the barbed cat, it's the last pic on my profile

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RE: Fantasies - 3/17/2009 2:34:09 AM   
MG4Apuppygirl


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quote:

ORIGINAL: masterlink65

no, if my fantasy came true i would have taken over by now, and everyone would be retrained by now.


PMSL. maintain the rage brother.

To the OP. Your brain is your most lethal sexual weapon. Some people have fantasies that in reality may not be physically possible or indeed even legal. Over the years I have experimented both successfully and unsuccessfully with many fantasies, and the one thing that generally causes a failure is "expectation" or indeed the physical inability to live up to those "expectations". When push comes to shove you should be careful what you wish for. Transforming a fantasy into reality can be complex and take some very intense planning as well as some practice to iron out any issues, particularly when it comes to elaborate bondage scenarios.

Years ago, I had a fantasy (dream) of setting up a petgirl training facility. That fantasy is now reality, and yes it has happened naturally with all aspects seemingly clicking into place over time. I'm sure your fantasies will become more intense over time, but the trick I learnt was to imagine that fantasy twenty years into the future and question how I would make it reality.     
    

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RE: Fantasies - 3/17/2009 3:01:05 AM   
allthatjaz


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quote:

ORIGINAL: WestBaySlave

  I appreciate many of my fantasies because I can do things in my mind that I can't or wouldn't want to do in real life. This does make for awkward conversation when someone says something like "Tell me your darkest fantasy and I'll make it come true," because my internal reaction is "Eek! Please don't!"





Good on you for saying this. I wondered if anyone would!

Like you, some of my darker fantasies are so far away from reality that they could never come true. Others are kind of repulsive and others involve such violence that I would never want them to really take place.

I think I have pretty much done all the fantasies I wanted to.

One that we did recently was for me to walk into a club wearing a collar. I am so used to being seen out as a Mistress. Everyone in the club knows me as just that and so when I walked in wearing a collar the first thing that happened was a woman screamed accross the room "Oh my god Maria has a collar on... look everyone" This has been something that I have been so worried about doing because I didn't want to spoil peoples expectations of me but that night turned out to be liberating and very special.





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RE: Fantasies - 3/17/2009 3:16:58 AM   
Whiplashsmile4


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Status: offline 		I'd love for Katee Sackhoff and I to distroy the inside of Judge Judy's house while having extremely rough violent forceful sex with one another.  Cuts, blood, Bruises, bite marks and getting busted by her. Capturing it all on video for release on the internet.  Quickly slugging down what's left of a bottle of Wild Turkey before the police showed up. Making jokes all the way through the arrest and booking.  Then Katie and I being sued by Judge Judy in front of Judge Joe Brown.  Weeks later Katie and I hitting on Katie Couric together for a rough sex threesome during a national TV interview.  Britney Spears would not begin to come close out doing this one.

Can you imagine Judge Judy flipping out and the things she'd be saying?? lol...

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RE: Fantasies - 3/17/2009 2:37:24 PM   
kikkikat


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Status: offline 		Like many have said on here. . there are some fantasies that you just don't really want to have come true.  Things that are fun in your head - but in real life would be traumatic.  Though lately (for my Dom's 40th birthday) I'm considering one of those fantasies of having someone else involved in our play.   I've always worried how that would be in reality. 

That said there are also the less extreme fantasies that have come true for me.  Sleeping tied up is one that comes to mind.   
But the best thing is having someone that can help me make the fantasies I didn't even realize I had come true. 

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RE: Fantasies - 3/17/2009 4:01:50 PM   
antipode


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Status: offline 		No, I don't care to share fantasies with you - I have better things to do than sit here and write stories.

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RE: Fantasies - 3/18/2009 6:09:56 PM   
zombiebabe


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Status: offline 		I always had a fantasy that I would meet the man of my dreams who was perfect for me at the record store where I was taught to DJ by the owners, and he would be a DJ and ideally a producer as well cause I sing and we would share our music and have te deepest relationship ever

We're starting a dance event promotion company together :D

My fantasy is to have sex with a man dressed head to toe in black latex, preferably him. Well, the latex would come off at some point tee hee. He finds this quite amusing but still refuses to do it.

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